A thing worse than when your crush picks another guy over you

[o_Owtf]

I realized that I live in hell today when I realized that the girl I love doesn't even have a love interest. I've been trying to get closer to her, but she rejects my advances. At first I thought that she has another guy that's she's into, but according to her friends she apparently doesn't, or at least hasn't mentioned it. Then I thought that she wasn't interested in having a relationship because she's quite studious and has lots of extracurriculars, but I found her Pinterest and she has a shit ton of couple goals pins.

She's clearly been fantisizing about having a boyfriend, and yet, she'd rather be alone than be with me. I want this girl fucking dead I can't believe this shit, I've never felt so insufficient in my life.

 

[Tenres]

Rape

 

[armemann]

your crush picks another guy over you​

this happend to me bro and trust me it is hell

no way to cope

just brooootal AS FUCK

first girl i loved

why does it have to be so fucking over

 

[o_Owtf]

your crush picks another guy over you​

this happend to me bro and trust me it is hell

no way to cope

just brooootal AS FUCK

first girl i loved

why does it have to be so fucking over

Know that feeling buddy. Did you like her a lot? I've been through both but this hurts so much more imo. Maybe I just love this girl more than the other one back then

 

[armemann]

Know that feeling buddy. Did you like her a lot? I've been through both but this hurts so much more imo. Maybe I just love this girl more than the other one back then

Yeah im 20 and this was the first girl i was really in love with

We spent a lot of time together and suddenly she just cut off the contact (only uni stuff now)

And then i saw on snap that she was always sleeping in another house and i knew instantly

That broke my heart knowing that couldve been me

Maybe bc i didnt admit that i had feelings for her

I wanted to do it but then it was too late and she had her guy (maybe like 6 months after getting to know her)

But i mostly just feel like a overall romantic failure and missed out on a lottt

Never had a realtionship at 20.5




Probably also hurts more for you because the thing from the current moment always hurts the most

 

[truecel9]

I realized that I live in hell today when I realized that the girl I love doesn't even have a love interest. I've been trying to get closer to her, but she rejects my advances. At first I thought that she has another guy that's she's into, but according to her friends she apparently doesn't, or at least hasn't mentioned it. Then I thought that she wasn't interested in having a relationship because she's quite studious and has lots of extracurriculars, but I found her Pinterest and she has a shit ton of couple goals pins.

She's clearly been fantisizing about having a boyfriend, and yet, she'd rather be alone than be with me. I want this girl fucking dead I can't believe this shit, I've never felt so insufficient in my life.

im scared that this is gonna happen to me

 

[o_Owtf]

Yeah im 20 and this was the first girl i was really in love with

We spent a lot of time together and suddenly she just cut off the contact (only uni stuff now)

And then i saw on snap that she was always sleeping in another house and i knew instantly

That broke my heart knowing that couldve been me

Maybe bc i didnt admit that i had feelings for her

I wanted to do it but then it was too late and she had her guy (maybe like 6 months after getting to know her)

But i mostly just feel like a overall romantic failure and missed out on a lottt

Never had a realtionship at 20.5




Probably also hurts more for you because the thing from the current moment always hurts the most

Damn I think the most tragic thing about this imho is that you never gave it a shot, it'd be torture for me to keep wondering about what could've been. Giving it a shot like in my case at leasts gives me certainty that it would've never worked (but you're left with another kind of uncertainty which is "why the fuck doesn't she want me")

 

[o_Owtf]

im scared that this is gonna happen to me

Life has heartbreak like that bro, it'll happen to you in one form or another

 

[armemann]

Damn I think the most tragic thing about this imho is that you never gave it a shot, it'd be torture for me to keep wondering about what could've been. Giving it a shot like in my case at leasts gives me certainty that it would've never worked (but you're left with another kind of uncertainty which is "why the fuck doesn't she want me")

Yeah i wonder everyday why she picked him over me

 

[o_Owtf]

Yeah i wonder everyday why she picked him over me

Did she ever give signs that she liked you?

 

[lmtn_boy777]

I realized that I live in hell today when I realized that the girl I love doesn't even have a love interest. I've been trying to get closer to her, but she rejects my advances. At first I thought that she has another guy that's she's into, but according to her friends she apparently doesn't, or at least hasn't mentioned it. Then I thought that she wasn't interested in having a relationship because she's quite studious and has lots of extracurriculars, but I found her Pinterest and she has a shit ton of couple goals pins.

She's clearly been fantisizing about having a boyfriend, and yet, she'd rather be alone than be with me. I want this girl fucking dead I can't believe this shit, I've never felt so insufficient in my life.

how things would be different if I was pretty boy Chadlite

 

[armemann]

Did she ever give signs that she liked you?

she said to somebody at a party she could imagine having something with me

but irl she never did a lot i guess idk im prob also bad at reading signs