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[True Paragon]

You can't find a woman who is serious, won't be cheating on you with random men from the dating apps, won't use toj for money, etc..., because such women don't exist in 2024.

You can find good-looking women like that if you're attractive enough. But I'm not, unfortunately.

If you are a man, you can't have a normal life as an average man, you must be in the Top 1%.

If you're referring exclusively to dating, then I disagree. You don't need to be in the top 1% to be successful with women as a straight man. Chadlites aren't in the top 1%, and their situation definitely isn't hopeless.

The socio-economic realities nowadays are different than those in the past.
don't take relationship/dating advice from people from previous generations.

Yes, this is true. The dating market has definitely changed.

Is that you ? View attachment 3078720

You found me out. I'm actually a cute anime girl larping as a man. Now the mods are going to ban me for not being male.

 

[Deleted member 83600]

Hey guys, this is my first post. I'm not sure whether I belong on this site, so I want to give a brief summary of myself.

About a year and a half ago, I began searching for a girlfriend. It was almost my 25th birthday, and I was worried that my youth would end before I found love. I'm a roughly 6.5/10 guy, so it shouldn't come as much of a surprise that 99.9% of women rejected me. Only a handful of ugly women were willing to settle on me, and virtually none of them were passionate about dating me.

The experience destroyed my self-esteem, but I didn't give up. I tried meeting women in person. I attended dozens of library events, dozens of exercise classes, and visited bars over 50 times in and around my city. I did volunteer work cleaning rabbit droppings, preparing food at hospices, and performing other sundry tasks. I attended several speed dating events, and even resorted to hanging out with other men from Bumble Friends in the hopes they had connections with young, single women. I know that all sounds pathetic, but I was desperate for love and validation.

But after a year of searching, I had made no progress. I did manage to go out with two attractive woman, but they ended up breaking things off. To make matters worse, my second date with one of them was the worst expereince I've ever had in my life. Despite everything we had in common (we were both anime/video game nerds) and the great conversations we had, she refused to kiss me, and told me on the same date how she hooked up with some guy she met at a bar a few years ago. Just think about that for a second. Some random chad/chadlite at a bar arouses her so much just by existing that she hops on his dick shortly after meeting, whereas I can't even get a kiss on our second date despite probably having more in common with her than any man she's been with. It was the most brutal blackpill I've ever expereinced.

But things have improved as of late. I lost 20 pounds, and after redownloading a dating app with fewer users, I've actually been able to match with attractive women. I still haven't found the right one yet, but I have some hope that things will work out before I grow old.

I'd like to chat with other blackpilled users here, but I don't know if this site is for me, as I'm not really interested in looksmaxing. Losing weight did help me, but I'm not sure losing any more would be worth the effort. But I do believe that looksmaxing can be beneficial.

tl;dr: blackpilled guy is trying to get a girlfriend, but doesn't know if looksmaxing would help him

Dnr

 

[edodalic29]

Brother if you need any advice or real tips lmk , ive spent a good amount of time on this forum and know the dos and donts . This can really make you an autist or give you severe bdd . Please proceed with caution but if you are not ready , Pm me and i will guide you so you dont lose your mental sanity and you get decent advice on your looks , other great users you can ask is @TechnoBoss , @Gengar is very wholesome and will make you feel at home .

 

[Deleted member 30521]

Are you looking for a committed relationship? This thing doesn't happen in 2024 anymore.

A committed relationship requires monogamy.

To exist, monogamy requires certain socio-economic conditions.

The conditions that once upon a time allowed for monogamy to exist don't exist anymore.

You can't find a woman who is serious, won't be cheating on you with random men from the dating apps, won't use toj for money, etc..., because such women don't exist in 2024.

In 2024, anything is transactional. If you are a man, you can't have a normal life as an average man, you must be in the Top 1%.

The socio-economic realities nowadays are different than those in the past. What worked in the past doesn't work nowadays, don't take relationship/dating advice from people from previous generations.

It's always been this way. This isn't a current year thing.

Women have always wanted GL men and monogamy has always been something that only existed because low value men enforced it. The sexual revolution just made it more obvious.

 

[inlaf]

do you really expect anyone to read this?

I did

 

[IntelligentCel]

It's always been this way. This isn't a current year thing.

Women have always wanted GL men and monogamy has always been something that only existed because low value men enforced it. The sexual revolution just made it more obvious.

In the past, things were less superficial and personality and quality of character had more weight than looks, money and instant gratification.

 

[True Paragon]

Brother if you need any advice or real tips lmk , ive spent a good amount of time on this forum and know the dos and donts . This can really make you an autist or give you severe bdd . Please proceed with caution but if you are not ready , Pm me and i will guide you so you dont lose your mental sanity and you get decent advice on your looks

Thanks, I appreciate the support. I do have one question—do you recommend I get jaw implants? My current situation is pretty hopeless, but I've seen photos of botched jaw implant surgeries and I don't want that to happen to me. Also, jaw surgery is scary.

 

[LooksPSL]

I did see a youtube video like that once, but it hasn't been my experience. I've been to eight speed dating events, and I can only recall one where there might have been more women than men.

Yes, it was rare for me to speak to anyone in their 20s even when I attended events for the youngest age group.

I'll be using tretinoin and sunscreen daily from now on, so hopefully they'll slow down the wrinkling process. I also plan to research hair products I can use to improve or maintain my hairline.

How’d the speed dating go? How many matches out of how many dates? How old were they?

 

[True Paragon]

How’d the speed dating go? How many matches out of how many dates? How old were they?

It went poorly. The gender ratio of the attendees wasn't ideal, and most of the women were considerably older than me (one foid even said I was young enough to be her son). I speed-dated dozens of women, but only ended up dating two of them. The first was a decent-looking woman who rejected me after the first date, and the second was an obese, Black single-mother who broke things off before I could even get to third base. I was hoping I'd at least get to pump and dump one of the fat chicks, but it never happened.

 

[Rigged]

Hey guys, this is my first post. I'm not sure whether I belong on this site, so I want to give a brief summary of myself.

About a year and a half ago, I began searching for a girlfriend. It was almost my 25th birthday, and I was worried that my youth would end before I found love. I'm a roughly 6.5/10 guy, so it shouldn't come as much of a surprise that 99.9% of women rejected me. Only a handful of ugly women were willing to settle on me, and virtually none of them were passionate about dating me.

The experience destroyed my self-esteem, but I didn't give up. I tried meeting women in person. I attended dozens of library events, dozens of exercise classes, and visited bars over 50 times in and around my city. I did volunteer work cleaning rabbit droppings, preparing food at hospices, and performing other sundry tasks. I attended several speed dating events, and even resorted to hanging out with other men from Bumble Friends in the hopes they had connections with young, single women. I know that all sounds pathetic, but I was desperate for love and validation.

But after a year of searching, I had made no progress. I did manage to go out with two attractive woman, but they ended up breaking things off. To make matters worse, my second date with one of them was the worst expereince I've ever had in my life. Despite everything we had in common (we were both anime/video game nerds) and the great conversations we had, she refused to kiss me, and told me on the same date how she hooked up with some guy she met at a bar a few years ago. Just think about that for a second. Some random chad/chadlite at a bar arouses her so much just by existing that she hops on his dick shortly after meeting, whereas I can't even get a kiss on our second date despite probably having more in common with her than any man she's been with. It was the most brutal blackpill I've ever expereinced.

But things have improved as of late. I lost 20 pounds, and after redownloading a dating app with fewer users, I've actually been able to match with attractive women. I still haven't found the right one yet, but I have some hope that things will work out before I grow old.

I'd like to chat with other blackpilled users here, but I don't know if this site is for me, as I'm not really interested in looksmaxing. Losing weight did help me, but I'm not sure losing any more would be worth the effort. But I do believe that looksmaxing can be beneficial.

tl;dr: blackpilled guy is trying to get a girlfriend, but doesn't know if looksmaxing would help him

Nigga wrote so fucking much

 

[Gilbert_Durandal]

You are not 6.5/10

 

[True Paragon]

Nigga wrote so fucking much

Imagine being so addicted to the internet that anything that doesn't give you instant dopamine bores you, lol.

You are not 6.5/10

Firstly, I said I was roughly a 6.5. It's possible I'm just average-looking—all I can do is guess. Secondly, I've gone on dates with several attractive women so far—it's not like my situation with foids is completely hopeless. It's not unreasonable to believe that I'm a 6.5.

 

[Rigged]

Imagine being so addicted to the internet that anything that doesn't give you instant dopamine bores you, lol.

R u retarded why would anyone get entertained from a niggas life story

Firstly, I said I was roughly a 6.5. It's possible I'm just average-looking—all I can do is guess. Secondly, I've gone on dates with several attractive women so far—it's not like my situation with foids is completely hopeless. It's not unreasonable to believe that I'm a 6.5.

Forum scale 5/10 is average send ur face in pms, leaking is bannable if anything send it to a mod to rate u if ur worried abt getting leaked

 

[True Paragon]

R u retarded why would anyone get entertained from a niggas life story

You literally just proved my point. The fact that something needs to be entertaining for you to read it proves that you're incapable of appreciating anything unless it gives your brain dopamine. Take a break from the internet and read a book—it may increase your attention span.

send ur face in pms, leaking is bannable if anything send it to a mod to rate u if ur worried abt getting leaked

I already posted my face to another site, and the mean rating I got was 6.3. And I was roughly 10 pounds heavier then. I was only rated numerically by five users, but based on my dating experiences I think a 6.5 is a fair rating.

 

[Rigged]

You literally just proved my point. The fact that something needs to be entertaining for you to read it proves that you're incapable of appreciating anything unless it gives your brain dopamine. Take a break from the internet and read a book—it may increase your attention span.

No ur first reply stated as if i needed to get entertained to read which i dont, i have no reason to read ur life story, clearly someone has no reading comprehension, stop telling people to read and maybe get a literature book from ur local library

I already posted my face to another site, and the mean rating I got was 6.3. And I was roughly 10 pounds heavier then. I was only rated numerically by five users, but based on my dating experiences I think a 6.5 is a fair rating.

I posted my face on reddit and discord and got only 8-9/10
I posted it here and got a 6, when u learn people on bluepilled sites are trying to spread body positivity thats when ull stop coping ur likely a 4

 

[True Paragon]

No ur first reply stated as if i needed to get entertained to read which i dont, i have no reason to read ur life story, clearly someone has no reading comprehension

You're missing the point. Even if you have no interest in my life story, you described a one-page post as "so fucking much." You clearly have no attention span and need to spend less time on the internet.

when u learn people on bluepilled sites are trying to spread body positivity

I already know that. However, this site has the opposite problem. Many users here are insecure about their appearance, and that insecurity manifests in the form of underrating other people's appearances. I've seen many posts here rating stacies as stacylites and chadlites as htns. Also, some people become so immersed in these sites that their perception of who is and isn't attractive becomes distorted.

 

[try2beme]

Hey guys, this is my first post. I'm not sure whether I belong on this site, so I want to give a brief summary of myself.

About a year and a half ago, I began searching for a girlfriend. It was almost my 25th birthday, and I was worried that my youth would end before I found love. I'm a roughly 6.5/10 guy, so it shouldn't come as much of a surprise that 99.9% of women rejected me. Only a handful of ugly women were willing to settle on me, and virtually none of them were passionate about dating me.

The experience destroyed my self-esteem, but I didn't give up. I tried meeting women in person. I attended dozens of library events, dozens of exercise classes, and visited bars over 50 times in and around my city. I did volunteer work cleaning rabbit droppings, preparing food at hospices, and performing other sundry tasks. I attended several speed dating events, and even resorted to hanging out with other men from Bumble Friends in the hopes they had connections with young, single women. I know that all sounds pathetic, but I was desperate for love and validation.

But after a year of searching, I had made no progress. I did manage to go out with two attractive woman, but they ended up breaking things off. To make matters worse, my second date with one of them was the worst expereince I've ever had in my life. Despite everything we had in common (we were both anime/video game nerds) and the great conversations we had, she refused to kiss me, and told me on the same date how she hooked up with some guy she met at a bar a few years ago. Just think about that for a second. Some random chad/chadlite at a bar arouses her so much just by existing that she hops on his dick shortly after meeting, whereas I can't even get a kiss on our second date despite probably having more in common with her than any man she's been with. It was the most brutal blackpill I've ever expereinced.

But things have improved as of late. I lost 20 pounds, and after redownloading a dating app with fewer users, I've actually been able to match with attractive women. I still haven't found the right one yet, but I have some hope that things will work out before I grow old.

I'd like to chat with other blackpilled users here, but I don't know if this site is for me, as I'm not really interested in looksmaxing. Losing weight did help me, but I'm not sure losing any more would be worth the effort. But I do believe that looksmaxing can be beneficial.

tl;dr: blackpilled guy is trying to get a girlfriend, but doesn't know if looksmaxing would help him

Bruh idgaf genuinely

 

[Rigged]

You're missing the point. Even if you have no interest in my life story, you described a one-page post as "so fucking much." You clearly have no attention span and need to spend less time on the internet.

so fucking much would refer to more than necessary, would u look at the gilbert bible or any historical text and say “thats not alot”? The amount you wrote it alot more than needed, telling people to spend less time on the internet yet you’re posting information about yourself on an incel forum, seems someone needs to grow up

I already know that. However, this site has the opposite problem. Many users here are insecure about their appearance, and that insecurity manifests in the form of underrating other people's appearances. I've seen many posts here rating stacies as stacylites and chadlites as htns. Also, some people become so immersed in these sites that their perception of who is and isn't attractive becomes distorted.

Your average rating will still get accurate i posted my face got 4 mtn 5 mtn+ and 2 ltns, so id say its pretty obvious to say id be mtn-mtn+

If u posted ur face and got a decent amount of replies majority of them will have no bias