4 Reasons Why I Want to Stay an Incel

[Deleted member 19865]

For years, I've always thought there was something wrong with me because I never had a gf. The very idea that I was alone while everyone I knew had gfs made me feel as though there was something wrong with me. Now, I'm starting to become content with it, and here's the reasons why:

1. Anaphrodesiac usage
   
   • The use of anaphrodesiacs has nullified my desire to pursue women. I can now focus on more productive and logical things than coom-brained pursuits of women.
2. It's a waste of time
   
   • I'd rather spend my time improving my life in other ways such as financially and intellectually then trying to constantly chat up some females and trying to maintain relationships with them while making sure they don't fuck other dudes behind my back
3. Chasing women is kind of emasculating and pathetic
   
   • Imagine having to go around groveling to women in hopes that she finds you to be good enough for her? It's not a fair and even trade-off. Most guys with gfs only have them because they had to take the time pathetically trying to convince the female that they were worthwhile. It's groveling and submissive behavior that I want no part of. I don't wanna have to convince anyone shit. I'm already confident in my own shoes and I'd never want to hang out with someone that I'd have to self myself to.
4. I like to be alone
   
   • When I say this, I don't mean all the time. I do like to go out with friends and have a good time, but having alone time is chill. I can just do my own thing without anyone judging me or trying to get into my business. I can just vibe and not give a fuck. It's a kind of freedom that I enjoy too much to get into an LTR.

 

[Deleted member 23218]

For years, I've always thought there was something wrong with me because I never had a gf. The very idea that I was alone while everyone I knew had gfs made me feel as though there was something wrong with me. Now, I'm starting to become content with it, and here's the reasons why:

1. Anaphrodesiac usage
   
   • The use of anaphrodesiacs has nullified my desire to pursue women. I can now focus on more productive and logical things than coom-brained pursuits of women.
2. It's a waste of time
   
   • I'd rather spend my time improving my life in other ways such as financially and intellectually then trying to constantly chat up some females and trying to maintain relationships with them while making sure they don't fuck other dudes behind my back
3. Chasing women is kind of emasculating and pathetic
   
   • Imagine having to go around groveling to women in hopes that she finds you to be good enough for her? It's not a fair and even trade-off. Most guys with gfs only have them because they had to take the time pathetically trying to convince the female that they were worthwhile. It's groveling and submissive behavior that I want no part of. I don't wanna have to convince anyone shit. I'm already confident in my own shoes and I'd never want to hang out with someone that I'd have to self myself to.
4. I like to be alone
   
   • When I say this, I don't mean all the time. I do like to go out with friends and have a good time, but having alone time is chill. I can just do my own thing without anyone judging me or trying to get into my business. I can just vibe and not give a fuck. It's a kind of freedom that I enjoy too much to get into an LTR.

Just get an escort and do the rest of ur going mgtow tbh

 

[Deleted member 19865]

Just get an escort and do the rest of ur going mgtow tbh

Was actually considering that. Problem is that escorts are illegal where I'm at and I'd have to vacation a thousand miles away to get one without risking getting fucked over by narcs. All the good escort sites are now removed by feds because god forbid women do actual work and the man actually get something out of the exchange between the two. Thanks, 'murica.

 

[Deleted member 23218]

Was actually considering that. Problem is that escorts are illegal where I'm at and I'd have to vacation a thousand miles away to get one without risking getting fucked over by narcs. Thanks, 'murica.

Lol you won’t get caught and if ur scared get a sugar baby 500 dollars for raw sex with a jb of ur lucky and that’s totally legal

 

[Deleted member 23218]

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Quoting @AscensionMan98

“The first site beats the hell out of seeking cause a lot more fresh younger pussy signing up, and cause they don't verify you might get lucky and get a jb lol ( uncommon but if you spot a jb message fast as every other dude is gonna try to get her ). Seeking used to be like that but then the age cucks forced 18 yr old roasties to verify . Not sure if secret benefits does but I see some foids that def look like jb still so makes me wonder haha”

 

[Deleted member 19865]

Lol you won’t get caught and if ur scared get a sugar baby 500 dollars for raw sex with a jb of ur lucky and that’s totally legal

When backpage was still a thing, escorts were viable, but now you gotta go to shady dark web places to find them.
I don't even know where I'd start.

Also, where do you find a sugar baby?

 

[Deleted member 23218]

When backpage was still a thing, escorts were viable, but now you gotta go to shady dark web places to find them.
I don't even know where I'd start.

Also, where do you find a sugar baby?

Check above and you can check out escort Babylon, tryst and a few other places. Some of models put out as well

 

[Deleted member 19865]

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[Deleted member 19865]

Check above and you can check out escort Babylon, tryst and a few other places. Some of models put out as well

Check above and you can check out escort Babylon, tryst and a few other places. Some of models put out as well

Aight thanks, I'll check it out.

 

[Deleted member 23115]

jfl at people trying to revert back to their prepubescent self when they could do things without being distracted by women. It's over after pubert y if u are inkwell my nigga.

 

[Deleted member 19865]

jfl at people trying to revert back to their prepubescent self when they could do things without being distracted by women. It's over after pubert y if u are inkwell my nigga.

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[Deleted member 23115]

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you will always feel like there's something wrong with you because you are a fucking man without sexual love/intimacy. You aren't a child who doesnt need sexual love/intimacy.

 

[Deleted member 23115]

@BrahminBoss u are literally an avid looksmaxxer dont tell me u do it to get reacts on an internet forum

 

[Deleted member 19865]

you will always feel like there's something wrong with you because you are a fucking man without sexual love/intimacy. You aren't a child who doesnt need sexual love/intimacy.

Yeah but escortmaxing can fix that.
Also what you're basically saying is, "Be a slave to your primal desires, goy."

 

[Gonthar]

1. Anaphrodesiac usage
   
   • The use of anaphrodesiacs has nullified my desire to pursue women. I can now focus on more productive and logical things than coom-brained pursuits of women.

What anaphrodesiacs ?

 

[Deleted member 19865]

What anaphrodesiacs ?

Low dose AIs.

 

[Gonthar]

Low dose AIs.

How is this anaphrodisiac ?

 

[thenewhebbe]

Was actually considering that. Problem is that escorts are illegal where I'm at and I'd have to vacation a thousand miles away to get one without risking getting fucked over by narcs. All the good escort sites are now removed by feds because god forbid women do actual work and the man actually get something out of the exchange between the two. Thanks, 'murica.

Getting caught is hard and If you are usa just bring video camera

 

[Deleted member 19865]

How is this anaphrodisiac ?

lowers your estrogen and progesterone levels, which is necessary for sex drive

 

[Deleted member 21766]

Didn’t read + cope

 

[Deleted member 19865]

Didn’t read + cope

then why did you click?

 

[Gonthar]

lowers your estrogen and progesterone levels, which is necessary for sex drive

But it increases testosterone...

 

[Deleted member 19865]

But it increases testosterone...

yes, but progesterone is the main culprit for sex drive. Test mainly just contributes to confidence and aggression

 

[thickdickdaddy27]

over if you have to destroy your sex drive so you're not distracted by women

 

[Deleted member 19865]

over if you have to destroy your sex drive so you're not distracted by women

It's not about not getting distracted by women, it's about ensuring that your goals do not involve pursuing them.

 

[betrayed by 5‘8]

For years, I've always thought there was something wrong with me because I never had a gf. The very idea that I was alone while everyone I knew had gfs made me feel as though there was something wrong with me. Now, I'm starting to become content with it, and here's the reasons why:

1. Anaphrodesiac usage
   
   • The use of anaphrodesiacs has nullified my desire to pursue women. I can now focus on more productive and logical things than coom-brained pursuits of women.
2. It's a waste of time
   
   • I'd rather spend my time improving my life in other ways such as financially and intellectually then trying to constantly chat up some females and trying to maintain relationships with them while making sure they don't fuck other dudes behind my back
3. Chasing women is kind of emasculating and pathetic
   
   • Imagine having to go around groveling to women in hopes that she finds you to be good enough for her? It's not a fair and even trade-off. Most guys with gfs only have them because they had to take the time pathetically trying to convince the female that they were worthwhile. It's groveling and submissive behavior that I want no part of. I don't wanna have to convince anyone shit. I'm already confident in my own shoes and I'd never want to hang out with someone that I'd have to self myself to.
4. I like to be alone
   
   • When I say this, I don't mean all the time. I do like to go out with friends and have a good time, but having alone time is chill. I can just do my own thing without anyone judging me or trying to get into my business. I can just vibe and not give a fuck. It's a kind of freedom that I enjoy too much to get into an LTR.

chasing women is waste of time proceeds to post on this forum jfl..

 

[Deleted member 19865]

chasing women is waste of time proceeds to post on this forum jfl..

This forum has helped me self improve a lot. At first, it was the goal of getting women, but now I am starting to see that as below my other priorities of making money and friends. The more money I make, the less I seem to care about women, since they become more of a liability than an asset.

 

[AscensionMan98]

Was actually considering that. Problem is that escorts are illegal where I'm at and I'd have to vacation a thousand miles away to get one without risking getting fucked over by narcs. All the good escort sites are now removed by feds because god forbid women do actual work and the man actually get something out of the exchange between the two. Thanks, 'murica.

Yea I don't bother with real escort sites ( though one of my friends uses it, he used one for years, called eros or something . I can try to find the exact name. But the problem was most of the foids were old, and the idea of it being a literal pay for sex service means you do have at some point a concern of a undercover thing. But I have used seeking and sugar baby sites with several different foids over the course of a few years from time to time, never had any issues. Their are a lot of college age foids and some of them are fairly well off also but just addicted to money so sell their body. Unlike the other pure escort sites its marketed as a more relationship style thing which the legal cucks look the other way.

 

[AscensionMan98]

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Quoting @AscensionMan98

“The first site beats the hell out of seeking cause a lot more fresh younger pussy signing up, and cause they don't verify you might get lucky and get a jb lol ( uncommon but if you spot a jb message fast as every other dude is gonna try to get her ). Seeking used to be like that but then the age cucks forced 18 yr old roasties to verify . Not sure if secret benefits does but I see some foids that def look like jb still so makes me wonder haha”

Yup this is true but its only in america, and Canada I believe unfortunately. I didn't see anything in Europe, but if the site gets popular it might get their.

 

[St.TikTokcel]

For years, I've always thought there was something wrong with me because I never had a gf. The very idea that I was alone while everyone I knew had gfs made me feel as though there was something wrong with me. Now, I'm starting to become content with it, and here's the reasons why:

1. Anaphrodesiac usage
   
   • The use of anaphrodesiacs has nullified my desire to pursue women. I can now focus on more productive and logical things than coom-brained pursuits of women.
2. It's a waste of time
   
   • I'd rather spend my time improving my life in other ways such as financially and intellectually then trying to constantly chat up some females and trying to maintain relationships with them while making sure they don't fuck other dudes behind my back
3. Chasing women is kind of emasculating and pathetic
   
   • Imagine having to go around groveling to women in hopes that she finds you to be good enough for her? It's not a fair and even trade-off. Most guys with gfs only have them because they had to take the time pathetically trying to convince the female that they were worthwhile. It's groveling and submissive behavior that I want no part of. I don't wanna have to convince anyone shit. I'm already confident in my own shoes and I'd never want to hang out with someone that I'd have to self myself to.
4. I like to be alone
   
   • When I say this, I don't mean all the time. I do like to go out with friends and have a good time, but having alone time is chill. I can just do my own thing without anyone judging me or trying to get into my business. I can just vibe and not give a fuck. It's a kind of freedom that I enjoy too much to get into an LTR.

You are born a subhuman. It's not a thing that you can change. So sorry.

 

[DR. NICKGA]

not that you have any choice

 

[Deleted member 19865]

not that you have any choice

There's a reason why I used the word, incel.

You are born a subhuman. It's not a thing that you can change. So sorry.

I am not subhuman, just completely averse to having to go out of my way to get women. I've come across many opportunities to go out with women, but I am incapable of approaching or making any moves for whatever reason.

The only way I'd ever be able to get a gf is if women threw themselves at me, which obviously isn't gonna happen, so I'm an incel in a sense.

 

[Deleted member 19865]

Yea I don't bother with real escort sites ( though one of my friends uses it, he used one for years, called eros or something . I can try to find the exact name. But the problem was most of the foids were old, and the idea of it being a literal pay for sex service means you do have at some point a concern of a undercover thing. But I have used seeking and sugar baby sites with several different foids over the course of a few years from time to time, never had any issues. Their are a lot of college age foids and some of them are fairly well off also but just addicted to money so sell their body. Unlike the other pure escort sites its marketed as a more relationship style thing which the legal cucks look the other way.

Definitely gonna look into it.

 

[Bojack]

Just go er, enough of this mgtow cope. You know you are nothing without women. If you are Conan the barbarian being breaded with the highest caliber of stacy then go er

 

[Deleted member 19865]

Just go er, enough of this mgtow cope. You know you are nothing without women. If you are Conan the barbarian being breaded with the highest caliber of stacy then go er

Western women contribute negatively to most men's lives.

 

[PrinceLuenLeoncur]

Check above and you can check out escort Babylon, tryst and a few other places. Some of models put out as well

Any for UKcels?

 

[PrinceLuenLeoncur]

lowers your estrogen and progesterone levels, which is necessary for sex drive

SIGN ME TF UP WHERE IS THIS GODLY MIRACLE DRUG I NEED IR

 

[Deleted member 23218]

Any for UKcels?

Adultwork

 

[PrinceLuenLeoncur]

Adultwork

sites shit the women there are ugly in my location. I have to drive to other cities for seggz and I don’t drive yet JFL @ my shir life I’m a failure rn

 

[Deleted member 23218]

sites shit the women there are ugly in my location. I have to drive to other cities for seggz and I don’t drive yet JFL @ my shir life I’m a failure rn

Over for you. There are hot ones in London lol some users slayed a stacylite 200

 

[PrinceLuenLeoncur]

Over for you. There are hot ones in London lol some users slayed a stacylite 200

Not many where I am. I am truly living in the worse timeline in the worse location

 

[Deleted member 25245]

For years, I've always thought there was something wrong with me because I never had a gf. The very idea that I was alone while everyone I knew had gfs made me feel as though there was something wrong with me. Now, I'm starting to become content with it, and here's the reasons why:

1. Anaphrodesiac usage
   
   • The use of anaphrodesiacs has nullified my desire to pursue women. I can now focus on more productive and logical things than coom-brained pursuits of women.
2. It's a waste of time
   
   • I'd rather spend my time improving my life in other ways such as financially and intellectually then trying to constantly chat up some females and trying to maintain relationships with them while making sure they don't fuck other dudes behind my back
3. Chasing women is kind of emasculating and pathetic
   
   • Imagine having to go around groveling to women in hopes that she finds you to be good enough for her? It's not a fair and even trade-off. Most guys with gfs only have them because they had to take the time pathetically trying to convince the female that they were worthwhile. It's groveling and submissive behavior that I want no part of. I don't wanna have to convince anyone shit. I'm already confident in my own shoes and I'd never want to hang out with someone that I'd have to self myself to.
4. I like to be alone
   
   • When I say this, I don't mean all the time. I do like to go out with friends and have a good time, but having alone time is chill. I can just do my own thing without anyone judging me or trying to get into my business. I can just vibe and not give a fuck. It's a kind of freedom that I enjoy too much to get into an LTR.

Copee

 

[Deleted member 19865]

Copee

Seethee