True Paragon
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Hey guys, this is my first post. I'm not sure whether I belong on this site, so I want to give a brief summary of myself.
About a year and a half ago, I began searching for a girlfriend. It was almost my 25th birthday, and I was worried that my youth would end before I found love. I'm a roughly 6.5/10 guy, so it shouldn't come as much of a surprise that 99.9% of women rejected me. Only a handful of ugly women were willing to settle on me, and virtually none of them were passionate about dating me.
The experience destroyed my self-esteem, but I didn't give up. I tried meeting women in person. I attended dozens of library events, dozens of exercise classes, and visited bars over 50 times in and around my city. I did volunteer work cleaning rabbit droppings, preparing food at hospices, and performing other sundry tasks. I attended several speed dating events, and even resorted to hanging out with other men from Bumble Friends in the hopes they had connections with young, single women. I know that all sounds pathetic, but I was desperate for love and validation.
But after a year of searching, I had made no progress. I did manage to go out with two attractive woman, but they ended up breaking things off. To make matters worse, my second date with one of them was the worst expereince I've ever had in my life. Despite everything we had in common (we were both anime/video game nerds) and the great conversations we had, she refused to kiss me, and told me on the same date how she hooked up with some guy she met at a bar a few years ago. Just think about that for a second. Some random chad/chadlite at a bar arouses her so much just by existing that she hops on his dick shortly after meeting, whereas I can't even get a kiss on our second date despite probably having more in common with her than any man she's been with. It was the most brutal blackpill I've ever expereinced.
But things have improved as of late. I lost 20 pounds, and after redownloading a dating app with fewer users, I've actually been able to match with attractive women. I still haven't found the right one yet, but I have some hope that things will work out before I grow old.
I'd like to chat with other blackpilled users here, but I don't know if this site is for me, as I'm not really interested in looksmaxing. Losing weight did help me, but I'm not sure losing any more would be worth the effort. But I do believe that looksmaxing can be beneficial.
tl;dr: blackpilled guy is trying to get a girlfriend, but doesn't know if looksmaxing would help him
About a year and a half ago, I began searching for a girlfriend. It was almost my 25th birthday, and I was worried that my youth would end before I found love. I'm a roughly 6.5/10 guy, so it shouldn't come as much of a surprise that 99.9% of women rejected me. Only a handful of ugly women were willing to settle on me, and virtually none of them were passionate about dating me.
The experience destroyed my self-esteem, but I didn't give up. I tried meeting women in person. I attended dozens of library events, dozens of exercise classes, and visited bars over 50 times in and around my city. I did volunteer work cleaning rabbit droppings, preparing food at hospices, and performing other sundry tasks. I attended several speed dating events, and even resorted to hanging out with other men from Bumble Friends in the hopes they had connections with young, single women. I know that all sounds pathetic, but I was desperate for love and validation.
But after a year of searching, I had made no progress. I did manage to go out with two attractive woman, but they ended up breaking things off. To make matters worse, my second date with one of them was the worst expereince I've ever had in my life. Despite everything we had in common (we were both anime/video game nerds) and the great conversations we had, she refused to kiss me, and told me on the same date how she hooked up with some guy she met at a bar a few years ago. Just think about that for a second. Some random chad/chadlite at a bar arouses her so much just by existing that she hops on his dick shortly after meeting, whereas I can't even get a kiss on our second date despite probably having more in common with her than any man she's been with. It was the most brutal blackpill I've ever expereinced.
But things have improved as of late. I lost 20 pounds, and after redownloading a dating app with fewer users, I've actually been able to match with attractive women. I still haven't found the right one yet, but I have some hope that things will work out before I grow old.
I'd like to chat with other blackpilled users here, but I don't know if this site is for me, as I'm not really interested in looksmaxing. Losing weight did help me, but I'm not sure losing any more would be worth the effort. But I do believe that looksmaxing can be beneficial.
tl;dr: blackpilled guy is trying to get a girlfriend, but doesn't know if looksmaxing would help him
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