9 Ruthless Rules for Becoming the Person You Want to Be

[Arzenic]

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9 Ruthless Rules for Becoming the Person You Want to Be
_______________
Stop waiting for permission. Stop rationalizing comfort. Stop being anyone but the person you’re capable of becoming. These nine rules aren’t gentle suggestions - they’re a blueprint for radical self-transformation.

___________________________________________________________________________________________________




Table of Contents​

The 9 Rules​

Kill Your Old Identity Without Mercy
Stop Asking for Permission to Exist
Embrace Discomfort Like Your Life Depends on It
Cut Toxic People Without Apology
Make Decisions at the Speed of Instinct
Own Your Failures Like Trophies
Work in Silence Until Success Makes Noise
Demand Excellence from Yourself Before Anyone Else Does
Play the Long Game While Everyone Else Chases Quick Wins
___________________________________________________________________________________________________


The 9 Rules
__ __________ ___


Rule 1​

Kill Your Old Identity Without Mercy​

Your old self is the biggest obstacle to your future. Every label, story, and comfort habit that’s held you back must be destroyed. Stop negotiating with who you “have always been.” Act as the person you want to become. Regression is not an option.


Action Step: Identify one habit, belief, or label that anchors you to your past. Eradicate it this week.


________ _______________________________ _______

Rule 2​

Stop Asking for Permission to Exist ​

Your dreams don’t need validation. Waiting for approval is wasted time. No one owes you encouragement. The people whose opinions you seek often aren’t living the life you want - so why let them decide your possibilities?


Action Step: Make one decision today without asking anyone’s opinion.

________ _______________________________ _______

Rule 3​

Embrace Discomfort Like Your Life Depends on It​

Comfort equals stagnation. Growth happens in the uncomfortable zone. Seek it. Face fear, start hard projects, confront difficult conversations. Each act of discomfort strengthens your future self.


Action Step: Do one thing this week that scares you or pushes you out of routine.


________ _______________________________ _______

Rule 4​

Cut Toxic People Without Apology​

Your circle shapes your future. If someone drains your energy or undermines your goals, let them go. Loyalty is not self-destruction. Surround yourself with those who challenge, inspire, and support your growth.


Action Step: Identify one relationship that’s holding you back and set a boundary or step away entirely.

________ _______________________________ _______

Rule 5​

Make Decisions at the Speed of Instinct​

Overthinking kills momentum. Trust your gut. Speed beats perfection. Your instincts, honed by subconscious experience, are usually right. Decisions delayed are opportunities lost.


Action Step: Make three quick decisions today that you’ve been putting off. Adjust later if needed.

________ _______________________________ _______

Rule 6​

Own Your Failures Like Trophies​

Failure isn’t shame - it’s progress. Every misstep is a lesson and a stepping stone. Wear your failures like medals. Don’t hide them, don’t make excuses.


Action Step: Write down a recent failure and list three lessons it taught you. Celebrate it.

________ _______________________________ _______

Rule 7​

Work in Silence Until Success Makes Noise​

Talk is cheap; results are loud. Avoid early announcements. Focus, execute, and let results speak. Quiet, consistent effort outperforms showmanship.


Action Step: Pick one project and work on it privately this week. Measure progress, not approval.

________ _______________________________ _______

Rule 8​

Demand Excellence from Yourself Before Anyone Else Does​

Average effort is unacceptable. Hold yourself to a level of internal accountability that makes external pressure irrelevant. Build habits of excellence in unseen moments.


Action Step: Identify one task you normally “phone in.” Execute it perfectly today.

________ _______________________________ _______

Rule 9​

Play the Long Game While Everyone Else Chases Quick Wins​

True transformation is built over years, not overnight. Small, daily actions compound into extraordinary results. Focus on where you want to be in a decade, and align each choice accordingly.


Action Step: List three daily habits that align with your 10-year vision and commit to them consistently.


___________________________________________________________________________________________________

TL;DR - Quick Reference Table​

Rule	Core Idea	Quick Action
1	Kill old self/identity	Identify & remove one limiting habit/belief
2	Stop seeking approval	Make one decision without asking anyone
3	Embrace discomfort	Do one scary or uncomfortable thing
4	Cut toxic people	Set boundary or step away from negative relationships
5	Decide fast	Make three quick decisions today
6	Own failures	List lessons from a recent failure & celebrate it
7	Work quietly	Focus on one project privately, track progress
8	Demand excellence	Perfect one task you usually “phone in”
9	Play the long game	Commit to three daily habits aligned with 10-year vision

​

___________________________________________________________________________________________________

Final Thoughts


Transformation isn’t gentle. It requires courage, patience, and relentless honesty. Stop negotiating with excuses. Stop rationalizing comfort. Stop waiting for validation. Begin today - imperfectly, unapologetically, ruthlessly.

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@eon @Orka @Luca_. @Bryce @BigBallsLarry

 

[Bryce]

Over if you weren't born being the person you wanted to be and instead had to go against your conveniences to be someone else

 

[Arzenic]

@unon @𝑳𝒆𝒐. @takethewhitepill @pashanimair @MogsGymMaxx

 

[Arzenic]

Over if you weren't born being the person you wanted to be and instead had to go against your conveniences to be someone else

Over for everyone on the planet

 

[MogsGymMaxx]

BOTB NOW

 

[Perfectiοn]

mirin thread, would read if my attention span wasnt fucked. maybe your next thread could be on how to fix attention span so i can actually read ur threads lol.

 

[Arzenic]

mirin thread, would read if my attention span wasnt fucked. maybe your next thread could be on how to fix attention span so i can actually read ur threads lol.

Haha, i'll put that on my mind - good idea.

 

[svarddre]

Yeah I don’t improve my life until something terrible happens to me so Dnr but mirin effort

 

[Arzenic]

BOTB NOW

I wish, but the staff doesn't want to put my threads in BOTB apparently.
I don't really mind anymore, i just wanna push good and helpfull threads to the users haha.

 

[BeanCelll]

I manifest everything, I am the creator of my own reality.

I'm going to rob my local walmart tomorrow and noone's doing shit about it cause I'm that nigga.

 

[takethewhitepill]

Read every molecule, goated thread

 

[Arzenic]

I'm going to rob my local walmart tomorrow and noone's doing shit about it cause I'm that nigga.

You was doing so good nigga, but mirin

 

[ZyzzReincarnate]

 

[Perfectiοn]

weirdo

 

[ZyzzReincarnate]

weirdo

Joined2025

 

[Arzenic]

You must have a miserable life, which i feel bad for. Imagine being in a forum like this for 7 years without doing any form improvement in your life.

Hopefully you get better.

 

[Perfectiοn]

Joined2025

lmaoooo

literally predicted that u were gonna say that

keep thinking that ur join date entitles you to say and do whatever u want on this forum

 

[ZyzzReincarnate]

You must have a miserable life, which i feel bad for. Imagine being in a forum like this for 7 years without doing any form improvement in your life.

Hopefully you get better.

i already became the "ruthless person" i wanted to become silly goose

 

[Arzenic]

i already became the "ruthless person" i wanted to become silly goose

All you are is a miserable incel rambling on a forum, you are most likely 25+ and sound like a teenager

 

[unon]

___________________________________________________________________________________________________



9 Ruthless Rules for Becoming the Person You Want to Be
_______________
Stop waiting for permission. Stop rationalizing comfort. Stop being anyone but the person you’re capable of becoming. These nine rules aren’t gentle suggestions - they’re a blueprint for radical self-transformation.

___________________________________________________________________________________________________




Table of Contents​

The 9 Rules​

Kill Your Old Identity Without Mercy
Stop Asking for Permission to Exist
Embrace Discomfort Like Your Life Depends on It
Cut Toxic People Without Apology
Make Decisions at the Speed of Instinct
Own Your Failures Like Trophies
Work in Silence Until Success Makes Noise
Demand Excellence from Yourself Before Anyone Else Does
Play the Long Game While Everyone Else Chases Quick Wins
___________________________________________________________________________________________________


The 9 Rules
__ __________ ___


Rule 1​

Kill Your Old Identity Without Mercy​

Your old self is the biggest obstacle to your future. Every label, story, and comfort habit that’s held you back must be destroyed. Stop negotiating with who you “have always been.” Act as the person you want to become. Regression is not an option.


Action Step: Identify one habit, belief, or label that anchors you to your past. Eradicate it this week.


________ _______________________________ _______

Rule 2​

Stop Asking for Permission to Exist ​

Your dreams don’t need validation. Waiting for approval is wasted time. No one owes you encouragement. The people whose opinions you seek often aren’t living the life you want - so why let them decide your possibilities?


Action Step: Make one decision today without asking anyone’s opinion.

________ _______________________________ _______

Rule 3​

Embrace Discomfort Like Your Life Depends on It​

Comfort equals stagnation. Growth happens in the uncomfortable zone. Seek it. Face fear, start hard projects, confront difficult conversations. Each act of discomfort strengthens your future self.


Action Step: Do one thing this week that scares you or pushes you out of routine.


________ _______________________________ _______

Rule 4​

Cut Toxic People Without Apology​

Your circle shapes your future. If someone drains your energy or undermines your goals, let them go. Loyalty is not self-destruction. Surround yourself with those who challenge, inspire, and support your growth.


Action Step: Identify one relationship that’s holding you back and set a boundary or step away entirely.

________ _______________________________ _______

Rule 5​

Make Decisions at the Speed of Instinct​

Overthinking kills momentum. Trust your gut. Speed beats perfection. Your instincts, honed by subconscious experience, are usually right. Decisions delayed are opportunities lost.


Action Step: Make three quick decisions today that you’ve been putting off. Adjust later if needed.

________ _______________________________ _______

Rule 6​

Own Your Failures Like Trophies​

Failure isn’t shame - it’s progress. Every misstep is a lesson and a stepping stone. Wear your failures like medals. Don’t hide them, don’t make excuses.


Action Step: Write down a recent failure and list three lessons it taught you. Celebrate it.

________ _______________________________ _______

Rule 7​

Work in Silence Until Success Makes Noise​

Talk is cheap; results are loud. Avoid early announcements. Focus, execute, and let results speak. Quiet, consistent effort outperforms showmanship.


Action Step: Pick one project and work on it privately this week. Measure progress, not approval.

________ _______________________________ _______

Rule 8​

Demand Excellence from Yourself Before Anyone Else Does​

Average effort is unacceptable. Hold yourself to a level of internal accountability that makes external pressure irrelevant. Build habits of excellence in unseen moments.


Action Step: Identify one task you normally “phone in.” Execute it perfectly today.

________ _______________________________ _______

Rule 9​

Play the Long Game While Everyone Else Chases Quick Wins​

True transformation is built over years, not overnight. Small, daily actions compound into extraordinary results. Focus on where you want to be in a decade, and align each choice accordingly.


Action Step: List three daily habits that align with your 10-year vision and commit to them consistently.


___________________________________________________________________________________________________

TL;DR - Quick Reference Table​

Rule	Core Idea	Quick Action
1	Kill old self/identity	Identify & remove one limiting habit/belief
2	Stop seeking approval	Make one decision without asking anyone
3	Embrace discomfort	Do one scary or uncomfortable thing
4	Cut toxic people	Set boundary or step away from negative relationships
5	Decide fast	Make three quick decisions today
6	Own failures	List lessons from a recent failure & celebrate it
7	Work quietly	Focus on one project privately, track progress
8	Demand excellence	Perfect one task you usually “phone in”
9	Play the long game	Commit to three daily habits aligned with 10-year vision

​

___________________________________________________________________________________________________

Final Thoughts


Transformation isn’t gentle. It requires courage, patience, and relentless honesty. Stop negotiating with excuses. Stop rationalizing comfort. Stop waiting for validation. Begin today - imperfectly, unapologetically, ruthlessly.

___________________________________________________________________________________________________

Let me know if ya'll would if intrested in more threads about how to succed in life/business,
and if you'd like to be tagged to threads on this topic in future.

Spoiler: Tags

@eon @Orka @Luca_. @Bryce @BigBallsLarry

Read every molecule. Very good thread
Bookmarking it so I won't forget keep up the good work bro

 

[harmonytingfam]

___________________________________________________________________________________________________



9 Ruthless Rules for Becoming the Person You Want to Be
_______________
Stop waiting for permission. Stop rationalizing comfort. Stop being anyone but the person you’re capable of becoming. These nine rules aren’t gentle suggestions - they’re a blueprint for radical self-transformation.

___________________________________________________________________________________________________




Table of Contents​

The 9 Rules​

Kill Your Old Identity Without Mercy
Stop Asking for Permission to Exist
Embrace Discomfort Like Your Life Depends on It
Cut Toxic People Without Apology
Make Decisions at the Speed of Instinct
Own Your Failures Like Trophies
Work in Silence Until Success Makes Noise
Demand Excellence from Yourself Before Anyone Else Does
Play the Long Game While Everyone Else Chases Quick Wins
___________________________________________________________________________________________________


The 9 Rules
__ __________ ___


Rule 1​

Kill Your Old Identity Without Mercy​

Your old self is the biggest obstacle to your future. Every label, story, and comfort habit that’s held you back must be destroyed. Stop negotiating with who you “have always been.” Act as the person you want to become. Regression is not an option.


Action Step: Identify one habit, belief, or label that anchors you to your past. Eradicate it this week.


________ _______________________________ _______

Rule 2​

Stop Asking for Permission to Exist ​

Your dreams don’t need validation. Waiting for approval is wasted time. No one owes you encouragement. The people whose opinions you seek often aren’t living the life you want - so why let them decide your possibilities?


Action Step: Make one decision today without asking anyone’s opinion.

________ _______________________________ _______

Rule 3​

Embrace Discomfort Like Your Life Depends on It​

Comfort equals stagnation. Growth happens in the uncomfortable zone. Seek it. Face fear, start hard projects, confront difficult conversations. Each act of discomfort strengthens your future self.


Action Step: Do one thing this week that scares you or pushes you out of routine.


________ _______________________________ _______

Rule 4​

Cut Toxic People Without Apology​

Your circle shapes your future. If someone drains your energy or undermines your goals, let them go. Loyalty is not self-destruction. Surround yourself with those who challenge, inspire, and support your growth.


Action Step: Identify one relationship that’s holding you back and set a boundary or step away entirely.

________ _______________________________ _______

Rule 5​

Make Decisions at the Speed of Instinct​

Overthinking kills momentum. Trust your gut. Speed beats perfection. Your instincts, honed by subconscious experience, are usually right. Decisions delayed are opportunities lost.


Action Step: Make three quick decisions today that you’ve been putting off. Adjust later if needed.

________ _______________________________ _______

Rule 6​

Own Your Failures Like Trophies​

Failure isn’t shame - it’s progress. Every misstep is a lesson and a stepping stone. Wear your failures like medals. Don’t hide them, don’t make excuses.


Action Step: Write down a recent failure and list three lessons it taught you. Celebrate it.

________ _______________________________ _______

Rule 7​

Work in Silence Until Success Makes Noise​

Talk is cheap; results are loud. Avoid early announcements. Focus, execute, and let results speak. Quiet, consistent effort outperforms showmanship.


Action Step: Pick one project and work on it privately this week. Measure progress, not approval.

________ _______________________________ _______

Rule 8​

Demand Excellence from Yourself Before Anyone Else Does​

Average effort is unacceptable. Hold yourself to a level of internal accountability that makes external pressure irrelevant. Build habits of excellence in unseen moments.


Action Step: Identify one task you normally “phone in.” Execute it perfectly today.

________ _______________________________ _______

Rule 9​

Play the Long Game While Everyone Else Chases Quick Wins​

True transformation is built over years, not overnight. Small, daily actions compound into extraordinary results. Focus on where you want to be in a decade, and align each choice accordingly.


Action Step: List three daily habits that align with your 10-year vision and commit to them consistently.


___________________________________________________________________________________________________

TL;DR - Quick Reference Table​

Rule	Core Idea	Quick Action
1	Kill old self/identity	Identify & remove one limiting habit/belief
2	Stop seeking approval	Make one decision without asking anyone
3	Embrace discomfort	Do one scary or uncomfortable thing
4	Cut toxic people	Set boundary or step away from negative relationships
5	Decide fast	Make three quick decisions today
6	Own failures	List lessons from a recent failure & celebrate it
7	Work quietly	Focus on one project privately, track progress
8	Demand excellence	Perfect one task you usually “phone in”
9	Play the long game	Commit to three daily habits aligned with 10-year vision

​

___________________________________________________________________________________________________

Final Thoughts


Transformation isn’t gentle. It requires courage, patience, and relentless honesty. Stop negotiating with excuses. Stop rationalizing comfort. Stop waiting for validation. Begin today - imperfectly, unapologetically, ruthlessly.

___________________________________________________________________________________________________

Let me know if ya'll would if intrested in more threads about how to succed in life/business,
and if you'd like to be tagged to threads on this topic in future.

Spoiler: Tags

@eon @Orka @Luca_. @Bryce @BigBallsLarry

not a molecule

 

[Arzenic]

Read every molecule. Very good thread
Bookmarking it so I won't forget keep up the good work bro

Appreaciete it dude

 

[unon]

not a molecule

It's a good thread tho I think you could use one of the philosophy atleast

 

[ZyzzReincarnate]

All you are is a miserable incel rambling on a forum, you are most likely 25+ and sound like a teenager

yeh im so incel bro

also im 23 idiot

 

[Arzenic]

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yeh im so incel bro

also im 23 idiot

Pulling up photos to prove your point on a internet forum

anyways have a good day, and thanks for the feedback. Allthough i don’t care for the negative feedback from people below me

 

[ZyzzReincarnate]

Pulling up photos to prove your point on a internet forum

anyways have a good day, and thanks for the feedback. Though i don’t care about the feedback from people below me

2025cels not resilient like the users from my era. obviously i dont hold anything against u bro

 

[Arzenic]

2025cels not resilient like the users from my era. obviously i dont hold anything against u bro

Ye no worries bro, i don’t hold nun against u either haha.

I’m just trying to focus on my own shit and avoid all drama lol.

 

[Arzenic]

@CorinthianLOX @elkkkk @Justakid

 

[genetically fucked]

Awesome pepperonis, good thread!

 

[Arzenic]

Awesome pepperonis, good thread!

I appreaciete it

 

[Luca_.]

I’ve been breaking these rules without even knowing

 

[Arzenic]

I’ve been breaking these rules without even knowing

Everybody has, it’s important to acknowledge these and implement them into your life haha

 

[Iblamehades]

___________________________________________________________________________________________________



9 Ruthless Rules for Becoming the Person You Want to Be
_______________
Stop waiting for permission. Stop rationalizing comfort. Stop being anyone but the person you’re capable of becoming. These nine rules aren’t gentle suggestions - they’re a blueprint for radical self-transformation.

___________________________________________________________________________________________________




Table of Contents​

The 9 Rules​

Kill Your Old Identity Without Mercy
Stop Asking for Permission to Exist
Embrace Discomfort Like Your Life Depends on It
Cut Toxic People Without Apology
Make Decisions at the Speed of Instinct
Own Your Failures Like Trophies
Work in Silence Until Success Makes Noise
Demand Excellence from Yourself Before Anyone Else Does
Play the Long Game While Everyone Else Chases Quick Wins
___________________________________________________________________________________________________


The 9 Rules
__ __________ ___


Rule 1​

Kill Your Old Identity Without Mercy​

Your old self is the biggest obstacle to your future. Every label, story, and comfort habit that’s held you back must be destroyed. Stop negotiating with who you “have always been.” Act as the person you want to become. Regression is not an option.


Action Step: Identify one habit, belief, or label that anchors you to your past. Eradicate it this week.


________ _______________________________ _______

Rule 2​

Stop Asking for Permission to Exist ​

Your dreams don’t need validation. Waiting for approval is wasted time. No one owes you encouragement. The people whose opinions you seek often aren’t living the life you want - so why let them decide your possibilities?


Action Step: Make one decision today without asking anyone’s opinion.

________ _______________________________ _______

Rule 3​

Embrace Discomfort Like Your Life Depends on It​

Comfort equals stagnation. Growth happens in the uncomfortable zone. Seek it. Face fear, start hard projects, confront difficult conversations. Each act of discomfort strengthens your future self.


Action Step: Do one thing this week that scares you or pushes you out of routine.


________ _______________________________ _______

Rule 4​

Cut Toxic People Without Apology​

Your circle shapes your future. If someone drains your energy or undermines your goals, let them go. Loyalty is not self-destruction. Surround yourself with those who challenge, inspire, and support your growth.


Action Step: Identify one relationship that’s holding you back and set a boundary or step away entirely.

________ _______________________________ _______

Rule 5​

Make Decisions at the Speed of Instinct​

Overthinking kills momentum. Trust your gut. Speed beats perfection. Your instincts, honed by subconscious experience, are usually right. Decisions delayed are opportunities lost.


Action Step: Make three quick decisions today that you’ve been putting off. Adjust later if needed.

________ _______________________________ _______

Rule 6​

Own Your Failures Like Trophies​

Failure isn’t shame - it’s progress. Every misstep is a lesson and a stepping stone. Wear your failures like medals. Don’t hide them, don’t make excuses.


Action Step: Write down a recent failure and list three lessons it taught you. Celebrate it.

________ _______________________________ _______

Rule 7​

Work in Silence Until Success Makes Noise​

Talk is cheap; results are loud. Avoid early announcements. Focus, execute, and let results speak. Quiet, consistent effort outperforms showmanship.


Action Step: Pick one project and work on it privately this week. Measure progress, not approval.

________ _______________________________ _______

Rule 8​

Demand Excellence from Yourself Before Anyone Else Does​

Average effort is unacceptable. Hold yourself to a level of internal accountability that makes external pressure irrelevant. Build habits of excellence in unseen moments.


Action Step: Identify one task you normally “phone in.” Execute it perfectly today.

________ _______________________________ _______

Rule 9​

Play the Long Game While Everyone Else Chases Quick Wins​

True transformation is built over years, not overnight. Small, daily actions compound into extraordinary results. Focus on where you want to be in a decade, and align each choice accordingly.


Action Step: List three daily habits that align with your 10-year vision and commit to them consistently.


___________________________________________________________________________________________________

TL;DR - Quick Reference Table​

Rule	Core Idea	Quick Action
1	Kill old self/identity	Identify & remove one limiting habit/belief
2	Stop seeking approval	Make one decision without asking anyone
3	Embrace discomfort	Do one scary or uncomfortable thing
4	Cut toxic people	Set boundary or step away from negative relationships
5	Decide fast	Make three quick decisions today
6	Own failures	List lessons from a recent failure & celebrate it
7	Work quietly	Focus on one project privately, track progress
8	Demand excellence	Perfect one task you usually “phone in”
9	Play the long game	Commit to three daily habits aligned with 10-year vision

​

___________________________________________________________________________________________________

Final Thoughts


Transformation isn’t gentle. It requires courage, patience, and relentless honesty. Stop negotiating with excuses. Stop rationalizing comfort. Stop waiting for validation. Begin today - imperfectly, unapologetically, ruthlessly.

___________________________________________________________________________________________________

Let me know if ya'll would if intrested in more threads about how to succed in life/business,
and if you'd like to be tagged to threads on this topic in future.

Spoiler: Tags

@eon @Orka @Luca_. @Bryce @BigBallsLarry

quality thread

 

[Iblamehades]

___________________________________________________________________________________________________



9 Ruthless Rules for Becoming the Person You Want to Be
_______________
Stop waiting for permission. Stop rationalizing comfort. Stop being anyone but the person you’re capable of becoming. These nine rules aren’t gentle suggestions - they’re a blueprint for radical self-transformation.

___________________________________________________________________________________________________




Table of Contents​

The 9 Rules​

Kill Your Old Identity Without Mercy
Stop Asking for Permission to Exist
Embrace Discomfort Like Your Life Depends on It
Cut Toxic People Without Apology
Make Decisions at the Speed of Instinct
Own Your Failures Like Trophies
Work in Silence Until Success Makes Noise
Demand Excellence from Yourself Before Anyone Else Does
Play the Long Game While Everyone Else Chases Quick Wins
___________________________________________________________________________________________________


The 9 Rules
__ __________ ___


Rule 1​

Kill Your Old Identity Without Mercy​

Your old self is the biggest obstacle to your future. Every label, story, and comfort habit that’s held you back must be destroyed. Stop negotiating with who you “have always been.” Act as the person you want to become. Regression is not an option.


Action Step: Identify one habit, belief, or label that anchors you to your past. Eradicate it this week.


________ _______________________________ _______

Rule 2​

Stop Asking for Permission to Exist ​

Your dreams don’t need validation. Waiting for approval is wasted time. No one owes you encouragement. The people whose opinions you seek often aren’t living the life you want - so why let them decide your possibilities?


Action Step: Make one decision today without asking anyone’s opinion.

________ _______________________________ _______

Rule 3​

Embrace Discomfort Like Your Life Depends on It​

Comfort equals stagnation. Growth happens in the uncomfortable zone. Seek it. Face fear, start hard projects, confront difficult conversations. Each act of discomfort strengthens your future self.


Action Step: Do one thing this week that scares you or pushes you out of routine.


________ _______________________________ _______

Rule 4​

Cut Toxic People Without Apology​

Your circle shapes your future. If someone drains your energy or undermines your goals, let them go. Loyalty is not self-destruction. Surround yourself with those who challenge, inspire, and support your growth.


Action Step: Identify one relationship that’s holding you back and set a boundary or step away entirely.

________ _______________________________ _______

Rule 5​

Make Decisions at the Speed of Instinct​

Overthinking kills momentum. Trust your gut. Speed beats perfection. Your instincts, honed by subconscious experience, are usually right. Decisions delayed are opportunities lost.


Action Step: Make three quick decisions today that you’ve been putting off. Adjust later if needed.

________ _______________________________ _______

Rule 6​

Own Your Failures Like Trophies​

Failure isn’t shame - it’s progress. Every misstep is a lesson and a stepping stone. Wear your failures like medals. Don’t hide them, don’t make excuses.


Action Step: Write down a recent failure and list three lessons it taught you. Celebrate it.

________ _______________________________ _______

Rule 7​

Work in Silence Until Success Makes Noise​

Talk is cheap; results are loud. Avoid early announcements. Focus, execute, and let results speak. Quiet, consistent effort outperforms showmanship.


Action Step: Pick one project and work on it privately this week. Measure progress, not approval.

________ _______________________________ _______

Rule 8​

Demand Excellence from Yourself Before Anyone Else Does​

Average effort is unacceptable. Hold yourself to a level of internal accountability that makes external pressure irrelevant. Build habits of excellence in unseen moments.


Action Step: Identify one task you normally “phone in.” Execute it perfectly today.

________ _______________________________ _______

Rule 9​

Play the Long Game While Everyone Else Chases Quick Wins​

True transformation is built over years, not overnight. Small, daily actions compound into extraordinary results. Focus on where you want to be in a decade, and align each choice accordingly.


Action Step: List three daily habits that align with your 10-year vision and commit to them consistently.


___________________________________________________________________________________________________

TL;DR - Quick Reference Table​

Rule	Core Idea	Quick Action
1	Kill old self/identity	Identify & remove one limiting habit/belief
2	Stop seeking approval	Make one decision without asking anyone
3	Embrace discomfort	Do one scary or uncomfortable thing
4	Cut toxic people	Set boundary or step away from negative relationships
5	Decide fast	Make three quick decisions today
6	Own failures	List lessons from a recent failure & celebrate it
7	Work quietly	Focus on one project privately, track progress
8	Demand excellence	Perfect one task you usually “phone in”
9	Play the long game	Commit to three daily habits aligned with 10-year vision

​

___________________________________________________________________________________________________

Final Thoughts


Transformation isn’t gentle. It requires courage, patience, and relentless honesty. Stop negotiating with excuses. Stop rationalizing comfort. Stop waiting for validation. Begin today - imperfectly, unapologetically, ruthlessly.

___________________________________________________________________________________________________

Let me know if ya'll would if intrested in more threads about how to succed in life/business,
and if you'd like to be tagged to threads on this topic in future.

Spoiler: Tags

@eon @Orka @Luca_. @Bryce @BigBallsLarry

id wanna be tagged

 

[Arzenic]

id wanna be tagged

Sure, i got you!

 

[Iblamehades]

Sure, i got you!

thanks twin!

 

[Arzenic]

thanks twin!

No worries, and i appreaciete the feedback

 

[Arzenic]

not a molecule

hymen negative post/rep ratio grey

 

[abracadabra]

Over if you weren't born being the person you wanted to be and instead had to go against your conveniences to be someone else

good 40% of people on this forum are here because of that exact reason

 

[eon]

___________________________________________________________________________________________________



9 Ruthless Rules for Becoming the Person You Want to Be
_______________
Stop waiting for permission. Stop rationalizing comfort. Stop being anyone but the person you’re capable of becoming. These nine rules aren’t gentle suggestions - they’re a blueprint for radical self-transformation.

___________________________________________________________________________________________________




Table of Contents​

The 9 Rules​

Kill Your Old Identity Without Mercy
Stop Asking for Permission to Exist
Embrace Discomfort Like Your Life Depends on It
Cut Toxic People Without Apology
Make Decisions at the Speed of Instinct
Own Your Failures Like Trophies
Work in Silence Until Success Makes Noise
Demand Excellence from Yourself Before Anyone Else Does
Play the Long Game While Everyone Else Chases Quick Wins
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The 9 Rules
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Rule 1​

Kill Your Old Identity Without Mercy​

Your old self is the biggest obstacle to your future. Every label, story, and comfort habit that’s held you back must be destroyed. Stop negotiating with who you “have always been.” Act as the person you want to become. Regression is not an option.


Action Step: Identify one habit, belief, or label that anchors you to your past. Eradicate it this week.


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Rule 2​

Stop Asking for Permission to Exist ​

Your dreams don’t need validation. Waiting for approval is wasted time. No one owes you encouragement. The people whose opinions you seek often aren’t living the life you want - so why let them decide your possibilities?


Action Step: Make one decision today without asking anyone’s opinion.

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Rule 3​

Embrace Discomfort Like Your Life Depends on It​

Comfort equals stagnation. Growth happens in the uncomfortable zone. Seek it. Face fear, start hard projects, confront difficult conversations. Each act of discomfort strengthens your future self.


Action Step: Do one thing this week that scares you or pushes you out of routine.


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Rule 4​

Cut Toxic People Without Apology​

Your circle shapes your future. If someone drains your energy or undermines your goals, let them go. Loyalty is not self-destruction. Surround yourself with those who challenge, inspire, and support your growth.


Action Step: Identify one relationship that’s holding you back and set a boundary or step away entirely.

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Rule 5​

Make Decisions at the Speed of Instinct​

Overthinking kills momentum. Trust your gut. Speed beats perfection. Your instincts, honed by subconscious experience, are usually right. Decisions delayed are opportunities lost.


Action Step: Make three quick decisions today that you’ve been putting off. Adjust later if needed.

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Rule 6​

Own Your Failures Like Trophies​

Failure isn’t shame - it’s progress. Every misstep is a lesson and a stepping stone. Wear your failures like medals. Don’t hide them, don’t make excuses.


Action Step: Write down a recent failure and list three lessons it taught you. Celebrate it.

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Rule 7​

Work in Silence Until Success Makes Noise​

Talk is cheap; results are loud. Avoid early announcements. Focus, execute, and let results speak. Quiet, consistent effort outperforms showmanship.


Action Step: Pick one project and work on it privately this week. Measure progress, not approval.

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Rule 8​

Demand Excellence from Yourself Before Anyone Else Does​

Average effort is unacceptable. Hold yourself to a level of internal accountability that makes external pressure irrelevant. Build habits of excellence in unseen moments.


Action Step: Identify one task you normally “phone in.” Execute it perfectly today.

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Rule 9​

Play the Long Game While Everyone Else Chases Quick Wins​

True transformation is built over years, not overnight. Small, daily actions compound into extraordinary results. Focus on where you want to be in a decade, and align each choice accordingly.


Action Step: List three daily habits that align with your 10-year vision and commit to them consistently.


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TL;DR - Quick Reference Table​

Rule	Core Idea	Quick Action
1	Kill old self/identity	Identify & remove one limiting habit/belief
2	Stop seeking approval	Make one decision without asking anyone
3	Embrace discomfort	Do one scary or uncomfortable thing
4	Cut toxic people	Set boundary or step away from negative relationships
5	Decide fast	Make three quick decisions today
6	Own failures	List lessons from a recent failure & celebrate it
7	Work quietly	Focus on one project privately, track progress
8	Demand excellence	Perfect one task you usually “phone in”
9	Play the long game	Commit to three daily habits aligned with 10-year vision

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Final Thoughts


Transformation isn’t gentle. It requires courage, patience, and relentless honesty. Stop negotiating with excuses. Stop rationalizing comfort. Stop waiting for validation. Begin today - imperfectly, unapologetically, ruthlessly.

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[Arzenic]

Good Thread, perfect formatting, will read later

 

[DrunkenSailor]

So basically it boils down to get the fuck out of your comfort zone because easy times make soft men?

 

[Arzenic]

So basically it boils down to get the fuck out of your comfort zone because easy times make soft men?

Yea, basicly you could say so