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If you are not a good-looking man with a lot of money, good social circle, status, big dick, decent body height and visibly trained, etc..., you will die alone and no woman will ever genuinely loves you.
You may cope by saying looks, money, height, status and penis size don't matter and that it's the personality and the quality of your character that matters, but at the end of the day, that's just a cope and a fantasy that doesn't mirror reality.
In the modern socio-economic landscape, you will NEVER find someone who loves and respects you for who you are instead of what you have and can offer.
The best you will ever be able to get, will be an old aging land whale who is NT and needs someone for NT entertainment such a as not wanting to be alone, wanting to talk to someone and using sex for socialization, not because she actually loves you.
In her prime, when she was young and attractive, you would have been 100% invisible to her. The only reason why you became visible to her when she got old, is because she lost all other options and now you are the only option she has and she knows you will likely be with her because of desperation. Women know that low-status, financially broke average men have exactly ZERO option and no woman actually has any sexual interest in them. Since she know that, she knows chances are you will be with her because you don't want to be alone.
So, she will invite you in her house where you will become a victim of the dead bedroom phenomenon and will be used for NT entertainment, providing emotional comfort, material goods, helping for the tax and bills, etc...
To summarize it:
In her prime, you was invisible to her.
In her decline, you are visible to her, but she doesn't like or love you and isn't sexually attracted to you.
In your life, assuming you are not a statusmaxxed rich Chad who was born among rich parents and within the right social circle, you will absolutely NEVER have social relations with people you actually like and love. All people you will ever engage, will be people you don't really like, but you will still engage with them because you don't have any better options and don't want to be alone. So, you are doing it out of loneliness and desperation, not out of happiness and genuine desire to belong.
Alternatively, assuming you don't want to have such a psychologically taxing relationship, you may choose to be alone and do random hook-ups with women. In this case, you will need to rely on the "big numbers" principle because the vast majority of women are not interested in you. Therefore, you will need to be ok different dating apps and social media sites and message old, aging and ugly women (YOUNG WOMEN WILL EITHER BLOCK YOU OR IGNORE YOU), hoping to get a statistical chance of having at least 1 or 2 or a little bit more of them responding. If you message 100 women and 100 of them respond, this doesn't mean you will have sex with 100 women. Most of them will eventually refuse to date you. So, if messaging 500 women and 100 of them respond, you may get 1 to 10 of them willing to have sex with you.
You need to put great efforts in for too little in return, obviously. This is the reality. If you are neurotypicality retard who can't stand being alone and will become an alcoholic due to loneliness and emotional emptiness related to the loneliness, you may be willing to put staggering, incomprehensible and out-of-this-world efforts to get even a single woman to have sex with you.
So, if you are an NT idiot, regardless of how great and psychologically exhaustive efforts you put in, getting a single woman out of hundreds of thousands of women you messaged will be viewed as a great success and your little NT brain will release some dopamine, preventing further plunging into alcoholism and bitterness, anger and desperation.
If you are not NT, the best and most recommended option I have for you, is to never go in such a relationship because you won't be able to survive it. Such sham social relations and personal relationships can be survived only by NT males, because despite sufferings, these NT males really don't want to be alone and will manage to suppress their anger and act against the mockery and abuse they get from the women and society in general.
NT males follow social norms and scripts and will "forget" about the abuse they get if NOT forgetting means she will leave them. However, if you are non-NT, you may not be able to suppress you anger and eventually, you may do a stupid thing that will lead to investigation and imprisonment.
If you are non-NT, chances are you won't be able to handle the level of psychological taxation NT males can. But again, they do it against their will because they don't want to be alone. They are forcing themselves in these relationships; they are in those fake and cucked relationships not because they want, but because they don't want to be alone.
In a nutshell, the typical "relationship" an average or sub5 male will have, regardless if he is NT not, will develop in the following way:
1. He will "put himself out there" with confidence and low inhibition and talk to a woman over 30-35 (women under 30 don't want relationships with average and sub5 men).
2. At first, she will feel good for being noticed by someone, because this will give her validation and she will be happy knowing someone likes her.
3. If she is in an advanced age (she is), she will be "ready to settle down".
4. She will likely "settle down" with the average or sub5 male who will be delighted by the fact a woman actually "likes him".
5. His and her neurotypicality have been entertained and both brains are now releasing dopamine, resulting in happiness, feeling of belonging, love, and existing communal bonds (the bonds don't actually exist, they are illusion).
6. At first, they will have sex likely everyday.
7. As time goes on, sex will become less and less often. She will be making more and more excuses.
8. Eventually, sex rate will be reduced to "now and then", and she will not experience any orgasms when she has sex with him. All orgasms will be faked. The male will think she enjoys it, but she actually isn't and the orgasms are fake.
9. She will begin cheating on him with men who are better than him, richer, with better status and looks than him, so she can actually get horny and experience orgasm.
10. Over time, the male will gain weight. Since she no longer has sex with him, he will no longer feel the need to take care of himself, resulting in reduced hygiene and more body hair due to lack of motivation to shave. Why would he shave if she doesn't touch him anyway?
11. Eventually, it will be game over for him, his existence will be reduced to the only purpose of entertaining her neurotypicality, such as not wanting to be alone, wanting to talk someone and get emotional comfort and have someone to help with material goods, tax, bills, etc...
12. The sub5 or average male, who was never attractive, will become repulsive now because he is old, bald and fat, and his looks and demoralized, cold, detached gaze, including the fat tissue and gynecomastia, the prostate issues and the erectile dysfunction, scream depression, psychological turmoil and exhaustion, and testosterone-estrogen imbalance. At this point, damage is irreversible and it's basically game over for him.
13. Meanwhile, she will keep sleeping with other men, while he goes to job he couldn't care less about and spends the rest of the time at home, eating to make his belly full, drinking alcohol and coping with porn and sending messages to women online who won't even respond to him.
14. He may subscriber to a woman's OnlyFans account so he can build a fake para social relationship. Little will he know he is chatting with a "chatter", usually, a poor Asian or Indian man who is hired and deployed to pretend to be the women in order to keep audience engagement in the chat.
15. The woman may or may find out about the OnlyFans subscription. But even if she does, chances are she won't care because she doesn't love him anyway. If he is annoyed by him in general, she may make a fake drama and use the OnlyFans subscription to end the fake relationship and be alone with the sex toys. Women actually prefer to be alone with sex toys rather than being with average men.
Going to bars, clubs, talking to people and being NT won't really help you. The best you can do as an NT is to basically have some random hook-up with a woman who just wants her NT needs to be entertained and get some validation, but doesn't actually likes or lives you and wouldn't want to be with you.
Women don't want or need average men. To women, the average man is literally Mr. Nobody. She has been with hundreds of average men and your averageness doesn't represent any novelty and uniqueness she can find attractive. You are just another guy, nothing special.
Women want only top guys, but since most women don't have the specific qualities top guys find attractive, most women will never be with the men they like, resulting in bitterness against the "best" they were able to get, which is the average or sub5 man, who is literally Mr. Nobody in women's perspective.
If it's not for NT entertainment, no woman will ever want an average or sub5 men, and will instead want to be alone with sex toys while receiving free money from average and sub5 men from the internet for no reason and without prior discussion in the chat.
Basically, this is the reality for the vast majority of men in the West. Committed relationships are committed only in their heads, not in reality. No one takes them seriously and cares about them. Porn is often the most used escapism cope.
We have reached the point where porn is so preferred escapism fantasy, that it causes more dopamine than an actual relationship, indicating extremely serious decay of social dynamics in the West. If you prefer porn over real sex, you either can't get real sex or the partner is toxic or something like that. You may be in a fake relationships and be treated badly, but there is nothing you can do and you don't have any options and alternatives.
So, this is the reality on the ground for the average man, sub5, Oofy Doofy... going to a job he couldn't care less about, having fake relationships, never being genuinely loved, made fun of by the kids, hated by the daughter who will never accept sex with someone who looks like him. And finally, having a fake wife who doesn't give a fuck about you, is with you for NT purposes, and can't wait to get rid of out you and start inviting other men in the house. The day you die will be the happiest and most freeing day in her life. That day, she will get access to your money and will go on a vacation with the man she was cheating on you.
This is not an exaggeration... it's just the statistical and honest reality. Any honest woman who doesn't fear social exclusion will absolutely admit that.
In a nutshell, if you are not a top guy, someone women like, it's over. Just give up, trying is not worth it and will bring nothing. Too much efforts for too little in return. That's the modern socio-economic reality. You will always have to put endless efforts to get a small thing in return, while people like Andrew Tate, Tristan Tate, Jordan Barrett, Mike O'Hearn, Instagram models, successful millionaires and billionaires, Dubai's oil millionaires and billionaires, and millionaires and billionaires in Las Vegas and Hawaii will enjoy life with beautiful women who are happy with them and their yachts, jets and mansions. You will be watching this on your phone in your free time while knowing you have to work a subhuman job and pay taxes while your woman, society, the world, governments, etc... view you as literally Mr. Nobody whose purpose is to pay taxes and be used as mobilization material if needed.
If you are not a top guy, you will never know what happiness and normal life are. Life normalcy is a thing of the past for those who are not in the top 1%. Brutal.
You may cope by saying looks, money, height, status and penis size don't matter and that it's the personality and the quality of your character that matters, but at the end of the day, that's just a cope and a fantasy that doesn't mirror reality.
In the modern socio-economic landscape, you will NEVER find someone who loves and respects you for who you are instead of what you have and can offer.
The best you will ever be able to get, will be an old aging land whale who is NT and needs someone for NT entertainment such a as not wanting to be alone, wanting to talk to someone and using sex for socialization, not because she actually loves you.
In her prime, when she was young and attractive, you would have been 100% invisible to her. The only reason why you became visible to her when she got old, is because she lost all other options and now you are the only option she has and she knows you will likely be with her because of desperation. Women know that low-status, financially broke average men have exactly ZERO option and no woman actually has any sexual interest in them. Since she know that, she knows chances are you will be with her because you don't want to be alone.
So, she will invite you in her house where you will become a victim of the dead bedroom phenomenon and will be used for NT entertainment, providing emotional comfort, material goods, helping for the tax and bills, etc...
To summarize it:
In her prime, you was invisible to her.
In her decline, you are visible to her, but she doesn't like or love you and isn't sexually attracted to you.
In your life, assuming you are not a statusmaxxed rich Chad who was born among rich parents and within the right social circle, you will absolutely NEVER have social relations with people you actually like and love. All people you will ever engage, will be people you don't really like, but you will still engage with them because you don't have any better options and don't want to be alone. So, you are doing it out of loneliness and desperation, not out of happiness and genuine desire to belong.
Alternatively, assuming you don't want to have such a psychologically taxing relationship, you may choose to be alone and do random hook-ups with women. In this case, you will need to rely on the "big numbers" principle because the vast majority of women are not interested in you. Therefore, you will need to be ok different dating apps and social media sites and message old, aging and ugly women (YOUNG WOMEN WILL EITHER BLOCK YOU OR IGNORE YOU), hoping to get a statistical chance of having at least 1 or 2 or a little bit more of them responding. If you message 100 women and 100 of them respond, this doesn't mean you will have sex with 100 women. Most of them will eventually refuse to date you. So, if messaging 500 women and 100 of them respond, you may get 1 to 10 of them willing to have sex with you.
You need to put great efforts in for too little in return, obviously. This is the reality. If you are neurotypicality retard who can't stand being alone and will become an alcoholic due to loneliness and emotional emptiness related to the loneliness, you may be willing to put staggering, incomprehensible and out-of-this-world efforts to get even a single woman to have sex with you.
So, if you are an NT idiot, regardless of how great and psychologically exhaustive efforts you put in, getting a single woman out of hundreds of thousands of women you messaged will be viewed as a great success and your little NT brain will release some dopamine, preventing further plunging into alcoholism and bitterness, anger and desperation.
If you are not NT, the best and most recommended option I have for you, is to never go in such a relationship because you won't be able to survive it. Such sham social relations and personal relationships can be survived only by NT males, because despite sufferings, these NT males really don't want to be alone and will manage to suppress their anger and act against the mockery and abuse they get from the women and society in general.
NT males follow social norms and scripts and will "forget" about the abuse they get if NOT forgetting means she will leave them. However, if you are non-NT, you may not be able to suppress you anger and eventually, you may do a stupid thing that will lead to investigation and imprisonment.
If you are non-NT, chances are you won't be able to handle the level of psychological taxation NT males can. But again, they do it against their will because they don't want to be alone. They are forcing themselves in these relationships; they are in those fake and cucked relationships not because they want, but because they don't want to be alone.
In a nutshell, the typical "relationship" an average or sub5 male will have, regardless if he is NT not, will develop in the following way:
1. He will "put himself out there" with confidence and low inhibition and talk to a woman over 30-35 (women under 30 don't want relationships with average and sub5 men).
2. At first, she will feel good for being noticed by someone, because this will give her validation and she will be happy knowing someone likes her.
3. If she is in an advanced age (she is), she will be "ready to settle down".
4. She will likely "settle down" with the average or sub5 male who will be delighted by the fact a woman actually "likes him".
5. His and her neurotypicality have been entertained and both brains are now releasing dopamine, resulting in happiness, feeling of belonging, love, and existing communal bonds (the bonds don't actually exist, they are illusion).
6. At first, they will have sex likely everyday.
7. As time goes on, sex will become less and less often. She will be making more and more excuses.
8. Eventually, sex rate will be reduced to "now and then", and she will not experience any orgasms when she has sex with him. All orgasms will be faked. The male will think she enjoys it, but she actually isn't and the orgasms are fake.
9. She will begin cheating on him with men who are better than him, richer, with better status and looks than him, so she can actually get horny and experience orgasm.
10. Over time, the male will gain weight. Since she no longer has sex with him, he will no longer feel the need to take care of himself, resulting in reduced hygiene and more body hair due to lack of motivation to shave. Why would he shave if she doesn't touch him anyway?
11. Eventually, it will be game over for him, his existence will be reduced to the only purpose of entertaining her neurotypicality, such as not wanting to be alone, wanting to talk someone and get emotional comfort and have someone to help with material goods, tax, bills, etc...
12. The sub5 or average male, who was never attractive, will become repulsive now because he is old, bald and fat, and his looks and demoralized, cold, detached gaze, including the fat tissue and gynecomastia, the prostate issues and the erectile dysfunction, scream depression, psychological turmoil and exhaustion, and testosterone-estrogen imbalance. At this point, damage is irreversible and it's basically game over for him.
13. Meanwhile, she will keep sleeping with other men, while he goes to job he couldn't care less about and spends the rest of the time at home, eating to make his belly full, drinking alcohol and coping with porn and sending messages to women online who won't even respond to him.
14. He may subscriber to a woman's OnlyFans account so he can build a fake para social relationship. Little will he know he is chatting with a "chatter", usually, a poor Asian or Indian man who is hired and deployed to pretend to be the women in order to keep audience engagement in the chat.
15. The woman may or may find out about the OnlyFans subscription. But even if she does, chances are she won't care because she doesn't love him anyway. If he is annoyed by him in general, she may make a fake drama and use the OnlyFans subscription to end the fake relationship and be alone with the sex toys. Women actually prefer to be alone with sex toys rather than being with average men.
Going to bars, clubs, talking to people and being NT won't really help you. The best you can do as an NT is to basically have some random hook-up with a woman who just wants her NT needs to be entertained and get some validation, but doesn't actually likes or lives you and wouldn't want to be with you.
Women don't want or need average men. To women, the average man is literally Mr. Nobody. She has been with hundreds of average men and your averageness doesn't represent any novelty and uniqueness she can find attractive. You are just another guy, nothing special.
Women want only top guys, but since most women don't have the specific qualities top guys find attractive, most women will never be with the men they like, resulting in bitterness against the "best" they were able to get, which is the average or sub5 man, who is literally Mr. Nobody in women's perspective.
If it's not for NT entertainment, no woman will ever want an average or sub5 men, and will instead want to be alone with sex toys while receiving free money from average and sub5 men from the internet for no reason and without prior discussion in the chat.
Basically, this is the reality for the vast majority of men in the West. Committed relationships are committed only in their heads, not in reality. No one takes them seriously and cares about them. Porn is often the most used escapism cope.
We have reached the point where porn is so preferred escapism fantasy, that it causes more dopamine than an actual relationship, indicating extremely serious decay of social dynamics in the West. If you prefer porn over real sex, you either can't get real sex or the partner is toxic or something like that. You may be in a fake relationships and be treated badly, but there is nothing you can do and you don't have any options and alternatives.
So, this is the reality on the ground for the average man, sub5, Oofy Doofy... going to a job he couldn't care less about, having fake relationships, never being genuinely loved, made fun of by the kids, hated by the daughter who will never accept sex with someone who looks like him. And finally, having a fake wife who doesn't give a fuck about you, is with you for NT purposes, and can't wait to get rid of out you and start inviting other men in the house. The day you die will be the happiest and most freeing day in her life. That day, she will get access to your money and will go on a vacation with the man she was cheating on you.
This is not an exaggeration... it's just the statistical and honest reality. Any honest woman who doesn't fear social exclusion will absolutely admit that.
In a nutshell, if you are not a top guy, someone women like, it's over. Just give up, trying is not worth it and will bring nothing. Too much efforts for too little in return. That's the modern socio-economic reality. You will always have to put endless efforts to get a small thing in return, while people like Andrew Tate, Tristan Tate, Jordan Barrett, Mike O'Hearn, Instagram models, successful millionaires and billionaires, Dubai's oil millionaires and billionaires, and millionaires and billionaires in Las Vegas and Hawaii will enjoy life with beautiful women who are happy with them and their yachts, jets and mansions. You will be watching this on your phone in your free time while knowing you have to work a subhuman job and pay taxes while your woman, society, the world, governments, etc... view you as literally Mr. Nobody whose purpose is to pay taxes and be used as mobilization material if needed.
If you are not a top guy, you will never know what happiness and normal life are. Life normalcy is a thing of the past for those who are not in the top 1%. Brutal.
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