16 kkhv. Should i focus on getting an girlfreind while i am still in my teens?

[Orbital1]

I’m 16, about five months into the year, and I’ve never had a girlfriend, never had a girl show interest in me, and I’ve never had a talking stage. I’m also still a virgin. Honestly i have basically nothing going on socially and i have never been to an party or anything.

I keep seeing people say that missing out on teenage relationships is a huge loss, and that you’re “missing out on life” if you don’t experience it early.

Honestly, I’m not where I want to be yet. I really do not look good whatsover I don’t have much going for me right now in my life, and I don’t have any experience with girls. I’m just trying to figure out what I’m supposed to do and how to even start improving.

What are yalls thoughts?

 

[hatefoids666]

if you’ve never had a gf till now its OVER

 

[Gattsu]

Honestly, I’m not where I want to be yet. I really do not look good whatsover I don’t have much going for me right now in my life, and I don’t have any experience with girls. I’m just trying to figure out what I’m supposed to do and how to even start improving.

Improvement first, girls later. Otherwise you will feel a world of hell. Trust me. Do not date women unless you are ready.

 

[Orbital1]

if you’ve never had a gf till now its OVER

Well that is what i have been thinking man

 

[epic09]

yea gng its over
have u been approached before or nah

 

[Orbital1]

yea gng its over
have u been approached before or nah

Not even once nah lol

 

[Gattsu]

Well that is what i have been thinking man

Yeah it is definetly not over. Stop having an attachment to needing to get a gf. Focus on improving yourself instead.

 

[epic09]

Not even once nah

have you approached any one or nah

 

[Orbital1]

have you approached any one or nah

Nope i have never tried with girls, i have not even presented my self well, i dont even parpcipate socially and i am fat (26%) and dont take care of myself at all

 

[epic09]

Nope i have never tried with girls, i have not even presented my self well, i dont even parpcipate socially and i am fat (26%) and dont take care of myself at all

the how tf do you expect to a gf nigga
reps me a as well

 

[Orbital1]

the how tf do you expect to a gf nigga
reps me a as well

I dont know man i have been giga depressed for like 7-8 months now i havent even been outside in so long

 

[epic09]

I dont know man i have been giga depressed for like 7-8 months now i havent even been outside in so long

 

[dogshitinfras]

I’ve never had a girlfriend, never had a girl show interest in me, and I’ve never had a talking stage. I’m also still a virgin. Honestly i have basically nothing going on socially and i have never been to an party or anything

Relatable

 

[Daeron]

Lock in urself. Firstly you need to upgrade ur life, which ofc includes socializing(u can even find guides here), and the girl will come. Yet focusing on getting her will never get u her, and THEN focusing on her will demolish you.