0 messages on tinder, just plain matches

[Deleted member 5048]

0:65 - messages:matches

Is it cause of my location or PSL not high enough? I live in a shithole and most of my matches are +25km away from me
one match was somehow 2km away, but she left me on read on snapchat
brutal driver license pill, I can't really actively seek for meet ups cause I can't drive
so I went on tinder just to see what's around

is it normal to not be messaged first at all?

 

[Deleted member 8165]

could be location, if you live in the middle of nowhere, or its over

 

[Shaman]

Girls usually assume that you're gonna message first

 

[Wallenberg]

brutal driver license pill, I can't really actively seek for meet ups cause I can't drive

Do you live in a shithole without public transit?

And yeah, some girls start conversations. Many don't. Some just send like hey or hand emoji.

 

[Deleted member 5048]

Do you live in a shithole without public transit?

And yeah, some girls start conversations. Many don't. Some just send like hey or hand emoji.

there is a way definitely somehow by buses and we'd choose a location good for both of us
I will probably message the ugly ones,try to do a few meets, like just walking around and talking, to gain confidence, then I'll just get a driver license to become more mobile

should I talk about some shit with them online or straight up arrange a meet up?

 

[Deleted member 8902]

 

[Wallenberg]

should I talk about some shit with them online or straight up arrange a meet up?

Depends on your looks, how attractive girls are, and ultimately on the girl.

Yeah, walking is a good thing to do on dates. Doesn't cost anything. The only better option is to go to her place or invite her to your place.

 

[Deleted member 6273]

65 matches and 0 messages is strange tbh, I get like at least one per 15 or so matches and I think that's low.

Maybe you only swipe on high tier Becky to Stacy range most of whom don't message first unless you're chad.

 

[Deleted member 5048]

65 matches and 0 messages is strange tbh, I get like at least one per 15 or so matches and I think that's low.

Maybe you only swipe on high tier Becky to Stacy range most of whom don't message first unless you're chad.

most of my matches are low tier beckies and beckies, a few high tier, and one stacylite
yeah I've found it weird too, I will prob message the lower quality ones and start from there

 

[turkproducer]

if you’re below 5.5 pal just stay away from tinder tbh, too much hassle

men outnumber women on that app 4-1, probably 2-1 for young people (18-25)

 

[Deleted member 6873]

if you’re below 5.5 pal just stay away from tinder tbh, too much hassle

men outnumber women on that app 4-1, probably 2-1 for young people (18-25)

suifuel

 

[EasternRightWinger15]

like 5% of my matches message first, if you have a hot match just message first jfl

 

[mgtowmadness]

I am not on Tinder yet..but if it makes you feel any better... I get nothing on POF..except mutant obese women

 

[Deleted member 10536]

Jfl if you think that girls on tinder will even message you. You're lucky if they even reply.
It's awful.

 

[Deleted member 8919]

Jfl if you think that girls on tinder will even message you. You're lucky if they even reply.
It's awful.

He should be happy he even get matches. there are many guys who doesnt get matches at all