34M got cheated on and am feeling down about my looks

[Rabbi]

Comments are pure bluepill but I feel bad for the guy.

 

[Chadeep]

Typical Reddit Soyboy Physiognomy

 

[Rabbi]

Typical Reddit Soyboy Physiognomy

“B-b-b-but it was her body her choice though!!!”

 

[Deleted member 13197]

god how soy do you have to be to post that on r/amiugly

someone like Zesto should hack r/trm, r/rm, and r/amiugly and add a quicklink to this website on the sideboard

These guys need honesty not gaslighting

 

[AlexAP]

He should get lean, shave his beard (or replace with stubble) and dye his eyebrows.

 

[Adriana Lima]

OMFG YOU LOOK LIKE X VIDYA CHARACTER

 

[OOGABOOGA]

Honestly I’m kinda disgusted by the comments. This people aren’t living in reality at all.

 

[cube]

Which one of you was this -

Most people here are trying to give you a confidence boost, and I'm all for it, but I'll give you some actual useful advice on what makes you unattractive and how to fix it. On a decile scale I'd say you are probably around a 4, which while isn't terrible isn't great either.

The first problem you have is NCT (negative canthal tilt), which means if you where to draw lines between the starting point and ending point of your eyelids you would get both of them facing up, which makes it look like you have prey/victim eyes. There are a couple exercises you can do and surgeries to fix this.

Your second problem is upper eyelid exposure, which means that when your eyes are open, some of the upper eyelid is showing, as opposed to hidden. Again, there are exercises and surgeries to fix this, which you can see online.

Your beard also brings down your looks level a bit, but I assume its hiding a weak jaw, which is the reason most people grow beards. What I'd recommend is trimming it regularly to stubble, which strengthens the angularity of the jaw without giving the bad beard look you have.

Another concern is your eyebrows, they look thin and small, which weakens your look. I would recommend looking at trimming your eyebrows into an ideal shape as well as applying minoxidil/castor oil.

You have a naturally high hairline which you may want to hide by choosing a hairstyle that covers your upper third, but its not too much of a concern.

You have a weak shoulder to hip ratio, ideally the shoulders should be noticeably larger than the hips, you can achieve this with upper body focused strength training.

Ideally the neck should be as wide as the jaw, which you can do by adding a set of neck exercises at the end of each workout.

Bodyfat % is also a strong determiner of your looks, and judging by your pictures you seem to be at 20-25%, the ideal is 12%, but you can easily go down to at least 15% by just following a healthy diet in a calorie deficit and regular exercise.

I know you probably wont want to do all of these, but just keep them in mind if you ever feel like improving your looks. Know your attractiveness has nothing to do with why you got cheated on and that your partner was just an awful person. As you are you are already decently attractive, but you do have a good base for a lot of future improvement if you would like to go down that route. Anyways best of luck to you in the future.

 

[AlexAP]

Which one of you was this -

Most people here are trying to give you a confidence boost, and I'm all for it, but I'll give you some actual useful advice on what makes you unattractive and how to fix it. On a decile scale I'd say you are probably around a 4, which while isn't terrible isn't great either.

The first problem you have is NCT (negative canthal tilt), which means if you where to draw lines between the starting point and ending point of your eyelids you would get both of them facing up, which makes it look like you have prey/victim eyes. There are a couple exercises you can do and surgeries to fix this.

Your second problem is upper eyelid exposure, which means that when your eyes are open, some of the upper eyelid is showing, as opposed to hidden. Again, there are exercises and surgeries to fix this, which you can see online.

Your beard also brings down your looks level a bit, but I assume its hiding a weak jaw, which is the reason most people grow beards. What I'd recommend is trimming it regularly to stubble, which strengthens the angularity of the jaw without giving the bad beard look you have.

Another concern is your eyebrows, they look thin and small, which weakens your look. I would recommend looking at trimming your eyebrows into an ideal shape as well as applying minoxidil/castor oil.

You have a naturally high hairline which you may want to hide by choosing a hairstyle that covers your upper third, but its not too much of a concern.

You have a weak shoulder to hip ratio, ideally the shoulders should be noticeably larger than the hips, you can achieve this with upper body focused strength training.

Ideally the neck should be as wide as the jaw, which you can do by adding a set of neck exercises at the end of each workout.

Bodyfat % is also a strong determiner of your looks, and judging by your pictures you seem to be at 20-25%, the ideal is 12%, but you can easily go down to at least 15% by just following a healthy diet in a calorie deficit and regular exercise.

I know you probably wont want to do all of these, but just keep them in mind if you ever feel like improving your looks. Know your attractiveness has nothing to do with why you got cheated on and that your partner was just an awful person. As you are you are already decently attractive, but you do have a good base for a lot of future improvement if you would like to go down that route. Anyways best of luck to you in the future.

JFL Reddit is full of looksmaxers it seems.