A phenomen I have yet to understand

[WOMENAREQUEENSNOT]

Why is it some people, including but not limited to foids, you get along with so well in real life but not online, where as some others you get along with so much online but not in real life.
This is a repeating cycle in my life but no one ever mentions it anywhere

 

[Spartacus1-]

Some people are more expressive in a real life setting, therefore more comfortable to interact with. others are the opposite they find themselves better with written words than spoken ones.

 

[WOMENAREQUEENSNOT]

Some people are more expressive in a real life setting, therefore more comfortable to interact with. others are the opposite they find themselves better with written words than spoken ones.

Why is it never both? Does it have to be one or the other?

 

[WOMENAREQUEENSNOT]

For instance incels feel cool to hang with on the forums for their based takes but in real life you feel the edginess, hatefulness and envy coming out of them that you regret even starting a convo

 

[Spartacus1-]

Why is it never both? Does it have to be one or the other?

Not really, depends on the person and their confidence level + personality. They're just not amongst your friends group I suppose.

 

[Spartacus1-]

For instance incels feel cool to hang with on the forums for their based takes but in real life, you feel the edginess, hatefulness, and envy coming out of them that you regret even starting a convo

Because the image in your mind won't correlate with that of the person in real life. Imagine a confident good looking chad saying those words and you will notice the difference. An ugly subhuman with a slouching posture saying black pill shit in real life will obviously look comical.

 

[WOMENAREQUEENSNOT]

Because the image in your mind won't correlate with that of the person in real life. Imagine a confident good looking chad saying those words and you will notice the difference. An ugly subhuman with a slouching posture saying black pill shit in real life will obviously look comical.

I like to think that as a man I don't judge other men based on their looks solely for the fact that I'm not attracted to them, but I know nowadays this isn't the case anymore.

But rather on the strength of their character and ideas.