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Currently 16 have NOT experienced anything "teenager-like" I haven't been to the movies with friends, I haven't been to any parties. I've never had friends to do things like skip school together or other stuff the closest thing I had to that were just school "colleagues". Only times where I go out are either for school, gym or the grocery store. Never anything else. Still have trauma from past bullying which I've yet to heal from. Geniuenly looking for lifefuel and really step into life with a new perspective. I wanna make memories while I'm a teenager, for the past 2-3 years I've lived this way, where the only productive thing I did was working out but the rest of the day I'd just rot in my room. I don't wanna hear things like "just do it alone, you can do those activities alone" because while they are valid points and sound good in theory, it feels like the complete opposite when you actually do those things alone. You skip school alone and do what? Just sit on a park bench like a bum? You go to the movies alone, is it worth it to pay almost 30 dollars for a ticket just to watch couples or friend groups in front of you enjoying themselves, while you are sitting in a movie theater ALONE. You are not making any memories by "doing things alone" that are usually done with other people. You're just pitying yourself.

Another example of "just do it alone"
ever celebrated your birthday while lighting your own candles on a birthday cake you bought from your own money?
that just feels pathetic, no?
You go to a bar alone vs. You go to a bar with a group of friends, huge change in mood and setting no?
In the first scenario you look like a depressed lowlife piece of shit
In the second scenario you look like a sociable well adjusted guy having a good time

These things usually hold value because of the memories they create. When doing those things alone, they are downright humiliating.


JUST TO CLARIFY:
Yes you can do many activities alone and enjoy them and you shouldnt be codependant on other people willing to do things with you if you really wanna do stuff.
HOWEVER that shit is only limited to things that one can enjoy alone such as hiking, working out etc.
You will never see a guy geniuenly enjoy himself in a party where he's the only person present.
 
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Currently 16 have NOT experienced anything "teenager-like" I haven't been to the movies with friends, I haven't been to any parties. I've never had friends to do things like skip school together or other stuff the closest thing I had to that were just school "colleagues". Only times where I go out are either for school, gym or the grocery store. Never anything else. Still have trauma from past bullying which I've yet to heal from. Geniuenly looking for lifefuel and really step into life with a new perspective. I wanna make memories while I'm a teenager, for the past 2-3 years I've lived this way, where the only productive thing I did was working out but the rest of the day I'd just rot in my room. I don't wanna hear things like "just do it alone, you can do those activities alone" because while they are valid points and sound good in theory, it feels like the complete opposite when you actually do those things alone. You skip school alone and do what? Just sit on a park bench like a bum? You go to the movies alone, is it worth it to pay almost 30 dollars for a ticket just to watch couples or friend groups in front of you enjoying themselves, while you are sitting in a movie theater ALONE. You are not making any memories by "doing things alone" that are usually done with other people. You're just pitying yourself.

Another example of "just do it alone"
ever celebrated your birthday while lighting your own candles on a birthday cake you bought from your own money?
that just feels pathetic, no?
You go to a bar alone vs. You go to a bar with a group of friends, huge change in mood and setting no?
In the first scenario you look like a depressed lowlife piece of shit
In the second scenario you look like a sociable well adjusted guy having a good time

These things usually hold value because of the memories they create. When doing those things alone, they are downright humiliating.


JUST TO CLARIFY:
Yes you can do many activities alone and enjoy them and you shouldnt be codependant on other people willing to do things with you if you really wanna do stuff.
HOWEVER that shit is only limited to things that one can enjoy alone such as hiking, working out etc.
You will never see a guy geniuenly enjoy himself in a party where he's the only person present.
Go off grid build a cabin 200 miles from civilisation
 
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Currently 16 have NOT experienced anything "teenager-like" I haven't been to the movies with friends, I haven't been to any parties. I've never had friends to do things like skip school together or other stuff the closest thing I had to that were just school "colleagues". Only times where I go out are either for school, gym or the grocery store. Never anything else. Still have trauma from past bullying which I've yet to heal from. Geniuenly looking for lifefuel and really step into life with a new perspective. I wanna make memories while I'm a teenager, for the past 2-3 years I've lived this way, where the only productive thing I did was working out but the rest of the day I'd just rot in my room. I don't wanna hear things like "just do it alone, you can do those activities alone" because while they are valid points and sound good in theory, it feels like the complete opposite when you actually do those things alone. You skip school alone and do what? Just sit on a park bench like a bum? You go to the movies alone, is it worth it to pay almost 30 dollars for a ticket just to watch couples or friend groups in front of you enjoying themselves, while you are sitting in a movie theater ALONE. You are not making any memories by "doing things alone" that are usually done with other people. You're just pitying yourself.

Another example of "just do it alone"
ever celebrated your birthday while lighting your own candles on a birthday cake you bought from your own money?
that just feels pathetic, no?
You go to a bar alone vs. You go to a bar with a group of friends, huge change in mood and setting no?
In the first scenario you look like a depressed lowlife piece of shit
In the second scenario you look like a sociable well adjusted guy having a good time

These things usually hold value because of the memories they create. When doing those things alone, they are downright humiliating.


JUST TO CLARIFY:
Yes you can do many activities alone and enjoy them and you shouldnt be codependant on other people willing to do things with you if you really wanna do stuff.
HOWEVER that shit is only limited to things that one can enjoy alone such as hiking, working out etc.
You will never see a guy geniuenly enjoy himself in a party where he's the only person present.
teen life only applies to people htn or above
 
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Yep, and I missed out on most of it :feelsbadman:
 
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Currently 16 have NOT experienced anything "teenager-like" I haven't been to the movies with friends, I haven't been to any parties. I've never had friends to do things like skip school together or other stuff the closest thing I had to that were just school "colleagues". Only times where I go out are either for school, gym or the grocery store. Never anything else. Still have trauma from past bullying which I've yet to heal from. Geniuenly looking for lifefuel and really step into life with a new perspective. I wanna make memories while I'm a teenager, for the past 2-3 years I've lived this way, where the only productive thing I did was working out but the rest of the day I'd just rot in my room. I don't wanna hear things like "just do it alone, you can do those activities alone" because while they are valid points and sound good in theory, it feels like the complete opposite when you actually do those things alone. You skip school alone and do what? Just sit on a park bench like a bum? You go to the movies alone, is it worth it to pay almost 30 dollars for a ticket just to watch couples or friend groups in front of you enjoying themselves, while you are sitting in a movie theater ALONE. You are not making any memories by "doing things alone" that are usually done with other people. You're just pitying yourself.

Another example of "just do it alone"
ever celebrated your birthday while lighting your own candles on a birthday cake you bought from your own money?
that just feels pathetic, no?
You go to a bar alone vs. You go to a bar with a group of friends, huge change in mood and setting no?
In the first scenario you look like a depressed lowlife piece of shit
In the second scenario you look like a sociable well adjusted guy having a good time

These things usually hold value because of the memories they create. When doing those things alone, they are downright humiliating.


JUST TO CLARIFY:
Yes you can do many activities alone and enjoy them and you shouldnt be codependant on other people willing to do things with you if you really wanna do stuff.
HOWEVER that shit is only limited to things that one can enjoy alone such as hiking, working out etc.
You will never see a guy geniuenly enjoy himself in a party where he's the only person present.
im a teenager and cant remember the last time ive been happy
 
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teen life only applies to people htn or above
It really doesn't tho, you don't need to look good to have friendships.
Its a matter of Neurotypicality and luck
 
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Currently 16 have NOT experienced anything "teenager-like" I haven't been to the movies with friends, I haven't been to any parties. I've never had friends to do things like skip school together or other stuff the closest thing I had to that were just school "colleagues". Only times where I go out are either for school, gym or the grocery store. Never anything else. Still have trauma from past bullying which I've yet to heal from. Geniuenly looking for lifefuel and really step into life with a new perspective. I wanna make memories while I'm a teenager, for the past 2-3 years I've lived this way, where the only productive thing I did was working out but the rest of the day I'd just rot in my room. I don't wanna hear things like "just do it alone, you can do those activities alone" because while they are valid points and sound good in theory, it feels like the complete opposite when you actually do those things alone. You skip school alone and do what? Just sit on a park bench like a bum? You go to the movies alone, is it worth it to pay almost 30 dollars for a ticket just to watch couples or friend groups in front of you enjoying themselves, while you are sitting in a movie theater ALONE. You are not making any memories by "doing things alone" that are usually done with other people. You're just pitying yourself.

Another example of "just do it alone"
ever celebrated your birthday while lighting your own candles on a birthday cake you bought from your own money?
that just feels pathetic, no?
You go to a bar alone vs. You go to a bar with a group of friends, huge change in mood and setting no?
In the first scenario you look like a depressed lowlife piece of shit
In the second scenario you look like a sociable well adjusted guy having a good time

These things usually hold value because of the memories they create. When doing those things alone, they are downright humiliating.


JUST TO CLARIFY:
Yes you can do many activities alone and enjoy them and you shouldnt be codependant on other people willing to do things with you if you really wanna do stuff.
HOWEVER that shit is only limited to things that one can enjoy alone such as hiking, working out etc.
You will never see a guy geniuenly enjoy himself in a party where he's the only person present.
Thats retarded your fault bro, even losers have other loser friends
 
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It really doesn't tho, you don't need to look good to have friendships.
Its a matter of Neurotypicality and luck
you're saying its a personality issue? How do you fix being socially awkward. I'm not a bad person I just miss social cues and have had bad experiences with people but I want to geniuenly figure out how to escape this loop of loneliness, because if I don't stop it now I won't have any meaningful connections when I'm an adult and when I'm an adult I'll have even less of an oppurtunity to build geniuine friendships/relationships.
 
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Thats retarded your fault bro, even losers have other loser friends
I used to be retarded but my mindset really wasnt that retarded if you think abt it because when I was like 14 I had this mindset of "I'd rather have no friends than hang around the wrong types of people" and I judged people too quickly so I didn't bother engaging with others at all. But I'm 16 now, its not over for me is it. There's still plenty of time to make meaningful connections I just have to figure out how to start.
 
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In my Golden years, I had so many friends who I did this shit with. But then my social battery just ran out and I stopped hanging out with them and ended up stopped being best mates with them all. You just need the discipline
 
Same
you're saying its a personality issue? How do you fix being socially awkward. I'm not a bad person I just miss social cues and have had bad experiences with people but I want to geniuenly figure out how to escape this loop of loneliness, because if I don't stop it now I won't have any meaningful connections when I'm an adult and when I'm an adult I'll have even less of an oppurtunity to build geniuine friendships/relationships.
Blackpill forums can’t help you
 
In my Golden years, I had so many friends who I did this shit with. But then my social battery just ran out and I stopped hanging out with them and ended up stopped being best mates with them all. You just need the discipline
the discipline to do what exactly? its not really voluntary that I'm rotting away in my room in my teenage years 😬
 
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teen life is 6'1 htn+
its a pre requisite
 
Currently 16 have NOT experienced anything "teenager-like" I haven't been to the movies with friends, I haven't been to any parties. I've never had friends to do things like skip school together or other stuff the closest thing I had to that were just school "colleagues". Only times where I go out are either for school, gym or the grocery store. Never anything else. Still have trauma from past bullying which I've yet to heal from. Geniuenly looking for lifefuel and really step into life with a new perspective. I wanna make memories while I'm a teenager, for the past 2-3 years I've lived this way, where the only productive thing I did was working out but the rest of the day I'd just rot in my room. I don't wanna hear things like "just do it alone, you can do those activities alone" because while they are valid points and sound good in theory, it feels like the complete opposite when you actually do those things alone. You skip school alone and do what? Just sit on a park bench like a bum? You go to the movies alone, is it worth it to pay almost 30 dollars for a ticket just to watch couples or friend groups in front of you enjoying themselves, while you are sitting in a movie theater ALONE. You are not making any memories by "doing things alone" that are usually done with other people. You're just pitying yourself.

Another example of "just do it alone"
ever celebrated your birthday while lighting your own candles on a birthday cake you bought from your own money?
that just feels pathetic, no?
You go to a bar alone vs. You go to a bar with a group of friends, huge change in mood and setting no?
In the first scenario you look like a depressed lowlife piece of shit
In the second scenario you look like a sociable well adjusted guy having a good time

These things usually hold value because of the memories they create. When doing those things alone, they are downright humiliating.


JUST TO CLARIFY:
Yes you can do many activities alone and enjoy them and you shouldnt be codependant on other people willing to do things with you if you really wanna do stuff.
HOWEVER that shit is only limited to things that one can enjoy alone such as hiking, working out etc.
You will never see a guy geniuenly enjoy himself in a party where he's the only person present.
do you have fam? siblings? any people your age at the gym?
 
do you have fam? siblings? any people your age at the gym?
I don't really talk with my fam too often. I'm lowkey a dissapointment. also yea there's plenty of people my age at the gym but they're kinda unapproachable because its not really a setting where you make friends? Like everyone's just there to do their thing then leave. Same way with riding a bus, you just get on it to get to work or school, you don't necessarily try making friends there and if a stranger came up and talked to you it would come off as very weird if not a little threatening
 
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Over, try starting again in college.
 
Hey man first of all I wanna say that I can relate to this a lot, when I was 16 I thought I was going to be a loser for the rest of my life.
I didnt do anything productive all day nor did I socialise

All of this changed once I turned 17-18 at the end of the day people wont force themselves to be friends with you and I doubt you'd want that. It's also important to know that your life isnt over once you are 20

You can experience the same kind of fun if youre 20 or 25 whatever, nothing really changes besides you having more money and freedom. dont forget that time is something that we made up, dont let it ruin you.

For the friends part I can only tell you what helped me. Picking up a hobby or 2-3 hobbys and becoming really good at them made me really interesting to others that shared that hobby.

Once you're active it's easier to connect with others especially if youre good at it people will look up to you, just dont be weird about it keep your cool and try your best to act normal and friendly

If you know 1-2 people you can find even more people through these people. The 2 dudes you met at the beginning may not be the best match for you but you can meet others through these 2 if you know what I mean.

Not sure if this helps at all but I hope it did even if it was just a tiny bit​
 
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realistically lmtn+ 5’6+ you guys are all out of touch with humanity
These ‘MTN only’ posts are worse. At least htn or death is joke hyperbole, this is just pure misinformation

LTN is enough it’s all about NT
 
Hey man first of all I wanna say that I can relate to this a lot, when I was 16 I thought I was going to be a loser for the rest of my life.
I didnt do anything productive all day nor did I socialise

All of this changed once I turned 17-18 at the end of the day people wont force themselves to be friends with you and I doubt you'd want that. It's also important to know that your life isnt over once you are 20

You can experience the same kind of fun if youre 20 or 25 whatever, nothing really changes besides you having more money and freedom. dont forget that time is something that we made up, dont let it ruin you.

For the friends part I can only tell you what helped me. Picking up a hobby or 2-3 hobbys and becoming really good at them made me really interesting to others that shared that hobby.

Once you're active it's easier to connect with others especially if youre good at it people will look up to you, just dont be weird about it keep your cool and try your best to act normal and friendly

If you know 1-2 people you can find even more people through these people. The 2 dudes you met at the beginning may not be the best match for you but you can meet others through these 2 if you know what I mean.

Not sure if this helps at all but I hope it did even if it was just a tiny bit​
Ngl yeah that gave me a bit of hope and clarity, thanks for this, I'll take it to heart.
 
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Currently 16 have NOT experienced anything "teenager-like" I haven't been to the movies with friends, I haven't been to any parties. I've never had friends to do things like skip school together or other stuff the closest thing I had to that were just school "colleagues". Only times where I go out are either for school, gym or the grocery store. Never anything else. Still have trauma from past bullying which I've yet to heal from. Geniuenly looking for lifefuel and really step into life with a new perspective. I wanna make memories while I'm a teenager, for the past 2-3 years I've lived this way, where the only productive thing I did was working out but the rest of the day I'd just rot in my room. I don't wanna hear things like "just do it alone, you can do those activities alone" because while they are valid points and sound good in theory, it feels like the complete opposite when you actually do those things alone. You skip school alone and do what? Just sit on a park bench like a bum? You go to the movies alone, is it worth it to pay almost 30 dollars for a ticket just to watch couples or friend groups in front of you enjoying themselves, while you are sitting in a movie theater ALONE. You are not making any memories by "doing things alone" that are usually done with other people. You're just pitying yourself.

Another example of "just do it alone"
ever celebrated your birthday while lighting your own candles on a birthday cake you bought from your own money?
that just feels pathetic, no?
You go to a bar alone vs. You go to a bar with a group of friends, huge change in mood and setting no?
In the first scenario you look like a depressed lowlife piece of shit
In the second scenario you look like a sociable well adjusted guy having a good time

These things usually hold value because of the memories they create. When doing those things alone, they are downright humiliating.


JUST TO CLARIFY:
Yes you can do many activities alone and enjoy them and you shouldnt be codependant on other people willing to do things with you if you really wanna do stuff.
HOWEVER that shit is only limited to things that one can enjoy alone such as hiking, working out etc.
You will never see a guy geniuenly enjoy himself in a party where he's the only person present.
Only happiness you will have :

 
These ‘MTN only’ posts are worse. At least htn or death is joke hyperbole, this is just pure misinformation

LTN is enough it’s all about NT
well depends on what you consider is teen life. teen life isn’t only about friendships, that’s forever life. teen life includes teen love, new experiences, development in character and knowledge. like an ltn just wouldn’t really find the teen love part or the “let’s go to a party and try to slay” part.
 
Larp and obvious bait
what larp? what bait retard? Im saying your not gonna feel happy because its your face thats the problem. Thank me later
 
what larp? what bait retard? Im saying your not gonna feel happy because its your face thats the problem. Thank me later
like I said, larp and obvious bait.
 

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Currently 16 have NOT experienced anything "teenager-like" I haven't been to the movies with friends, I haven't been to any parties. I've never had friends to do things like skip school together or other stuff the closest thing I had to that were just school "colleagues". Only times where I go out are either for school, gym or the grocery store. Never anything else. Still have trauma from past bullying which I've yet to heal from. Geniuenly looking for lifefuel and really step into life with a new perspective. I wanna make memories while I'm a teenager, for the past 2-3 years I've lived this way, where the only productive thing I did was working out but the rest of the day I'd just rot in my room. I don't wanna hear things like "just do it alone, you can do those activities alone" because while they are valid points and sound good in theory, it feels like the complete opposite when you actually do those things alone. You skip school alone and do what? Just sit on a park bench like a bum? You go to the movies alone, is it worth it to pay almost 30 dollars for a ticket just to watch couples or friend groups in front of you enjoying themselves, while you are sitting in a movie theater ALONE. You are not making any memories by "doing things alone" that are usually done with other people. You're just pitying yourself.

Another example of "just do it alone"
ever celebrated your birthday while lighting your own candles on a birthday cake you bought from your own money?
that just feels pathetic, no?
You go to a bar alone vs. You go to a bar with a group of friends, huge change in mood and setting no?
In the first scenario you look like a depressed lowlife piece of shit
In the second scenario you look like a sociable well adjusted guy having a good time

These things usually hold value because of the memories they create. When doing those things alone, they are downright humiliating.


JUST TO CLARIFY:
Yes you can do many activities alone and enjoy them and you shouldnt be codependant on other people willing to do things with you if you really wanna do stuff.
HOWEVER that shit is only limited to things that one can enjoy alone such as hiking, working out etc.
You will never see a guy geniuenly enjoy himself in a party where he's the only person present.
You lost me at the "trauma from bullying" horse shit. Go join one of them fucking therapy groups, lol. You can probably get people who are retarded enough to care about your bulling story there.
 
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like I said, larp and obvious bait.
checks out i dont think gen alpha retarded children have any vocabulary other than "larp and bait" back to roblox lil nigga
 
You lost me at the "trauma from bullying" horse shit. Go join one of them fucking therapy groups, lol. You can probably get people who are retarded enough to care about your bulling story there.
I'm a man. Men don't go to therapy.
 
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You lost me at the "trauma from bullying" horse shit. Go join one of them fucking therapy groups, lol. You can probably get people who are retarded enough to care about your bulling story there.
ong what an absolute fucking faggot. :lul::lul::lul: muh i got bullied!!!
 
I'm a man. Men don't go to therapy.
ur a fucking homosexual ur crying about being bullied on a looksmaxxing forum nigga.
 

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ur a fucking homosexual ur crying about being bullied on a looksmaxxing forum nigga.
I assume most people were? The reason they wanna better themselves and look for said info in forums like these? You just hatin for the sake of hatin 😂✌️
 
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I'm 18 and imma tell you something at least for me nothing has changed from 16 to 18
 
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Currently 16 have NOT experienced anything "teenager-like" I haven't been to the movies with friends, I haven't been to any parties. I've never had friends to do things like skip school together or other stuff the closest thing I had to that were just school "colleagues". Only times where I go out are either for school, gym or the grocery store. Never anything else. Still have trauma from past bullying which I've yet to heal from. Geniuenly looking for lifefuel and really step into life with a new perspective. I wanna make memories while I'm a teenager, for the past 2-3 years I've lived this way, where the only productive thing I did was working out but the rest of the day I'd just rot in my room. I don't wanna hear things like "just do it alone, you can do those activities alone" because while they are valid points and sound good in theory, it feels like the complete opposite when you actually do those things alone. You skip school alone and do what? Just sit on a park bench like a bum? You go to the movies alone, is it worth it to pay almost 30 dollars for a ticket just to watch couples or friend groups in front of you enjoying themselves, while you are sitting in a movie theater ALONE. You are not making any memories by "doing things alone" that are usually done with other people. You're just pitying yourself.

Another example of "just do it alone"
ever celebrated your birthday while lighting your own candles on a birthday cake you bought from your own money?
that just feels pathetic, no?
You go to a bar alone vs. You go to a bar with a group of friends, huge change in mood and setting no?
In the first scenario you look like a depressed lowlife piece of shit
In the second scenario you look like a sociable well adjusted guy having a good time

These things usually hold value because of the memories they create. When doing those things alone, they are downright humiliating.


JUST TO CLARIFY:
Yes you can do many activities alone and enjoy them and you shouldnt be codependant on other people willing to do things with you if you really wanna do stuff.
HOWEVER that shit is only limited to things that one can enjoy alone such as hiking, working out etc.
You will never see a guy geniuenly enjoy himself in a party where he's the only person present.
I've experienced having a friendgroup and doing stuff like hanging out often going to the movies etc and its overrated I like rotting alone (I do feel like a bum skipping school alone though:feelswhy:)
 
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I used to be retarded but my mindset really wasnt that retarded if you think abt it because when I was like 14 I had this mindset of "I'd rather have no friends than hang around the wrong types of people" and I judged people too quickly so I didn't bother engaging with others at all. But I'm 16 now, its not over for me is it. There's still plenty of time to make meaningful connections I just have to figure out how to start.
U gotta college max bro, no one in school will be friends wirh u cause they alr have a group
 

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