A thing my halal girlfriend said to me regarding "more refined" men. I wanted to cry.

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I'm 25 and I've always wanted to settle down and have a wife at 26-28 years old. My halal girlfriend, who is virgin, said she talked to a few other guys before with her father and told me that even though the guys (mostly Arab) were in their mid-late 20s NONE of them wanted to settle down yet. She was surprised and told me that usually around age 27-28 is when men typically want to settle down. And then she met me. She said I was the "most beautiful" out of the men she talked to and was VERY surprised when I said I am dating for marriage. And that I was the youngest of the men too.
She also said that I looked "very different" and "more refined" compared to the other guys she talked to, something that she wouldn't have usually gone for in the past.

I felt tears in my eyes.
 
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What's wrong? I don't think she's saying anything bad. It seems many women complain about this (men not being serious), although I hear the opposite being said as well.

Because your HTN+/Chadlite she may be just gaslighting you which she wouldn't if you looked like this.
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What's wrong?
She called me "the most beautiful of the men she met" and said "she's surprised that I'd choose her considering the other men she talked to before". ME? I told her I'm nothing that special. Then she said "I looked very different than the others, very special with pretty eyes".
I don't think she's saying anything bad. It seems many women complain about this (men not being serious), although I hear the opposite being said as well.
She did tell me she wants to be settled before 30, ideally sooner, and it's her first time dating, and I'm her first (halal) boyfriend. She was so surprised that "someone like me" wants to settle down "what most people think is too early"!
Because your HTN+/Chadlite she may be just gaslighting you which she wouldn't if you looked like this.
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What would she have said in that case?
 
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She called me "the most beautiful of the men she met" and said "she's surprised that I'd choose her considering the other men she talked to before". ME? I told her I'm nothing that special. Then she said "I looked very different than the others, very special with pretty eyes".
She probably thinks she's punching above her weight which is extremely rare for a women.
She did tell me she wants to be settled before 30, ideally sooner, and it's her first time dating, and I'm her first (halal) boyfriend. She was so surprised that "someone like me" wants to settle down "what most people think is too early"!
Settled before 30?! This is a red flag. She wants to meet someone who settles down but wants to settle down herself years later? Wtf
What would she have said in that case?
You wouldn't even be talking...
 
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She probably thinks she's punching above her weight which is extremely rare for a women.
I told her she shouldn't put me on a pedestal and that I'm just an ordinary guy. (But seriously why do you think she's punching above her weight?)
Settled before 30?! This is a red flag. She wants to meet someone who settles down but wants to settle down herself years later? Wtf
She said in her own words "ideally sooner, given that most men here in the West don't want to settle down before 30 so I need to be realistic".
You wouldn't even be talking...
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I told her she shouldn't put me on a pedestal and that I'm just an ordinary guy. (But seriously why do you think she's punching above her weight?)
The way she's talking like as if she hit jackpot with you. You did say she's HTB right? So she should have unlimited SMV.
She said "ideally sooner, given that most men here in the West don't want to settle down before 30".
This is bullshit. She must be talking about her past. You sure she's virgin.
 
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The way she's talking like as if she hit jackpot with you.
What makes you think that? I'm really nothing special haha.
You did say she's HTB right?
yes. She's mixed Arab/black
So she should have unlimited SMV.
She's cute!
This is bullshit. She must be talking about her past. You sure she's virgin.
She is virgin yes, she told me she spoke with those lads on very short dates where she took her father.
She said in her own words "ideally sooner, given that most men here in the West don't want to settle down before 30 so I need to be realistic".
 
What makes you think that? I'm really nothing special haha.
You are HTN/chadlite nigga. And an autist. This is exactly what women want when they're older and have been ravaged by cocks.
yes. She's mixed Arab/black

She's cute!
Highly doubt she's HTB.... Sorry.
She is virgin yes, she told me she spoke with those lads on very short dates where she took her father.
Did she go uni AND stay in student halls away from parents?
 
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Women looking to settle down should date men 10 years older
 
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You are HTN/chadlite nigga. And an autist. This is exactly what women want when they're older and have been ravaged by cocks.
Why?
Highly doubt she's HTB.... Sorry.
She is, she's got nice fluffy hair, buttery skin and great soft features. Neotenous face.
Did she go uni AND stay in student halls away from parents?
She did go to uni, but her father stayed in halls with her (mother was back at her/my dad's home country with her younger siblings).
 
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She also said that I looked "very different" and "more refined" compared to the other guys she talked to, something that she wouldn't have usually gone for in the past.

I felt tears in my eyes.
ur not special any asain man get what you be getting and they can look like zero
 
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@Ozell Israelite what does she mean by "more refined"?
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@Ozell Israelite what does she mean by "more refined"?
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Your girlfriend means you’re nicer and more considerate than the other guys she dated.
 
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Your girlfriend means you’re nicer and more considerate than the other guys she dated.
Thank you! Though she never showed me, I wonder what the other guys may have looked like.
 
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She also said that I looked "very different" and "more refined" compared to the other guys she talked to, something that she wouldn't have usually gone for in the past.

I felt tears in my eyes.
Yeah its over.
 
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" VERY surprised when I said I am dating for marriage. And that I was the youngest of the men too."
Sounds like she got pumped and dumped. And she went after rougher, more thugmaxxed, probably tall and high T guys before, but went after a more feminine and weak, manlet, oofy doofy guy now. Alphafux betabuxx basically.
 
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" VERY surprised when I said I am dating for marriage. And that I was the youngest of the men too."
Sounds like she got pumped and dumped. And she went after rougher, more thugmaxxed, probably tall and high T guys before, but went after a more feminine and weak, manlet, oofy doofy guy now. Alphafux betabuxx basically.
She said she was with her dad on all these dates, and called it quits on date 1.
 
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She said she was with her dad on all these dates, and called it quits on date 1.
Doubt it, she talks like a girl who is very experienced. I think she's been with guys before and went for high psl masc, thugmaxxed, gymmaxxed, taller guys, and now dates a more feminine, low psl, submissive guy like you
 
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Doubt it, she talks like a girl who is very experienced. I think she's been with guys before and went for high psl masc, thugmaxxed, gymmaxxed, taller guys, and now dates a more feminine, low psl, submissive guy like you
She said "she called it quits after the first date after discussion with her dad" then eventually found them on Instagram with white girls, she said in her own words.
Why do I seem submissive?
 
She said "she called it quits after the first date after discussion with her dad" then eventually found them on Instagram with white girls, she said in her own words.
Why do I seem submissive?
I think she took BBC and got pumped and dumped and then settled for you.
You have a very high E personality, so you seem submissive. You act like a girl sort of.
 
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I think she took BBC and got pumped and dumped and then settled for you.
She said the guys she's seen were all Arabs. She said she remembered talking to a tall Lebanese guy but he made it clear he wasn't interested in settling down (she said he was 28) and she wondered "you're 28 why don't you want to settle yet, isn't that a time when most men settle".
You have a very high E personality, so you seem submissive. You act like a girl sort of.
In what way do I seem like I have a high E personality?
 
She said the guys she's seen were all Arabs. She said she remembered talking to a tall Lebanese guy but he made it clear he wasn't interested in settling down (she said he was 28) and she wondered "you're 28 why don't you want to settle yet, isn't that a time when most men settle".
Brutal. After that, she will keep thinking about how you could be taller. And she will probably cuck you for a taller guy. Also it's weirdly self hating that she is half black yet never talked to a black guy. Since you're self hating too, I feel bad for your kids.
In what way do I seem like I have a high E personality?
You act very feminine and submissive
 
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OP your girlfriend has been ravaged by WASP cock
 
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OP your girlfriend has been ravaged by WASP cock
She is virgin and said she talked to a few Arab lads before who "didn't want to settle down despite being 27-28".
 
Brutal. After that, she will keep thinking about how you could be taller. And she will probably cuck you for a taller guy. Also it's weirdly self hating that she is half black yet never talked to a black guy. Since you're self hating too, I feel bad for your kids.

You act very feminine and submissive
What makes you think we both seem self-hating?
Why do you think she'll femdom me?
 
What makes you think we both seem self-hating?
Why do you think she'll femdom me?
She exclusively dates outside of her black side, and you hate your non-white features and wish you were white. You both think "the whiter, the better". But your kid will be half arab and a quarter black, so it will end up a self hating mutt. Brutal.
 
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Well she said she wanted men around her age. I'm a bit younger than her.
Aren't you late 20s? And she's older than you? Fuck it's over. No chance she's htb at close to 30. You really believe her dad stayed with her at halls? JFL she got ravaged and now getting old and settling for you. No hymen no diamond, remember that
 
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She is virgin and said she talked to a few Arab lads before who "didn't want to settle down despite being 27-28".
She went to uni, she's not a virgin. I'm sorry to say she has been ravaged by anglo-saxon, nordic, celtic, and germanic cock.
 
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She exclusively dates outside of her black side,
She says all the guys she's talked to were Arabs, not sure which kind. I do know she said she talked to one Lebanese before.
and you hate your non-white features and wish you were white. You both think "the whiter, the better".
I don't!
But your kid will be half arab and a quarter black, so it will end up a self hating mutt. Brutal.
My children won't be self hating mutts.
 
Even Zhang has to settle for a 26 year old foid even though he's 25, htn/chadlite and should be marrying an 18-20 yo
 
Why?

She is, she's got nice fluffy hair, buttery skin and great soft features. Neotenous face.

She did go to uni, but her father stayed in halls with her (mother was back at her/my dad's home country with her younger siblings).
is she better looking than imman hamman
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livestream next date so we can watch along
 
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She says all the guys she's talked to were Arabs, not sure which kind. I do know she said she talked to one Lebanese before.
Brutal that she hates her arab side.
My children won't be self hating mutts.
They will. Over.
 
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Even Zhang has to settle for a 26 year old foid even though he's 25, htn/chadlite and should be marrying an 18-20 yo
She said she wants someone the same age. And to be fair I prefer women aged 23-28
 

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