TheLastLaugh
No good deed goes unpunished by women
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You meet a girl who lovebombs you and makes you feel highs you didn't think possible. Pure euphoria from the constant sex and green flags you're seeing. Everything is so perfect you can hardly believe its real, but you think to yourself this is just the beginning and there are even happier times in store. Out of nowhere she completely changes and you discover how it feels to be abused from your so called soulmate. You find evidence of her cheating but she denies it and gaslights you into questioning your own reality. The depression is so crippling that what you're going through emotionally causes physical pain, you never thought you could suffer like this. You hold on hoping things will get better but they never do, for this was the final part of the idealize/devalue/discard cycle and there is no going back. You see the way she treats animals and her family so well, its unfathomable to you how she could be so vile to you exclusively.
When guys experience this they can't fathom how despite being so good to a woman and having nothing but pure intentions, they were not only betrayed but its clear she gets genuine enjoyment from hurting you. This is what textbook narcissistic abuse is, it just gets a bad rep because of how many women automatically assign that label to every ex for not getting their way. Its theorized that this stems from childhood factors, not being loved enough in developmental years and therefore feeling undeserving of it and becoming self-sabotaging...but I do not agree with this one bit. You could just as well make the argument that they'd be even more appreciative to finally receive it.
So many men can relate to the fact that once they finally get back into a state of inner peace they get sent another woman to bring them back into a state of caring, attachment, then suffering, even if they seemed so good initially. Its said that when the devil can't get to a man he sends a woman, but there's so much more truth to this than you realize. The world we live in is designed to make us suffer, I'm not sure how any sane person can deny this. Eventually you come to realize that almost all women's endgame is to make a man suffer, whether its from a short interaction leading someone on or playing the long game of divorce rape/custodial battles. I believe that these are essentially matrix agents/soulless vessels/demonically possessed, call it what you want, but they are clearly sent our way to ultimately make us suffer. How else can you explain women checking up on an ex and their interest level being solely determined by how much he cares/has recovered? Its all about your level of care, only to punish you for it.
LMS/hypergamy/chad are all memes, the ideal man is just a pushover who will always say yes and tolerate infidelity. You have to understand that despite what they say most women don't actually want this healthy, monogamous nuclear family life as you do. The reason this level of happiness evades us and is ever so fleeting is because we are SUPPOSED to suffer here.
When guys experience this they can't fathom how despite being so good to a woman and having nothing but pure intentions, they were not only betrayed but its clear she gets genuine enjoyment from hurting you. This is what textbook narcissistic abuse is, it just gets a bad rep because of how many women automatically assign that label to every ex for not getting their way. Its theorized that this stems from childhood factors, not being loved enough in developmental years and therefore feeling undeserving of it and becoming self-sabotaging...but I do not agree with this one bit. You could just as well make the argument that they'd be even more appreciative to finally receive it.
So many men can relate to the fact that once they finally get back into a state of inner peace they get sent another woman to bring them back into a state of caring, attachment, then suffering, even if they seemed so good initially. Its said that when the devil can't get to a man he sends a woman, but there's so much more truth to this than you realize. The world we live in is designed to make us suffer, I'm not sure how any sane person can deny this. Eventually you come to realize that almost all women's endgame is to make a man suffer, whether its from a short interaction leading someone on or playing the long game of divorce rape/custodial battles. I believe that these are essentially matrix agents/soulless vessels/demonically possessed, call it what you want, but they are clearly sent our way to ultimately make us suffer. How else can you explain women checking up on an ex and their interest level being solely determined by how much he cares/has recovered? Its all about your level of care, only to punish you for it.
LMS/hypergamy/chad are all memes, the ideal man is just a pushover who will always say yes and tolerate infidelity. You have to understand that despite what they say most women don't actually want this healthy, monogamous nuclear family life as you do. The reason this level of happiness evades us and is ever so fleeting is because we are SUPPOSED to suffer here.
