A theory I have devised that has resulted in loneliness but may help out after ascending

[Deleted member 25381]

So I realised around 2 years ago my high school friend group were fake and toxic, we were all losers, like we only got together over discord to play valorant and minecraft.

You must have seen the phenomenon where once you stop messaging someone, they dont say anything at all. One sided.

Well it was sort of like that with them, just me always initiating to keep some type of relationship, so after waking up, I broke up with them, moved schools and now I have no friends.

This is because I have used the theory that you should NEVER initiate. This applies to love interests or friends.
Theres this cute girl in my class but its been months and I haven’t initiated anything with her because I will ascend to HTN (she is MTB) and then SHE will comment on my glowup and then gain interest and be the one to initiate

So in other words, I plan to save face and apply this theory during my looksmaxing journey. I have less than a year for this to work out and want some pussy before I graduate so I really hope it works

What are your thoughts on this theory?

 

[Deleted member 26060]

im on the same drill, it avoids conflicts and doesn't hurt your selfsteem; work on yourself long term and reek the benefits later

 

[forevermirin]

yeah i did that since i was a kid ngl. i cant imagine doing any different.

 

[Deleted member 19453]

based
if you have to approach a girl it's already over

 

[Deleted member 8869]

so many people do this. mental masturbation high hopes then they isolate and fuck everything up. always assume you wont gain that much and expect her to not give a shit about you. dont build walls around you for the perfect moment because that moment might never come!

 

[forevermirin]

so many people do this. mental masturbation high hopes then they isolate and fuck everything up. always assume you wont gain that much and expect her to not give a shit about you. dont build walls around you for the perfect moment because that moment might never come!

only true when talking about girls. simping for guys because they're popular/u think ull get in their circle is peak cuck behavior. plenty dudes i see do that.

 

[Deleted member 16515]

yeah i did that since i was a kid ngl. i cant imagine doing any different.

only true when talking about girls. simping for guys because they're popular/u think ull get in their circle is peak cuck behavior. plenty dudes i see do that.

you have many good takes which I relate to/ agree on.

 

[Deleted member 8869]

only true when talking about girls. simping for guys because they're popular/u think ull get in their circle is peak cuck behavior. plenty dudes i see do that.

yeah kind of but tbh this seems to be more of an american problem

 

[forevermirin]

you have many good takes which I relate to/ agree on.

thank you bro. dm if u want to discuss anything.

yeah kind of but tbh this seems to be more of an american problem

not sure about that lol