jaaba
Never stress
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There is absolutely no point in looksmaxxing if you’re just going to sit in your room all day. Many forget the reason they actually started looksmaxxing, for the majority it’s because they were unhappy with their life and felt lonely; improving your looks is indeed a way to improve your social life however if you do not pursue experience it will not just come your way. There’s no magical fairy that arrives the second you hit psl5 to transport you to a social event, you have to actually put yourself in that situation.
There’s no point in looking better if nobody can see you, an ascension won’t magically create friends or romantic partners it will just make them easier to acquire.
I know a lot of people on this forum no longer think they want to be social irl, but they do in reality and are just coping with their loneliness (which I can certainly empathise with). It’s very easy to fall into that train of thought after noticing how shallow the world can be, but don’t let your new found awareness hold you back from enjoying your youth. You don’t need to degen and drink all the time that’s not what I’m saying, but you do need to go outside and make friends to be a happy healthy person. Yes this is easier said than done, but that doesn’t mean you shouldn’t try, a lot of us guys simply don’t.
Youth is temporary, everyone has it at some point but once it’s gone nobody can get it back. If you don’t make at least an effort to have a memorable and enjoyable youth you are doing yourself a serious injustice that you WILL regret.
I am aware this is water, you don’t need to fucking say it, that’s why I titled this thread “A reminder” and not “crazy new discovery omg omg GTFIH for some revolutionary shit”. The point of this thread is to remind you that time is of the essence and you should have some fun while you still have time; even if one person who reads this thread takes it to heart and strives to improve their situation it will be more than worth the 10 mins it took me to type out.
Good luck irl brahs
There’s no point in looking better if nobody can see you, an ascension won’t magically create friends or romantic partners it will just make them easier to acquire.
I know a lot of people on this forum no longer think they want to be social irl, but they do in reality and are just coping with their loneliness (which I can certainly empathise with). It’s very easy to fall into that train of thought after noticing how shallow the world can be, but don’t let your new found awareness hold you back from enjoying your youth. You don’t need to degen and drink all the time that’s not what I’m saying, but you do need to go outside and make friends to be a happy healthy person. Yes this is easier said than done, but that doesn’t mean you shouldn’t try, a lot of us guys simply don’t.
Youth is temporary, everyone has it at some point but once it’s gone nobody can get it back. If you don’t make at least an effort to have a memorable and enjoyable youth you are doing yourself a serious injustice that you WILL regret.
I am aware this is water, you don’t need to fucking say it, that’s why I titled this thread “A reminder” and not “crazy new discovery omg omg GTFIH for some revolutionary shit”. The point of this thread is to remind you that time is of the essence and you should have some fun while you still have time; even if one person who reads this thread takes it to heart and strives to improve their situation it will be more than worth the 10 mins it took me to type out.
Good luck irl brahs
