_oldenburg
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People talk about PSL vs appeal but appeal is not just down to resembling a specific cultural archetype or having harmony or a specific halo, being slightly ugly can even be appeal.
I was talking to my gf about this and she said that she doesnt like when men have a very symmetrical or perfect face and a pristine outfit, she said she likes asymmetries in men that she thinks it's masculine and she likes when men don't care a lot about their appearance and are even dirty or dishevelled looking to an extent.
Because she views these traits as masculine. It isnt masculine to be a melter and try to perfect your appearance based on an external social standard, she said she thinks this is gay; the most attractive and masculine personality trait which is represented in appearance is to be an authentic individual who doesn't care what others think of them. Its not about perfection its about authenticity.
BP obviously still applies but it's not an objective linear measurement of attractiveness.
I was talking to my gf about this and she said that she doesnt like when men have a very symmetrical or perfect face and a pristine outfit, she said she likes asymmetries in men that she thinks it's masculine and she likes when men don't care a lot about their appearance and are even dirty or dishevelled looking to an extent.
Because she views these traits as masculine. It isnt masculine to be a melter and try to perfect your appearance based on an external social standard, she said she thinks this is gay; the most attractive and masculine personality trait which is represented in appearance is to be an authentic individual who doesn't care what others think of them. Its not about perfection its about authenticity.
BP obviously still applies but it's not an objective linear measurement of attractiveness.