fluoride1337
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The reddit excuse for not doing this is "Heh, that's a great way to get instantly ARRESTED and sent to PRISON and RAPED "
Obviously a cope from failed normies who are just too nervous to approach women in general, these guys are using this excuse to not even warm approach women who give them clear iois.
You should absolutely approach women if you're acquainted, or if you're at a party/social setting, or if she gives you blatant iois.
On the flip side, there are many reasons that cold approaching is not worth it. Women are constantly fed horror stories of creepy (sub5) men cold approaching them thru social media, so that is a clear disadvantage already going against you. This combined with hypergamy makes cold approaching one of the most difficult situations to successfully get slays.
Even the cold approach copers admit this without realizing it. A common thing I see from them is "don't give up brah, I got rejected by 100 women before I got my first phone number!" (which probably led to nothing anyways )
"just spend your saturday cold approaching jbs at the mall bruh! it worked for me! if you still haven't slayed after approaching 100 wahmen you just need to buy my $60/month course!"
If you cold approach hundreds of women, all you are doing is gassing up beckies, increasing hoeflation, and ruining your self esteem. It isn't natural to get rejected by hundreds of women, it's why so many fakecels first get blackpilled from online dating; getting rejected by hundreds of women below your looksmatch is going to blackpill the most bluepilled normie. The funny thing about the apps is that most "rejections" aren't even actual rejections, their profiles were just simply never shown to the people they swiped right on, but it is still devastating to normies who do bad on them. Cold approaching is even worse because you get undeniable, blatant rejections straight to your face.
Obviously a cope from failed normies who are just too nervous to approach women in general, these guys are using this excuse to not even warm approach women who give them clear iois.
You should absolutely approach women if you're acquainted, or if you're at a party/social setting, or if she gives you blatant iois.
On the flip side, there are many reasons that cold approaching is not worth it. Women are constantly fed horror stories of creepy (sub5) men cold approaching them thru social media, so that is a clear disadvantage already going against you. This combined with hypergamy makes cold approaching one of the most difficult situations to successfully get slays.
Even the cold approach copers admit this without realizing it. A common thing I see from them is "don't give up brah, I got rejected by 100 women before I got my first phone number!" (which probably led to nothing anyways )
"just spend your saturday cold approaching jbs at the mall bruh! it worked for me! if you still haven't slayed after approaching 100 wahmen you just need to buy my $60/month course!"
If you cold approach hundreds of women, all you are doing is gassing up beckies, increasing hoeflation, and ruining your self esteem. It isn't natural to get rejected by hundreds of women, it's why so many fakecels first get blackpilled from online dating; getting rejected by hundreds of women below your looksmatch is going to blackpill the most bluepilled normie. The funny thing about the apps is that most "rejections" aren't even actual rejections, their profiles were just simply never shown to the people they swiped right on, but it is still devastating to normies who do bad on them. Cold approaching is even worse because you get undeniable, blatant rejections straight to your face.