A real Friend is one of the Hardest things to find

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not talking about acquaintances or activity buddies, im talking people who are willing to help u out no matter what

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+1, also can't really actively search for one, he just has to come into your life organically or else it's just weird.
 
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I doubt any of us have real friends
 
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Modernity, urbanisation and capitalism have made true friendships unnecessary. No market demand

Deal with it goy. No one here has actual true real friends as we know it the old fashioned way. An extinct thing of the past, that probably survives in ETHNIC or rural (failure) areas. True aryans are individualistic narcissist psychotic people like how Swedes have it culturally ingrained to be just like that (its also aryan protestant)
 
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I've seen Men who were friends for nearly a decade stab each other in the back for bodymaxxed ltbs. Imaged what they'd for a foid that they genuinely desire, but muh brotherhood
 
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still close w my boys from elementary

only have had 1 real friend and thats from middle school
 
Modernity, urbanisation and capitalism have made true friendships unnecessary. No market demand

Deal with it goy. No one here has actual true real friends as we know it the old fashioned way. An extinct thing of the past, that probably survives in ETHNIC or rural (failure) areas. True aryans are individualistic narcissist psychotic people like how Swedes have it culturally ingrained to be just like that (its also aryan protestant)
jews are great friend with each other and help each other alot yet they own the world
 
extremely true

I don't have any "best friend" only part time friends, and thats only because we are in the same place at the same time

having a best friend is probably one of the best things

or even an older brother seems mog
 
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jews are great friend with each other and help each other alot yet they own the world
cope they're anglo and dutch lutheran protestant banker SLAVES

true friendship is within family in the upper echelons. Otherwise its a free for all where everyone is killing each other mercilessly for power and total world domination

then at the bottom we have the plebs, ourselves, the slaves. Rule of law and "friendships" between strangers. We live in a completely different world, they live in the stratosphere constantly murdering each other

Anyway nowadays theres just no need for such friendships, therefore they died down, the end.
 
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there is a lot of fake people out here
 
cope they're anglo and dutch lutheran protestant banker SLAVES

true friendship is within family in the upper echelons. Otherwise its a free for all where everyone is killing each other mercilessly for power and total world domination

then at the bottom we have the plebs, ourselves, the slaves. Rule of law and "friendships" between strangers. We live in a completely different world, they live in the stratosphere constantly murdering each other

Anyway nowadays theres just no need for such friendships, therefore they died down, the end.
There is no such thing as real friendship if the person lacks something like power, status, wealth. 'Real Friendship' can only exist when there is nothing to be gained (as per people's definitions). Friendships in lower classes are just transactions.
 
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There is no such thing as real friendship if the person lacks something like power, status, wealth. 'Real Friendship' can only exist when there is nothing to be gained (as per people's definitions). Friendships in lower classes are just transactions.
and everything social for that matter

only among the powerful can the abstract ideal of friendship be fulfilled because they have no scarcity or survival needs to be immediately met (or even met sometime in the future). Simply put, if you're an UNPROFITABLE VENTURE, then you will have no friends. The opposite is also true: if you are a very promising capital investment, you will have all the friends and the only wisdom required on your behalf would be how you filter the people lining up to be your friends, towards your own benefit

Idealized friendship is only in stories where its more abstract and heroic (closer to the realm of perfect forms) primarily between very rich people nowadays or in ancient ass stories where people were so broke that they could just afford such friendships anyway (like ancient greek stories etc). Otherwise we are in that between period where such friendships are not necessary, thus we choose beneficial arrangements instead
 
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and everything social for that matter

only among the powerful can the abstract ideal of friendship be fulfilled because they have no scarcity or survival needs to be immediately met (or even met sometime in the future). Simply put, if you're an UNPROFITABLE VENTURE, then you will have no friends. The opposite is also true: if you are a very promising capital investment, you will have all the friends and the only wisdom required on your behalf would be how you filter the people lining up to be your friends, towards your own benefit

Idealized friendship is only in stories where its more abstract and heroic (closer to the realm of perfect forms) primarily between very rich people nowadays or in ancient ass stories where people were so broke that they could just afford such friendships anyway (like ancient greek stories etc). Otherwise we are in that between period where such friendships are not necessary, thus we choose beneficial arrangements instead
'Friendships' have also transitioned to be more temporary nowadays. Everyone makes a 'friendship' knowning it is only a temporary contract, something to pass the time with or move you up. Not to mention the globalization and how interconnected we are with everybody, which in first thought should make us have more friends, has only made us more distant, maybe the fact that we're too interconnected makes us unable to form actual deep meaningful friendship.
 
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