Zambian BBC: Why dating is a scam for men

[alien]

most men out here are so lonely while a lot of females can have a lot of people reaching on to them on a daily basis. Asa man, getting into a relationship is something that will drain you financially and emotionally as you may think that that women you love so dear loves you back equally, in most cases, the answer is NO.

Throughout my childhood till i was 23 years old, I never dated anyone and this time, it was my first time. I met this girl one day as I went studying in the library, she was so beautiful that I couldn't resist the temptation to talk to her. Fast forward, after few dates, I proposed to this girl and she agreed, not knowing this was the starting point of my miserable lifestyle.

I used to survive on only $15 a week before she came in my life, but after that, my weekly expenses rose from $15 to $50 a week. I couldn't save anymore, and besides that, I received constant messages of her asking money from me, even when she knew I was just a student as well. And whenever I couldn't afford what she wanted, the attitude towards me would change making me to feel guilty and give her even the little saving I had. I dated this person for six months and by time our relationship ended, I was broken, no shoulder to lean on which made me to realize that I was happier when I was single as I had nothing to worry about other than my studies. Women come in our life to use us as a stepper towards finding the person that they really love while they get your money and your care and leave you drained as they find their Mr. right.

As for me am now 25 single and never thinking of dating ever, I am now able to do things that I want at any point. This is for all men, lets me careful with the type of women we date otherwise you will end up depresses because of that woman you thought you loved. Remember women are never lonely so they can jump from you to someone better than you in a blink on an eye.

 

[Deleted member 105461]

It is very dangerous to pick up women in Zambia, most of them have HIV

 

[Klasik616]

most men out here are so lonely while a lot of females can have a lot of people reaching on to them on a daily basis. Asa man, getting into a relationship is something that will drain you financially and emotionally as you may think that that women you love so dear loves you back equally, in most cases, the answer is NO.

Throughout my childhood till i was 23 years old, I never dated anyone and this time, it was my first time. I met this girl one day as I went studying in the library, she was so beautiful that I couldn't resist the temptation to talk to her. Fast forward, after few dates, I proposed to this girl and she agreed, not knowing this was the starting point of my miserable lifestyle.

I used to survive on only $15 a week before she came in my life, but after that, my weekly expenses rose from $15 to $50 a week. I couldn't save anymore, and besides that, I received constant messages of her asking money from me, even when she knew I was just a student as well. And whenever I couldn't afford what she wanted, the attitude towards me would change making me to feel guilty and give her even the little saving I had. I dated this person for six months and by time our relationship ended, I was broken, no shoulder to lean on which made me to realize that I was happier when I was single as I had nothing to worry about other than my studies. Women come in our life to use us as a stepper towards finding the person that they really love while they get your money and your care and leave you drained as they find their Mr. right.

As for me am now 25 single and never thinking of dating ever, I am now able to do things that I want at any point. This is for all men, lets me careful with the type of women we date otherwise you will end up depresses because of that woman you thought you loved. Remember women are never lonely so they can jump from you to someone better than you in a blink on an eye.

Bro discovers love is not real
Despite that users think only looks matter
When you actually need money to date a foid
And if you don't have money you can't get into a relationship, as basic as it sounds
You need everything: to entertain her, to be attractive and to expend money.

 

[alien]

Bro discovers love is not real
Despite that users think only looks matter
When you actually need money to date a foid
And if you don't have money you can't get into a relationship, as basic as it sounds
You need everything: to entertain her, to be attractive and to expend money.

Yeah my cougar ex whose 10 years older than me (38M, 48F while we dated. We're 39M, 49F now) broke up with me after 3 months because I wouldn't treat her to dinner. Now she is dating some old, fat, ugly balding slob. And they have lasted longer than her and I have. And this was a woman who was sexually insatiable in bed with me during the Honeymoon Phase. It's not enough to be good looking. You need money. In fact women value money more than looks because she's with that ugly fat piece of shit still. While I have six pack abs and have a handsome face with a chiseled jawline.

 

[ihearvoices]

Lol is it real?

 

[thereallegend]

It is very dangerous to pick up women in Zambia, most of them have HIV

STDs are bullshit

 

[thereallegend]

Bro discovers love is not real
Despite that users think only looks matter
When you actually need money to date a foid
And if you don't have money you can't get into a relationship, as basic as it sounds
You need everything: to entertain her, to be attractive and to expend money.

Looks alone = ONS aka fuckboy

 

[sparklingwater]

Real once your past 21-22 money is non negotiable especially if she has a degree and is working her self.

 

[Gonthar]

Lol is it real?

Medium.com seems to allow anyone now to post articles there...

 

[thereallegend]

Real once your past 21-22 money is non negotiable especially if she has a degree and is working her self.

LTRs are just too much work. You need to full package. I can see why so many men are either fuckboy slayers or just downright NEET incels. Being a daily betabuxx deluxe is just too much fucking work man. Hugh La Traviate talks about this a lot too.