25 and I genuinely don't know if my looks or social anxiety ruined my dating life

[Doublex2J]

it’s your only option if dating apps aren’t working

either cold approach

or try talk to girls from school/work

you have to do something

or you’ll end up lonely forever

which shouldn’t be your fate

given you’re good looking enough

Are dating apps only for HTN+ men? Because I can't get shit.

 

[Doublex2J]

ever tried pharmaceutical intervention?

Benzos and SSRIs, Phenibut...

 

[Fledermaus]

Benzos only

there are plenty of threads on here, go research and find something fitting to your exact problems and then try taking them and start cold approaching and/or socialising with people.
your looks arent in any way the problem here.

 

[eology]

Benzos and SSRIs, Phenibut...

if this mind numbing stuff didnt work idk then

 

[donald joe]

I'm 25 and I've struggled with severe social anxiety for years. I've never had a girlfriend, never been on a date and never kissed anyone.

Dating apps have been pretty depressing for me. I don't literally get zero matches, and I've occasionally had girls show some interest or had conversations that went somewhere for a while, but overall I've had very little success. Almost nothing has ever translated into actually meeting someone, and most conversations eventually just die.

The problem is that I can't really compare that with my experience in real life either. My social anxiety is bad enough that approaching a girl or openly showing interest feels almost impossible.


Around people I don't know well I become extremely self-conscious. I'm thinking about how I look, what I'm doing with my body, whether I'm acting weird, what the other person thinks of me, etc. I end up being much quieter and more inhibited than I actually want to be.

So I've basically reached 25 with almost no romantic experience, while also having no idea what the main reason actually is.

Brutal. I used to think rejecting girls was for the better of me to not get into drama etc now I realized young love is law other wise getting a girl when ur 20+ is a lot harder

 

[ethnogitis]

Vollest of cels

 

[fantom0726]

Vollest of cels

nigga

 

[vyyavka]

fuck u bruh I feel like ur larping for sure

 

[ClackChoopedAsFk]

Seeing your face and you telling me you got ghosted i should rope but I am a too fearful to do so gotta cope like this

 

[pexy]

Are dating apps only for HTN+ men? Because I can't get shit.

yeah

if you’re sub-HTN you’ll have a horrible time on them

even HTNs struggle on them too

 

[Doublex2J]

there are plenty of threads on here, go research and find something fitting to your exact problems and then try taking them and start cold approaching and/or socialising with people.
your looks arent in any way the problem here.

Irl ≠ pics probably, pics are better than reality

 

[Doublex2J]

Seeing your face and you telling me you got ghosted i should rope but I am a too fearful to do so gotta cope like this

Nah man, you probably have chances

 

[Doublex2J]

fuck u bruh I feel like ur larping for sure

I promise not. I've been here since 2019

 

[Fledermaus]

Irl ≠ pics probably, pics are better than reality

stop coping dude its not the looks.

 

[Doublex2J]

yeah

if you’re sub-HTN you’ll have a horrible time on them

even HTNs struggle on them too

Yeah ik for real

 

[Doublex2J]

stop coping dude its not the looks.

But why dating apps didn't work then?

 

[ClackChoopedAsFk]

Yeah, but I won't make it past 27

Bruh just try to get with some Asian Stacy if you have a fkng curse on you. Leave the dream of white girls

 

[ClackChoopedAsFk]

Nah man, you probably have chances

Your being positive I am a jeet. Deathnic curse it's over

 

[Doublex2J]

Your being positive I am a jeet. Deathnic curse it's over

We are ethnic subhumans

 

[Fledermaus]

But why dating apps didn't work then?

nigga mate you think 5 likes are bad? only chads get insane amounts of matches and likes, 5 is good. your problem is you can’t keep conversations up until you get to meet up.

 

[Celt]

I'm 25 and I've struggled with severe social anxiety for years. I've never had a girlfriend, never been on a date and never kissed anyone.

Dating apps have been pretty depressing for me. I don't literally get zero matches, and I've occasionally had girls show some interest or had conversations that went somewhere for a while, but overall I've had very little success. Almost nothing has ever translated into actually meeting someone, and most conversations eventually just die.

The problem is that I can't really compare that with my experience in real life either. My social anxiety is bad enough that approaching a girl or openly showing interest feels almost impossible.


Around people I don't know well I become extremely self-conscious. I'm thinking about how I look, what I'm doing with my body, whether I'm acting weird, what the other person thinks of me, etc. I end up being much quieter and more inhibited than I actually want to be.

So I've basically reached 25 with almost no romantic experience, while also having no idea what the main reason actually is.

can’t see the pictures but social anxiety will cook you entirely unless you’re a literal chad
if i had a solution for it other than drugs i wouldn’t be on this forum with you

 

[tansel]

oh my goodness man haha

70 replies for this mentalcel manlet

are we being serious man

just go to colombia & geomax

what is this retarded thread

 

[Luquier]

I'm 25 and I've struggled with severe social anxiety for years. I've never had a girlfriend, never been on a date and never kissed anyone.

Dating apps have been pretty depressing for me. I don't literally get zero matches, and I've occasionally had girls show some interest or had conversations that went somewhere for a while, but overall I've had very little success. Almost nothing has ever translated into actually meeting someone, and most conversations eventually just die.

The problem is that I can't really compare that with my experience in real life either. My social anxiety is bad enough that approaching a girl or openly showing interest feels almost impossible.


Around people I don't know well I become extremely self-conscious. I'm thinking about how I look, what I'm doing with my body, whether I'm acting weird, what the other person thinks of me, etc. I end up being much quieter and more inhibited than I actually want to be.

So I've basically reached 25 with almost no romantic experience, while also having no idea what the main reason actually is.

looks did tbh

 

[tansel]

nigga mate you think 5 likes are bad? only chads get insane amounts of matches and likes, 5 is good. your problem is you can’t keep conversations up until you get to meet up.

hello

rep my comment as i want to view this thread later

 

[Detective]

i remember you
its anxiety for sure

 

[Mandibular0]

youre stupid

 

[americanpakitruvcel]

It’s absolutely social anxiety I’m sorry, you are very good looking and otherwise even at 5’8 you would be excelling.