80% of your life quality is determined at birth

[Deleted member 275]

80% of your objective life quality is determined at birth:

-Looks
-Wealth
-Healthy, strong family connections
-Good safe environment to grow up in
-Physical health and mental health/issues: healthy functional body, adhd, genetic depression, autism

All of these factors will eventually have a huge influence on what kind of life path you get put on. Life consists of positive and negative feedback loops:

People that have positive social experiences will tend to be more open and socialize more easily, leading to even more positive experiences.
People that have negative social experiences will close themselves off and socialize less easily, leading to even less positive social experiences, and more negative ones.


Point is to not stress too much about your objective life quality.

Chad truly did nothing to get where he currently is in life, he got lucky and got on the right positive feedback loop.

So all you can really do is subjective life quality. You will never beat chad, because the advantage he was given at birth is too big. You can only play in your own playing field and hope that chad doesn't cuck you and destroy your life. Live in your own INNER CIRCLE.

Trying to become rich, famous, good-looking, etc. from a position of INCELDOM is fucking impossible. You have basically completely nothing going for you in life.

Maybe your kids will have a better life.

 

[Deleted member 756]

 

[ToursOverBoyo2020]

99%

 

[Deleted member 4612]

realistically 100% if you believe in determinism. a lot of us are just lucky to stumble across this forum and ascend late as opposed to never ascending at all

 

[Swagwaffle]

Once again Chad’s / Stacies have everything handed to them

 

[Deleted member 9003]

https://looksmax.org/threads/successful-people.211414/

 

[Deleted member 275]

realistically 100% if you believe in determinism. a lot of us are just lucky to stumble across this forum and ascend late as opposed to never ascending at all

I don't think you can truly ascend. Chad was good-looking as a kid already, gathering positive social experiences, sex, romance, etc.

When you ascend at 25yo, you have a lot of habits and a lot of your personality already pressed into you from how you were treated before.

Sure you can start gathering positive social experience with your looks now, but:

1) They have less of an impact on you than if you had experiences them when you were a kid.
2) You still have all those shit memories that impacted you when you were a kid and still haunt you in the present.

Idk man, life is just brutal. I have ran out of copes.

 

[Deleted member 4612]

I don't think you can truly ascend. Chad was good-looking as a kid already, gathering positive social experiences, sex, romance, etc.

When you ascend at 25yo, you have a lot of habits and a lot of your personality already pressed into you from how you were treated before.

Sure you can start gathering positive social experience with your looks now, but:

1) They have less of an impact on you than if you had experiences them when you were a kid.
2) You still have all those shit memories that impacted you when you were a kid and still haunt you in the present.

Idk man, life is just brutal. I have ran out of copes.

I saw a brutal quote on .co:

"If you don't have sex in high school you'll be a truecel for life regardless"

 

[owlofathena]

I saw a brutal quote on .co:

"If you don't have sex in high school you'll be a truecel for life regardless"

Didn't stop Gandy

 

[Deleted member 275]

I saw a brutal quote on .co:

"If you don't have sex in high school you'll be a truecel for life regardless"

I mean it's not just sex. If you were popular in high school and made-out with girls, always got attention etc, you most likely wouldn't have all the negative effects of having been 'incel' during it.

In stark contrast with a guy that was completely rejected and never felt like he stood a chance in high school.

 

[AlwaysHaveQuestions]

lying down on baby bed is bad for facial development. if your parents were respected in the community they would have a lot of people holding you all day to get your parent's favor and so they can tell you they held you when you were a baby. if your parents have no status you lie in your shitty baby bed all day and develop a subhuman skull

 

[Deleted member 275]

Didn't stop Gandy

All these famous models say publicly that they felt ugly, that their peers didn't like them, etc. Easier to get people to like them through pity that way. People WANT to hear the bootstrap/ascension story. Getting far through hard work.

If David Gandy simply said: Yeah i was goodlooking, girls all liked me, fucked them all. It wouldn't be relatable to most people and he would be less liked.

Even Adriana Lima and Taylor Hill openly say that they were bullied and rejected by guys in high school. If you look back at what they looked like in hs, they looked like typical stacies already.

Like I am supposed to believe young Taylor Hill was bullied for her looks and rejected by guys?!

 

[owlofathena]

All these famous models say publicly that they felt ugly, that their peers didn't like them, etc. Easier to get people to like them through pity that way. People WANT to hear the bootstrap/ascension story. Getting far through hard work.

If David Gandy simply said: Yeah i was goodlooking, girls all liked me, fucked them all. It wouldn't be relatable to most people and he would be less liked.

Even Adriana Lima and Taylor Hill openly say that they were bullied and rejected by guys in high school. If you look back at what they looked like in hs, they looked like typical stacies already.

Like I am supposed to believe young Taylor Hill was bullied for her looks and rejected by guys?!

Yes but it's very believable the guy is definitely on the shy side tbh