A woman being able to see and touch my naked body is a privilege, not a right. Only if she captures my heart, then she gets to see me naked.

[Xangsane]

I have a fear of being naked in front of people I don't know.

The first people in the world to see me naked were my parents during childbirth. They also bathed me when I was a little boy.

During school sports, I often ran inside the cubicles to change so nobody would see me.

Sex is a sacred gift I give to a woman I'm head over heels in love with. I would have to want to spend the rest of my life that woman and she must reciprocate. She has to capture my heart, mind and soul. Therefore, it's a privilege, not a right, for a woman to see, caress and touch my nude body that God gave me.

 

[Deleted member 17723]

Disney cope

 

[Xangsane]

Disney cope

How?

 

[Deleted member 17723]

How?

cuckold mindset

 

[Xangsane]

cuckold mindset

Why?

 

[Xangsane]

@currylightskin thoughts?

 

[Ritalincel]

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Not anymore.

 

[Ritalincel]

Not anymore.

 

[Xangsane]

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[Niklaus Mikaelson]

I have a fear of being naked in front of people I don't know.

The first people in the world to see me naked were my parents during childbirth. They also bathed me when I was a little boy.

During school sports, I often ran inside the cubicles to change so nobody would see me.

I had something similar when I was younger, although mostly because BDD

Sex is a sacred gift I give to a woman I'm head over heels in love with. I would have to want to spend the rest of my life that woman and she must reciprocate. She has to capture my heart, mind and soul. Therefore, it's a privilege, not a right, for a woman to see, caress and touch my nude body that God gave me.

I like the mindset, it also often (from my experience) makes someone want you more when you withhold sex and don't give it out to any random person. Probably unpopular opinion on here but I do believe it becomes more valuable and better when you there's feelings involved and you're both head over heels in love with someone. You just gotta be careful and find the sweet spot where you don't get the mindset of you not being able to live without the person, otherwise you'll risk getting to attached and betabuxxing or simping, it should be equal where both parties are contributing the same amount to the relationship

 

[currylightskin]

@currylightskin thoughts?

hmm it will work for you but for users who are not good looking they dont even have a choice

 

[Xangsane]

I had something similar when I was younger, although mostly because BDD

I like the mindset, it also often (from my experience) makes someone want you more when you withhold sex and don't give it out to any random person. Probably unpopular opinion on here but I do believe it becomes more valuable and better when you there's feelings involved and you're both head over heels in love with someone. You just gotta be careful and find the sweet spot where you don't get the mindset of you not being able to live without the person, otherwise you'll risk getting to attached and betabuxxing or simping, it should be equal where both parties are contributing the same amount to the relationship

How was it like feeling you had some sort of bdd? I mostly hid because of my fear of being naked in front of people I'm not close with.

Thank you, it's always what I had and I'm sticking with it. I don't want to have sex unless we're official and in an relationship because it only makes sex more sacred. The only woman I ever slept with in my life was this half indian, barely HTB woman who waited until when we were official to have sex with me because she knew that's what I preferred. Then after I slept with her she broke my heart millions of times. The relationship felt more like an FWB situation (I guess that's what she wanted) and not the dream LTR I really wanted with her. When we dated there was a lot of potential because she said she was from a good Muslim home (which was a lie because she lived with her white single mother - her dad left them) and seemed like a HQNP artsy girl. She liked to do things with me and always wanted to see my family (but never hers)

This ordeal made me so upset and hurt because I fell in love with a deceitful devil who only saw me as another man to have sex with.

Her ex was some normie who did bdsm (yuck!) on her, and now she's with some nerdy LTN according to a mate.

hmm it will work for you but for users who are not good looking they dont even have a choice

Thank you! What about users who aren't good looking, what would they have to do?

 

[currylightskin]

How was it like feeling you had some sort of bdd? I mostly hid because of my fear of being naked in front of people I'm not close with.

Thank you, it's always what I had and I'm sticking with it. I don't want to have sex unless we're official and in an relationship because it only makes sex more sacred. The only woman I ever slept with in my life was this half indian, barely HTB woman who waited until when we were official to have sex with me because she knew that's what I preferred. Then after I slept with her she broke my heart millions of times. The relationship felt more like an FWB situation (I guess that's what she wanted) and not the dream LTR I really wanted with her. When we dated there was a lot of potential because she said she was from a good Muslim home (which was a lie because she lived with her white single mother - her dad left them) and seemed like a HQNP artsy girl. She liked to do things with me and always wanted to see my family (but never hers)

This ordeal made me so upset and hurt because I fell in love with a deceitful devil who only saw me as another man to have sex with.

Her ex was some normie who did bdsm (yuck!) on her, and now she's with some nerdy LTN according to a mate.


Thank you! What about users who aren't good looking, what would they have to do?

they would have to settle for what they get . muh bdd muh afraid to get naked wont work with sub-5s . if sub-5s say they dont wanna ged naked coz sex is sacred they'll lose the only sex they were supposed to get

 

[Xangsane]

they would have to settle for what they get . muh bdd muh afraid to get naked wont work with sub-5s . if sub-5s say they dont wanna ged naked coz sex is sacred they'll lose the only sex they were supposed to get

What about 5 plusses?

 

[the BULL]

i'll never get naked in front of a girl
if i ever have sex i'll keep my pants on and only open the zip and lower them a bit
males with naked legs are disgusting

 

[Chadeep]

Would you care if you're extremely horny?

 

[currylightskin]

What about 5 plusses?

5 plus can actually have much more girls so they can keep standards

 

[Niklaus Mikaelson]

How was it like feeling you had some sort of bdd? I mostly hid because of my fear of being naked in front of people I'm not close with.

Thank you, it's always what I had and I'm sticking with it. I don't want to have sex unless we're official and in an relationship because it only makes sex more sacred. The only woman I ever slept with in my life was this half indian, barely HTB woman who waited until when we were official to have sex with me because she knew that's what I preferred. Then after I slept with her she broke my heart millions of times. The relationship felt more like an FWB situation (I guess that's what she wanted) and not the dream LTR I really wanted with her. When we dated there was a lot of potential because she said she was from a good Muslim home (which was a lie because she lived with her white single mother - her dad left them) and seemed like a HQNP artsy girl. She liked to do things with me and always wanted to see my family (but never hers)

This ordeal made me so upset and hurt because I fell in love with a deceitful devil who only saw me as another man to have sex with.

Her ex was some normie who did bdsm (yuck!) on her, and now she's with some nerdy LTN according to a mate.


Thank you! What about users who aren't good looking, what would they have to do?

I was extremely skinny weighing 50kg at ~170cm, and I'm a grower, so I was insecure about that at the time.

And that sounds like a shitty time, sorry to hear that

Before I entered a relationship I gave my ex a Google forms with the most vital questions to see if our life's alligned

I'm not sure what people who aren't good looking should do sadly as I'm struggling to find a person who I deem fit for me myself too

 

[ascension]

Before I entered a relationship I gave my ex a Google forms with the most vital questions to see if our life's alligned

 

[Deleted member 17531]

getting butt ass naked for sex is weird imo but the one time i did i went fucking crazy beating her shit up

 

[Xangsane]

@Niko69 how did she respond to that?

 

[Xangsane]

I was extremely skinny weighing 50kg at ~170cm, and I'm a grower, so I was insecure about that at the time.

And that sounds like a shitty time, sorry to hear that

Before I entered a relationship I gave my ex a Google forms with the most vital questions to see if our life's alligned

I'm not sure what people who aren't good looking should do sadly as I'm struggling to find a person who I deem fit for me myself too

I used to be chubby as a guy but since uni I started to lean down and gain some muscle on top of the muscle I already had. I don't lift that much these days because I don't want to blow up (I'm a mesomorph with some slight endomorphic tendencies) but if I'm pushed, I can lift quite a bit.

It's okay. I've forgotten about her mostly but sometimes I still rant about her with my dad if I'm having flashbacks.

What would your ideal be, and if you've ever seen a woman that fits your ideal how was she like towards you?

 

[Xangsane]

Would you care if you're extremely horny?

I have to have strong feelings for her and know I will be able to spend a long time with her.

 

[Niklaus Mikaelson]

I used to be chubby as a guy but since uni I started to lean down and gain some muscle on top of the muscle I already had. I don't lift that much these days because I don't want to blow up (I'm a mesomorph with some slight endomorphic tendencies) but if I'm pushed, I can lift quite a bit.

It's okay. I've forgotten about her mostly but sometimes I still rant about her with my dad if I'm having flashbacks.

What would your ideal be, and if you've ever seen a woman that fits your ideal how was she like towards you?

My ideal would be someone who is on the more traditional side in regards to relationships. Values trust, communication and honesty the most and so forth. I was close it hitting it home with my ex in regards to personality, but it became impossible duo to long distance and different life paths. And she was quite good to me but I guess she was a bit too young to fully commit, but definitely some of the best two years I had

 

[Chadethnic101]

I had something similar when I was younger, although mostly because BDD

I like the mindset, it also often (from my experience) makes someone want you more when you withhold sex and don't give it out to any random person. Probably unpopular opinion on here but I do believe it becomes more valuable and better when you there's feelings involved and you're both head over heels in love with someone. You just gotta be careful and find the sweet spot where you don't get the mindset of you not being able to live without the person, otherwise you'll risk getting to attached and betabuxxing or simping, it should be equal where both parties are contributing the same amount to the relationship

Thing is @Xangsane would go to the extreme and would say I can't live without you and would end up beta bus

I do understand your concept and get women really attached once you've had sex
If it's a girl whose worth it I would do this like a real potential LTR

Although i have dated a girl for a long time due to going all in on looksmaxxing I have been volcel for a good 2 years

 

[Niklaus Mikaelson]

@Niko69 how did she respond to that?

She responded quite well, and it did most certainly help us

 

[Deleted member 18694]

"You will never see my buttcheeks" - Xangsane

 

[CupOfCoffee]

Bro you're too sensitive.

 

[Xangsane]

Bro you're too sensitive.

How?

 

[HerpDerpson]

and now she's with some nerdy LTN

She's ready to... settle down.

males with naked legs are disgusting

Shave.

I have to have strong feelings for her and know I will be able to spend a long time with her.

You see sex as a culmination of a relationship. Don't know if that's right or wrong, but you're risking missing out on a chance to find a good partner from a situation where sex is only the beginning of a relationship. And then bam - you're an oldcel.