9 month relationship is it over for me or nah?

[racky777]

I’m usually a slay and don’t worry kinda nigga but I met this girl 9 months ago and lowkey she changed me for the better, although I thought. I got myself making her shit buying her flowers and dinners ect met my family aswell. she lost her virginity to me at the 6 month mark I’d say, and she just broke up with me in person and said it’s bc she doesn’t want to hurt me anymore as she couldn’t love me the same way i was loving her. Apparently that was the only reason and I also believe there was no other guy either but my nd retard brain can’t wrap my head around that she might’ve not even left me for my looks bc If I was that mogger she wouldn’t leave right?

 

[edohc3619]

yeah she started getting attention from other guys and decided she had better options

trust me from a guy who was in love too
you aren't overthinking.
She left you out of pure opportunistic values and gaslighted herself into thinking it wasnt that.

just do yourself a favour and believe me, this exact situation fucked me up for 6 months, nearly roped jfl

 

[racky777]

yeah she started getting attention from other guys and decided she had better options

trust me from a guy who was in love too
you aren't overthinking.
She left you out of pure opportunistic values and gaslighted herself into thinking it wasnt that.

Bro but getting to know her this close for 9 months I would’ve thought I knew her well enough to be certain it was never another opportunity for a better guy ik this shit sounds so cope rn but like I could’ve sworn it wasn’t bc she wanted another guy

 

[edohc3619]

Bro but getting to know her this close for 9 months I would’ve thought I knew her well enough to be certain it was never another opportunity for a better guy ik this shit sounds so cope rn but like I could’ve sworn it wasn’t bc she wanted another guy

buddy.
you think I wasn't thinking the exact same thing? You think I didnt get to know my girl as much as you did? I thought she was the most precious goody cant do any harm girl in the whole world too mate. Thats what girls do. Their personality with their man is completely different to their personality with their girls, or with their hookups.

You may think you knew her, you just knew the beautiful girl she put on display. In reality, all girls have the same mindset, especially in this generation. My sister broke up with her 3 year boyfriend as soon as she started getting male attention from chads, leaving him broken (he was sub 3). This was the boy she was going to get married to.


You are blinded by love, as I was, as every man is. Wake up.

 

[racky777]

buddy.
you think I wasn't thinking the exact same thing? You think I didnt get to know my girl as much as you did? I thought she was the most precious goody cant do any harm girl in the whole world too mate. Thats what girls do. Their personality with their man is completely different to their personality with their girls, or with their hookups.

You may think you knew her, you just knew the beautiful girl she put on display. In reality, all girls have the same mindset, especially in this generation. My sister broke up with her 3 year boyfriend as soon as she started getting male attention from chads, leaving him broken (he was sub 3). This was the boy she was going to get married to.


You are blinded by love, as I was, as every man is. Wake up.

I’m a faggot bro I can’t let go and she keeps saying bs like oh it might not be forever idk if I’m getting manipulated but she texted my mum saying how sorry she is and even on the night she had to tell me she vomited on me multiple times bc of how ‘sick and guilty’ she felt doing it to me. She still said she loves me but she’s just throwing shit I can grab onto. My dumbass thinking of roping too from your experience what’s the best way to get over it

 

[Niebvll]

You got cucked

 

[JoKhao]

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I’m usually a slay and don’t worry kinda nigga but I met this girl 9 months ago and lowkey she changed me for the better, although I thought. I got myself making her shit buying her flowers and dinners ect met my family aswell. she lost her virginity to me at the 6 month mark I’d say, and she just broke up with me in person and said it’s bc she doesn’t want to hurt me anymore as she couldn’t love me the same way i was loving her. Apparently that was the only reason and I also believe there was no other guy either but my nd retard brain can’t wrap my head around that she might’ve not even left me for my looks bc If I was that mogger she wouldn’t leave right?

Ascend and forget again

 

[edohc3619]

I’m a faggot bro I can’t let go and she keeps saying bs like oh it might not be forever idk if I’m getting manipulated but she texted my mum saying how sorry she is and even on the night she had to tell me she vomited on me multiple times bc of how ‘sick and guilty’ she felt doing it to me. She still said she loves me but she’s just throwing shit I can grab onto. My dumbass thinking of roping too from your experience what’s the best way to get over it

best way to get over it is to feel absolutely everything
cry as much as you need to. sob. i know its gay bro but you really cant hold these things in because thats what caused me to nearly rope it caused me to pretty much have to rebuild my life from scratch. I cut off all my friends, didnt talk to anyone, quit the gym, got bloated, acne riddled, lost my job, moved schools. It was over.

Im good now, but you really need to just feel every last bit of pain and channel it into something. Feel it every day and night. Doesnt mean you have to be a dickhead to everyone around, larp being neutral around people but when alone or in the gym or working on anything think of it as much as you can and feel every little bit.

it helped me and it gets better brah just remind yourself that shes a fucking lying slag every time you think shes a sweet girl. Shes 'throwing up' because she knows she broke up with you over knowing shes not attracted to you anymore because she knows she has better options. Shes in the process of gaslighting herself into thinking shes not in the wrong. Because she is. Exactly what my sister did, and exactly what my girl did to me. Please stop cutting her slack and just realise what women are really like. Evil fucking creatures.

 

[racky777]

best way to get over it is to feel absolutely everything
cry as much as you need to. sob. i know its gay bro but you really cant hold these things in because thats what caused me to nearly rope it caused me to pretty much have to rebuild my life from scratch. I cut off all my friends, didnt talk to anyone, quit the gym, got bloated, acne riddled, lost my job, moved schools. It was over.

Im good now, but you really need to just feel every last bit of pain and channel it into something. Feel it every day and night. Doesnt mean you have to be a dickhead to everyone around, larp being neutral around people but when alone or in the gym or working on anything think of it as much as you can and feel every little bit.

it helped me and it gets better brah just remind yourself that shes a fucking lying slag every time you think shes a sweet girl. Shes 'throwing up' because she knows she broke up with you over knowing shes not attracted to you anymore because she knows she has better options. Shes in the process of gaslighting herself into thinking shes not in the wrong. Because she is. Exactly what my sister did, and exactly what my girl did to me. Please stop cutting her slack and just realise what women are really like. Evil fucking creatures.

Sounds exactly like me bro I left school been ignoring my friends even stopped gymcelling too. I’m not even angry about it i just been depressed in my room like a little incel. Only time I would go outside was adventures with her and my friends. I’ve kinda knew it all along but I coped my way out of it trusting her bc i never found any signs or proof to tell me that she was interested in someone else or getting attention from other guys and not attracted to me anymore.

This shit is hard to swallow but I believe you bro Moving forward I’d actually appreciate someone gone through similar shit with advice on what do I do from here. It feels like rock bottom and I’ll never find another girl like her again.

 

[IbalmeHponeMin]

I’m usually a slay and don’t worry kinda nigga but I met this girl 9 months ago and lowkey she changed me for the better, although I thought. I got myself making her shit buying her flowers and dinners ect met my family aswell. she lost her virginity to me at the 6 month mark I’d say, and she just broke up with me in person and said it’s bc she doesn’t want to hurt me anymore as she couldn’t love me the same way i was loving her. Apparently that was the only reason and I also believe there was no other guy either but my nd retard brain can’t wrap my head around that she might’ve not even left me for my looks bc If I was that mogger she wouldn’t leave right?

Open your tiki for healing your broken heart

 

[racky777]

Open your tiki for healing your broken heart

Wtf is that jfl

 

[IbalmeHponeMin]

Wtf is that jfl

Tiki tiki phonk bro

 

[edohc3619]

Sounds exactly like me bro I left school been ignoring my friends even stopped gymcelling too. I’m not even angry about it i just been depressed in my room like a little incel. Only time I would go outside was adventures with her and my friends. I’ve kinda knew it all along but I coped my way out of it trusting her bc i never found any signs or proof to tell me that she was interested in someone else or getting attention from other guys and not attracted to me anymore.

This shit is hard to swallow but I believe you bro Moving forward I’d actually appreciate someone gone through similar shit with advice on what do I do from here. It feels like rock bottom and I’ll never find another girl like her again.

Good shit bhai. DM me if u ever need help.

I thought the exact same brah about my girl, but that feeling fades over time as your brain relaxes out. It's been just over a year since she destroyed me and i have 0 feelings towards her now, she was the best thing that ever happened to me now.

I figured out I had a good base, just needed to softmax. Moving schools opened up my social life. Got a better job. Hopped on Testosterone recently, shits been fucking amazing. Life is everything I wanted, and she started all of that.

Don't try to forget about her, use her as an obelisk, or a turning point in your life. The point where you realised women are horrible creatures, and only benefit you when you are the best option. If you ever date a chick again, make sure you're the best option available, and if you aren't and know theres another guy in your circle or in hers who mogs you to death, break up with her.