Accepting that it's over is necessary

[romanstock]

This is why most people don't become religious until they're older. When they have aged and the game is over for them, they seek cope. You must seek acceptance and cope. If you keep fighting against reality, it will hurt you. 'God's plan, therefore I can just accept what happens'. 'Remove yourself from all desires so they don't plague you.' Acceptance, then cope. Stop trying, then bury yourself in imaginative escapism (books, games, or religious beliefs if you're retarded).