75% of my friends are permanently single (26yo)

[Deleted member 17578]

Women aren't dating or fucking the average man anymore. None of these guys have major flaws:

1) They all have middle-class money/income and education.
2) No drug addictions, not on any medication.
3) They are all physically healthy, no handicaps, they workout, they play sports.
4) None of them are obese/fat. Some are skinnyfat.
5) None of them are in some extreme niche. (Nerd/Goth/Anime-enthusiast/whatever)

But they aren't good enough to 20-26yo women.

The 25% that aren't single?
1 normie is married to a landwhale. His first girlfriend he met 3 years ago.
1 6'3 HTN is in a 6 year long relationship with a becky.

Relationships are fucking dead. Sexlives are over. Mixed-gender social lives are gone.
These most basic things like getting a girlfriend have become hard to obtain. Don't let bluepilled idiots gaslight you, because reality is truly hard like this.

I wouldn't say it's necessairily hypergamy or lookism being at the core of this societal issue.
I think it's the consequence of dating and socializing being harder than ever, making it more important to have an advantage over fellow male competitors.

When the job market is easy, anyone can get a job. Degree or not, experience or not. Akin to every guy being able to get a girlfriend like boomers had it.
When the job market is hard, unemployment and poverty is high. To get the scarce jobs, you need degrees, experience, connections, etc. Akin to the modern dating market where you need good looks to get the scarce girls that are still out there.

Life isn't as easy as a lot of people make it out to be. Just because you can sit in your basement, play league and order pizza to your doorstep, doesn't mean life is easy.

Because the things that actually matter in life for feeling happy and fullfilled in the long term have become harder to obtain than ever. Which is a major part of the reason why you see so many guys live in such a 'sad' way. Why so many people feel depressed and out of touch.

Bluepillers gtfo

 

[gamma]

Need @Biggdink to you

 

[gamma]

Which country btw

 

[Deleted member 17578]

Which country btw

netherlands

 

[Deleted member 14693]

For me its 90%. (Im 18)

18 year olds aren't in relationships anymore, only the good looking guys fuck. (Everyone else just gets lucky once in a while)

 

[metagross]

Women aren't really "scarce". There are plenty.
The problem is that they all just want to date the same type of guy. And frequently, they do.

 

[GandyIsNormie]

netherlands

girls want boys dark triad hit men drug addicts not soy men

 

[the BULL]

Holy shit what a cope. I see nothing but subhumans with decent gfs outside (as gl ppl are very rare). Average Forum user already mogs 90% of ppl outside, the difference Is they mostly rely on OLD (where they only have bedroom selfies) and never talk to girls.

 

[the BULL]

But Hey if you got a gf you would have nothing more to cry about ig

 

[Deleted member 17578]

Holy shit what a cope. I see nothing but subhumans with decent gfs outside (as gl ppl are very rare). Average Forum user already mogs 90% of ppl outside, the difference Is they mostly rely on OLD (where they only have bedroom selfies) and never talk to girls.

JFL at talking to girls when they don't give ioi. Ur living 2 decades ago when women still talked to strangers.

 

[11gaijin]

Most of my colleagues have gfs and if they posted here they would be asked to rope, I'm only slightly older than you

 

[gamma]

26 yo...
I bet many of those guys are balding, and don't have social circle with women

 

[Deleted]

maby

 

[Deleted member 17578]

Most of my colleagues have gfs and if they posted here they would be asked to rope, I'm only slightly older than you

cant relate. in the netherlands its over unless ur chad

 

[Deleted member 17578]

26 yo...
I bet many of those guys are balding, and don't have social circle with women

normies don't have mixed-gender social circles here. Women don't associate with you unless you are good-looking.

 

[the BULL]

JFL at talking to girls when they don't give ioi. Ur living 2 decades ago when women still talked to strangers.

I go out everyday weirdo you don't talk to girls on the streets you go clubbing or in bars
If no girl IOIs you chances are you are subhuman, you probably don't even look at sub htbs though

 

[EnjoyerOf Water]

Having sexual partners is today, not that anyone wants to be. Getting a "girlfriend" is out of fashion, nobody wants those "traditional relationships", it is not female hypergamy, it is the extreme liberalism in which society itself is involved. Get out of the fucking basement and understand what today's society is like, before they had children at 15, now nobody thinks about it and they sign up until they are 35+, current generations hate shitty responsibilities, including having a relationship.

 

[Deleted member 17578]

I go out everyday weirdo you don't talk to girls on the streets you go clubbing or in bars
If no girl IOIs you chances are you are subhuman, you probably don't even look at sub htbs though

Can't relate cuz I am a HTN subhuman.
I used to approach women in clubs/bars all the time, but I just get an uninterested or dirty look, body language telling me to leave her alone.

I need to put bluepillers like you on the ignore list.

 

[Chinacurry]

If u wanna be attractive to a pretty foid you need:

No ethnic failo, you can be ethnic but not have the failo

Bodyfat bow 15%

Tal

ler than 5'10"

Don't have a job that isn't cool, no job is fine, best would be personal trainer or military lifetime NPV of the job is irrelevant

Top 0.1% dick size

Top 5% face

Average or better levels of NTness

Above average confidence, ideally Top 20%

 

[the BULL]

Can't relate cuz I am a HTN subhuman.
I used to approach women in clubs/bars all the time, but I just get an uninterested or dirty look, body language telling me to leave her alone.

I need to put bluepillers like you on the ignore list.

Then how the subhumans i see outside have gfs
Blackpill corrupted your brain, women's standards aren't that high. Even when i see videos on tik tok like " i went on this tinder date" and then they're engaged, they guy Is a soylent subhuman give me a break with this top 5% shit. Obv Life Is easier when good looking but there's no way you can't find a gf as a tall htn

 

[Deleted member 17578]

Then how the subhumans i see outside have gfs
Blackpill corrupted your brain, women's standards aren't that high. Even when i see videos on tik tok like " i went on this tinder date" and then they're engaged, they guy Is a soylent subhuman give me a break with this top 5% shit. Obv Life Is easier when good looking but there's no way you can't find a gf as a tall htn

you sound like yuyevon alt

 

[the BULL]

you sound like yuyevon alt

bro i would believe the shit that we say on here until you don't get actually reality pilled. you would sound just ridicolous saying this shit irl because the evidence is all against you. guess what, probably your group of friends are as you, shy loners with no interests. shocking right? ppl attract their similars

 

[Deleted member 17578]

your group of friends are as you, shy loners with no interests.

Just some of the shit I did in my early 20s (20-23yo) before corona when I still had some hope that socialmaxxing would make a difference:

1)Took salsa/bachata classes for 2 years. Once/Twice a week with a social-dancing event every once in a while.
2)Volunteered for the red-cross as a first-aid at local events, festivals, etc.
3)Joined a rowing frat I was part of for 2 years. Drank/partied there and travelled across the netherlands to local rowing events.
4)Joined a running team. Running/training as a group together and ran 2 half-marathons.
5)Part of my university student association and went on weekendtrips, pubcrawls, similar events with them during ~2 years.
6)Part-time job as a bartender at the occasional local festival.
7)Working as a receptionist at the local gym where I also did my workouts.

I most likely mog you to death in reality experience.

For most of my life when I was younger I played in a basketball team and I was part of an orchestra as a first-violin player. I also did polish folklore dancing untill I was ~13yo. I am also pretty good at skiing and went on wintersports-holidays many times.

JFL if you think any of this matters. The people with the most interesting lives have always had the least success with women.

The guys I knew were getting women were just good-looking guys with 0 hobbies that spent most of their days 'chilling' on a bench in the local park and smoking weed or some shit. Their ugly friends didn't get any pussy either though.

 

[the BULL]

Just some of the shit I did in my early 20s (20-23yo) before corona when I still had some hope that socialmaxxing would make a difference:

1)Took salsa/bachata classes for 2 years. Once/Twice a week with a social-dancing event every once in a while.
2)Volunteered for the red-cross as a first-aid at local events, festivals, etc.
3)Joined a rowing frat I was part of for 2 years. Drank/partied there and travelled across the netherlands to local rowing events.
4)Joined a running team. Running/training as a group together and ran 2 half-marathons.
5)Part of my university student association and went on weekendtrips, pubcrawls, similar events with them during ~2 years.
6)Part-time job as a bartender at the occasional local festival.
7)Working as a receptionist at the local gym where I also did my workouts.

I most likely mog you to death in reality experience.

For most of my life when I was younger I played in a basketball team and I was part of an orchestra as a first-violin player. I also did polish folklore dancing untill I was ~13yo. I am also pretty good at skiing and went on wintersports-holidays many times.

JFL if you think any of this matters. The people with the most interesting lives have always had the least success with women.

The guys I knew were getting women were just good-looking guys with 0 hobbies that spent most of their days 'chilling' on a bench in the local park and smoking weed or some shit. Their ugly friends didn't get any pussy either though.

idk bro, are you sure you are HTN?? what is the perceived age of girls you're hitting on?? if you don't look younger at 26, you must stick with the girls your own age. there is no hypergamy problem irl only in dating apps and that's mostly because women don't use them at all

 

[Chinacurry]

Then how the subhumans i see outside have gfs
Blackpill corrupted your brain, women's standards aren't that high. Even when i see videos on tik tok like " i went on this tinder date" and then they're engaged, they guy Is a soylent subhuman give me a break with this top 5% shit. Obv Life Is easier when good looking but there's no way you can't find a gf as a tall htn

Ideal to get a GF is to be 3-6/10.

Problem is for that same girl who wants to make u BF, u need to be 9/10 and basically 2 s.d from the mean in EVERY METRIC

 

[Deleted member 17578]

idk bro, are you sure you are HTN??

As rated here. Im a white version of @badg96

what is the perceived age of girls you're hitting on??

Late teens/early 20s. My age and slightly younger.

if you don't look younger at 26, you must stick with the girls your own age. there is no hypergamy problem irl only in dating apps and that's mostly because women don't use them at all

There's just as many women that use dating apps as there is guys.

Only difference is that as a woman you install a dating app, setup 10 dates, get some fwb, delete app. Within 1 month.
As a guy you're stuck on there for 6+ months before you get anything decent.

 

[BoneDensity]

Many will cope but this is the reality in north-western Europe. Combine individualistic, cold and anti social attitude with no consequences for women's behaviour and you have a hypergamous social disaster that only benefits a small % of top tier men.

 

[Deleted member 1140]

jfl same here

my closest group of mates consists of 6 guys, 3 are still virgin at 25 with 0 social skills but only 1 of them is kinda ugly, rest normie
2 others lost virginity but have a REALLY hard time getting new girls despite approaching girls often and online dating
only 1 guy managed to find a becky gf over the last 6 years

my mates range from below average (1) to average (3) to above average (2).

 

[LightSkinNoob]

Lucky you, my 3 best childhood friends, and younger brother are all slayers, they've been slaying since we were 15, JFL they think they have game, they tell me "your energy is off brooooo", "heaps of girls look at you, you just don't notice"

I think if I grew up and had incel friends, I'd be a lot less depressed about my dating life.

 

[Deleted member 15338]

Are u native Dutch

 

[ascension]

Then how the subhumans i see outside have gfs
Blackpill corrupted your brain, women's standards aren't that high. Even when i see videos on tik tok like " i went on this tinder date" and then they're engaged, they guy Is a soylent subhuman give me a break with this top 5% shit. Obv Life Is easier when good looking but there's no way you can't find a gf as a tall htn

They get engaged to a soylent subhuman but then that subhuman gets divorce raped to hell, loses his wealth, kids, everything. Is that worth it? I don't think so

 

[Deleted member 17578]

Are u native Dutch

Yeah, born and raised here. But have ~50% slavic roots from my polish mother.

 

[Deleted member 15338]

Yeah, born and raised here. But have ~50% slavic roots from my polish mother.

All based users have Slavic blood

@vanilla

 

[darkness97]

i don't know how i feel about this. for me it is the opposite. most people i know are in relationships. my oneitis has a sister who was more than pretty and only has a boyfriend now at like 26. my oneitis is 23 and never had a boyfriend. and the female friends that i know that are my age have only had one serious man in their lives.

relationships don't just fall out of the fucking sky. it genuinely takes time, and familiarity to get into them. i'll agree there is a social aspect of it that makes it a bit more difficult i guess but this is the only time that i have ever lived in. i can't speak for experiences i've never had. i never lived in the 80's for an example.

 

[TYRONELITEMOGGER]

Don’t believe

 

[Deleted member 17578]

i don't know how i feel about this. for me it is the opposite. most people i know are in relationships. my oneitis has a sister who was more than pretty and only has a boyfriend now at like 26. my oneitis is 23 and never had a boyfriend. and the female friends that i know that are my age have only had one serious man in their lives.

relationships don't just fall out of the fucking sky. it genuinely takes time, and familiarity to get into them. i'll agree there is a social aspect of it that makes it a bit more difficult i guess but this is the only time that i have ever lived in. i can't speak for experiences i've never had. i never lived in the 80's for an example.

Relationships start of as a hookup/fwb here and then when you catch feelings and/or really like eachother, you make it more serious and start doing girlfriend/boyfriend stuff.

 

[Lawton88]

Female hypergamy is off the charts compared to years ago.

 

[darkness97]

Relationships start of as a hookup/fwb here and then when you catch feelings and/or really like eachother, you make it more serious and start doing girlfriend/boyfriend stuff.

the world is a sea of grey my friend. everyone is different. you can't say that there is this one way that relationships happen. it's not good to perpetuate this idea because it gives people expectations. some people literally stay friends for awhile and then start to reveal their feelings over time. some people just fuck as soon as possible and then date. some people just meet someone date, datem and then fuck lol.

it all depends on the type of person you're dealing with.

 

[Mongrelcel]

never talk to girls

unless you're in a very special and privileged situation like school with a good gender ratio, there isnt even opportunity to "talk to girls"

thats ignoring the fact they literally have 0 of the same interests and opinion as 90% of the male population

 

[Deleted member 4362]

Same here at 23. 10 dudes only like one of them with a girl it’s over.

 

[Beetlejuice]

It is over