A girl only wanted to cuddle with me but no sex

[Deusmaximus]

Super brutal. Long story short. Approached a girl at a party, spent the whole night with her. Ended up with a friend of mine at her place. At 5am he went home and I ended with her alone. She came to the sofa with me, I was able to slowly touch her leg, then when I wanted to go to her hips she put my hands away. Since I was drunk I did not even about fucking her anymore. Asked her if I should sleep on the sofa or her bed. She answered I can sleep in her bed if I can stay serious. I then lied with her in the bed and cuddled from behind. When I tried to touch her hips again she put my hands away again. I immediately went up ald left. She said, no please stay and cuddle with me. I was drunk and super pissed and went home.

Was I not good looking enough? What went wrong??

 

[volgograd009]

Super brutal. Long story short. Approached a girl at a party, spent the whole night with her. Ended up with a friend of mine at her place. At 5am he went home and I ended with her alone. She came to the sofa with me, I was able to slowly touch her leg, then when I wanted to go to her hips she put my hands away. Since I was drunk I did not even about fucking her anymore. Asked her if I should sleep on the sofa or her bed. She answered I can sleep in her bed if I can stay serious. I then lied with her in the bed and cuddled from behind. When I tried to touch her hips again she put my hands away again. I immediately went up ald left. She said, no please stay and cuddle with me. I was drunk and super pissed and went home.

Was I not good looking enough? What went wrong??

Bro she's just preserved and not a whore who gives her ass to a random guy she met at a party

 

[Deusmaximus]

Bro she's just preserved and not a whore who gives her ass to a random guy she met at a party

hmm yeah your maybe right. She has studied and working a good job. Always talked about wanting to have kids. But she is 23 and single since 5 years. Also why would she take 2 guys to her place at 5am? My idiot friend was sticking to us the whole night and was speculating for a 3 some.
When I left I also told her that I cant sleep because I am too horny, still she said I should get back in her bed to cuddle. Maybe I was too stupid to close the deal.

 

[GonorrhoeaGobbler]

did you make out with her and give her affection before ?

 

[Deusmaximus]

did you make out with her and give her affection before ?

Nah after she put my hand away I was too scared to kiss her and destroy my ego. Maybe your right, with some intense kissing it would have turned out well. Maybe I was also not sharp anymore because it was already 6am and I was drunk

 

[GonorrhoeaGobbler]

Nah after she put my hand away I was too scared to kiss her and destroy my ego. Maybe your right, with some intense kissing it would have turned out well

no you should kiss her on the lips once and that's it

if you make out before sex it kills her interest for you

it was prob just her having shit hormones and you not escalating enough

 

[Canthus.]

just try again

 

[Deusmaximus]

no you should kiss her on the lips once and that's it

if you make out before sex it kills her interest for you

it was prob just her having shit hormones and you not escalating enough

Yeah but why should I escalate with a girl that is putting my hands away from her body.
Well at 10am in the morning she texted me and asked if I got home well. Also she left her panties in my car, because this night we went swimming in the sea. Maybe she did this on purpose?

 

[Deusmaximus]

just try again

Nah, would never do this. I also have enough other girls so I dont care about her. Its only about my ego that got damaged slightly.

 

[GonorrhoeaGobbler]

Yeah but why should I escalate with a girl that is putting my hands away from her body.
Well at 10am in the morning she texted me and asked if I got home well. Also she left her panties in my car, because this night we went swimming in the sea. Maybe she did this on purpose?

sounds like she's just leading on bc she's bored

I'd leave her tbh