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> the biggest hurdle with being nd is that you’re too sensitive
Yes, most definitely.
> and take things too seriously.
Seriousness does not matter. You are sensetive or not, it mostly biology and feedback loop. From the scratch.
> you feel like you have to analyze
Gaslighting, people don't feel anything obligatory. They are marking events, nothing more, nothing less.
> when you can just choose not to care
No, you can't. If you could, you would choose it to suffer less.
> you will find out that it’d be much easier to live life if you have thick skin and take things at face value.
Living life can't be easy if your face value is under 8. CBT tricks can't help with objective problems.
> don’t overthink everything,
If reader is here, it is already over for any chances to back off from overminding, sorry, overthinking.
> society’s always been the way it is
No, it wasn't that bad. It is another lie.
> and you just have to live your life.
If you here, you probably don't have any.
> if every little thing another person does affects you then it’d be really hard for you to survive in today’s society
Yes, most definitely.
Yes, most definitely.
> and take things too seriously.
Seriousness does not matter. You are sensetive or not, it mostly biology and feedback loop. From the scratch.
> you feel like you have to analyze
Gaslighting, people don't feel anything obligatory. They are marking events, nothing more, nothing less.
> when you can just choose not to care
No, you can't. If you could, you would choose it to suffer less.
> you will find out that it’d be much easier to live life if you have thick skin and take things at face value.
Living life can't be easy if your face value is under 8. CBT tricks can't help with objective problems.
> don’t overthink everything,
If reader is here, it is already over for any chances to back off from overminding, sorry, overthinking.
> society’s always been the way it is
No, it wasn't that bad. It is another lie.
> and you just have to live your life.
If you here, you probably don't have any.
> if every little thing another person does affects you then it’d be really hard for you to survive in today’s society
Yes, most definitely.
Freestyleofnoone
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The thing is there are different rules for non nt people especially with low status, there is conditioning where something small may be nothing for most, but signals permanent desire to disassociate forever towards nd person. Either way i don’t feel anything about it.