16 never had a girl. What am I doing wrong?

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I’m 16, have never had a girlfriend, and I’ve never had a girl approach me, despite my peers considering me at least average looking.

I’m also not the type of guy who just sits in class and doesn’t talk to anyone.

I’m pretty well known at my school, though I can be a bit of a class clown.

Is there anything I could do to change this, or am I cursed for life 😭
 
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I’m 16, have never had a girlfriend, and I’ve never had a girl approach me, despite my peers considering me at least average looking.

I’m also not the type of guy who just sits in class and doesn’t talk to anyone.

I’m pretty well known at my school, though I can be a bit of a class clown.

Is there anything I could do to change this, or am I cursed for life 😭
do you think you're gonna attract girls like a magnet?

you gotta talk to them this is genuinely so obvious
 
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You give manlet vibes
 
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do you think you're gonna attract girls like a magnet?

you gotta talk to them this is genuinely so obvious
I’ve had banter with girls before in class, but it’s never gone past that. How do I get into a talking stage from that point?
 
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I’ve had banter with girls before in class, but it’s never gone past that. How do I get into a talking stage from that point?
find out about the interests about a girl and if you share similar stuff then talk to them about it and it can start from there
 
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find out about the interests about a girl and if you share similar stuff then talk to them about it and it can start from there
Low-key gonna try really hard to do that cause it's hard to find out interests through banter that's usual based on whatevers going on in class but low-key my only hope
 
do you think you're gonna attract girls like a magnet?

you gotta talk to them this is genuinely so obvious
he's ugly you fucking retard, ugly guys can be popular in their schools, at least in third world shitholes
 
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I’m 16, have never had a girlfriend, and I’ve never had a girl approach me, despite my peers considering me at least average looking.

I’m also not the type of guy who just sits in class and doesn’t talk to anyone.

I’m pretty well known at my school, though I can be a bit of a class clown.

Is there anything I could do to change this, or am I cursed for life 😭
Larp
 
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I’m 16, have never had a girlfriend, and I’ve never had a girl approach me, despite my peers considering me at least average looking.

I’m also not the type of guy who just sits in class and doesn’t talk to anyone.

I’m pretty well known at my school, though I can be a bit of a class clown.

Is there anything I could do to change this, or am I cursed for life 😭
Being average looking is equivalent to being a sub 5 in foid eyes
 
I’m 16, have never had a girlfriend, and I’ve never had a girl approach me, despite my peers considering me at least average looking.

I’m also not the type of guy who just sits in class and doesn’t talk to anyone.

I’m pretty well known at my school, though I can be a bit of a class clown.

Is there anything I could do to change this, or am I cursed for life 😭
same life as me dude.
 
he's ugly you fucking retard, ugly guys can be popular in their schools, at least in third world shitholes
Probably true but I don't think I'm hedious or anything since I get lots of girls on snap and nudes all the time so I must have some level of appeal but litterally doesn't translate at all irl but I also have more confidence on text and call vs irl so maybe that's it?
 
Going to social things helps I think. I don’t have friends but I went one time a few months ago to a camp and one ltb and one mtb (high mtn but she was blonde but no blue eyes so mtn) were into me. But I think it was only due the mtn having a language barrier, keeping the other boys away I guess
 
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he's ugly you fucking retard, ugly guys can be popular in their schools, at least in third world shitholes
So real in venezuela its always them popular 171cm (5'7) manlets that look like a parasite, blessed to have european descent lmao
 
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suicide

had my first GF at 12
 
I’m 16, have never had a girlfriend, and I’ve never had a girl approach me, despite my peers considering me at least average looking.

I’m also not the type of guy who just sits in class and doesn’t talk to anyone.

I’m pretty well known at my school, though I can be a bit of a class clown.

Is there anything I could do to change this, or am I cursed for life 😭
your not the 1% they want
 
KHHV at nearly 18
gg's son
it may look like its not over but it is at 18 you should be having 3 luxry cars making at least 60k a month and 500k followers
 
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I’ve had banter with girls before in class, but it’s never gone past that. How do I get into a talking stage from that point?
So you’re asking why you can’t get a girlfriend when the most you’ve done is chop it up with girls in your class JFL. The goal should be a relationship not a talking stage, tell a girl she looks good or something then play off her response
 
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gg's son
it may look like its not over but it is at 18 you should be having 3 luxry cars making at least 60k a month and 500k followers
ggs
 
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So you’re asking why you can’t get a girlfriend when the most you’ve done is chop it up with girls in your class JFL. The goal should be a relationship not a talking stage, tell a girl she looks good or something then play off her response
In front of the class tho?
 
Don't tempt me bruh
I'm talking to my gf now or talking stage
like 5 of them a t the same time also your first kiss was supposed to be at like 12-13
 
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It's never over:feelshah:
 
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5'7 average looking with a good physique for my age(I get complimented by my classmates)
grow out your hair and try to be like kinda niche old money and get middle part it fits every niche I'ma girls mind
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Yeah I'm tryna grow my hair out. But you think people in highschool won't think I'm performative for dressing old money?
well don't go too far just go like a polo shirt here and transition
 
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