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The amount of misinformation in regards to PUA and cold approaching is comical, so I will attempt to cover some of the mishaps in normie cold approaches and give advice.
-Please read carefully then ask questions in the replies, I will get to as many replies as possible.
1. Setting
This is where a majority of the mistakes are made, because I dont classify cold approaching a girl in a bar as the same thing as going up to a girl in a dogpark. They are the same conceptually but totally different in tactics. I am not going to cover approaching clubs as I have made numerous guides on the topic recently with extensive detail.
When approaching in the day time, theres lots of memes about HQNP locations like approach in the library or chess club, etc. Do NOT approach in your university library JFL, I cant believe people think this works. There isnt HQNP locations, this is a retarded PSL meme, I promise 50% of the girls in your university library had O.N.S. the previous night
You SHOULD approaches at large public places like parks, fairs, etc. The common denominators are the following.
-public, densely populated (girl feels safe)
-You can quickly get out of sight if you get rejected
-People wont hear your convo
I didnt list any indoor locations because in a place like a fucking LIBRARY, everyone will hear you fail. Atleast outside you can move away from ur rejection and approach a new girl. You dont want to be failo'd by spam approaching every girl in a small cohort.
I have done over 100 approaches in a club over a few hours and I started to approach the same girls multiple times which was a brutal failo, aswell as hear "you already talked to my friend" etc. Dont get the rep as a cold approacher I promise.
I really like to walk around university grounds and approach, because you can cover lots of ground and its really socially acceptable. Ill go into specifics down in the thread.
2. Make your approach less cold
Try to establish some type of eye contact before approaching a girl, if your subhuman she will reject your eye contact but thats a softer rejection than if you were to go up to her. You can escalate with other body language to warm the approach like eye contact, then smile without breaking.
If she reciprocates, GOD TIER IOI you can easily approach and close. You have like a .01% chance of fail if you do that prior to approach.
DO NOT approach from immediately behind a 110lb JB whos 5'4 and tap her shoulder like:
NO SQUINTMAXED PSL AUTIST FACES, relax your orbicularis please! no one cares if your .1 PSL higher if you look fucking autistic!
You should approach a girl from within her peripheral vision
If her first reaction is getting startled it failos the approach hard.
I like to make approaches seem as unplanned as possible, dont be walking around like an autist by yourself going up to every girl. Instead be with a friend having a good convo displaying good vibes and then make it seem like approaching a girl wasnt your intent but you just had to.
I like to take 50 pregab + 20 bac before approaching, ideally 10mg memantine ontop but I dont have at the moment.
3. Step by step example + tips.
Lets pretend you spot a 7/10 stacy you want to approach and your following my principles on location... how the fuck do I do it? well here
Firstly, I will walk over smiling and say "hey I just wanted to let you know you looked really cute today"
SMILE THE ENTIRE TIME AND LET OUT A CHUCKLE BETWEEN THE SENTENCE.
She will respond with "thanks", then a random question if shes even 5% intrested in you, example - "thanks, whats your name"
you respond to her jester and then justify your existence in that location like "im clav, I was just doing (insert larp) and I saw you so I figured id come say high.
The convo can take any number of turns at this point so experience + NT will help you here but converse, and when it starts getting awkward, secure a number and leave. Dont try to close during the day, the most ive done is walk with them a while if we were going the same direction.
You shouldnt approach a large group of people, whether girls/boys or just girls. Ideally you approach 1-3 women. Its a bit different when you are approaching a girl near her friend, as you must get her approval to jester to the bitch you want. Ill typically ask something like "I hope you wouldnt mind if I borrowed your friend a minute"
If the friend says no just leave without a word, the girl will now hate her friend trust me. Most of the time the friend wont care as you secured her blessing, LDAR her now and pretend she isnt there, dont loop her into the convo. She will walk away out of feeling awkward and your odds go up. The same principle applies to a bigger group, if your high inhib tho you wont be able to go up to 8 girls solo.
Things that helped me is coloring, I find it best to approach in light blue or pink (personal anecdote idk). Peacockmaxing maybe or it could just be higher trust. Either way, it works for me. I also like to approach in my nicer clothing on campus.
(took this at home not in uni)
Ive only done this a few times, but sometimes if its cooler ill wear nice clothes like this since it looks higher class and mogs people wearin' gold chainz n shyte. Its also a good halo + opportunity to LARP.
ive done approaches in this and since it stands out so much girls will always comment on it which is convofuel, ive larped tons of shit like having an office job after class, meeting, ANYTHING for convo.
Cagefuel below,
Ive heard another PSLer intentionally stutters during approaches to seem nerdy to HQNP girls which i fucking CAGED at endlessly. the cunt says "uhh umm I thought Uh you were like very pretty". Being to experienced could be a failo seemingly
having good breath is also crucial, but obvious.
4. How to determine HQNP
HQNP is mostly cope because of the sexual revolution eviscerating any shred of morality, at younger ages it isnt hard to find virgins. You can tell by things like clothing covering all cleavage. Exposed deltoids, collar bones, abdomen, glutes/hamstrings are signs of promiscuity so just don't bother. Approach if you want to sexmax but not if you want a wife.
Other primitive indicators include
-peircings
-tattoos
-talking loudly/blatant disregard of her volume
-if she walks like she is some "boss bitch" and makes faces, etc
girls are meant to be shy and generally scared to cause a scene, if a girl is having loud convos airing out her buisness its a bad sign.
looksmax.org
more on HQNP by @enchanted_elixir , more comprehensive I only gave the basics.
-Please read carefully then ask questions in the replies, I will get to as many replies as possible.
1. Setting
This is where a majority of the mistakes are made, because I dont classify cold approaching a girl in a bar as the same thing as going up to a girl in a dogpark. They are the same conceptually but totally different in tactics. I am not going to cover approaching clubs as I have made numerous guides on the topic recently with extensive detail.
When approaching in the day time, theres lots of memes about HQNP locations like approach in the library or chess club, etc. Do NOT approach in your university library JFL, I cant believe people think this works. There isnt HQNP locations, this is a retarded PSL meme, I promise 50% of the girls in your university library had O.N.S. the previous night
You SHOULD approaches at large public places like parks, fairs, etc. The common denominators are the following.
-public, densely populated (girl feels safe
) -You can quickly get out of sight if you get rejected
-People wont hear your convo
I didnt list any indoor locations because in a place like a fucking LIBRARY, everyone will hear you fail. Atleast outside you can move away from ur rejection and approach a new girl. You dont want to be failo'd by spam approaching every girl in a small cohort.
I have done over 100 approaches in a club over a few hours and I started to approach the same girls multiple times which was a brutal failo, aswell as hear "you already talked to my friend" etc. Dont get the rep as a cold approacher I promise.
I really like to walk around university grounds and approach, because you can cover lots of ground and its really socially acceptable. Ill go into specifics down in the thread.
2. Make your approach less cold
Try to establish some type of eye contact before approaching a girl, if your subhuman she will reject your eye contact but thats a softer rejection than if you were to go up to her. You can escalate with other body language to warm the approach like eye contact, then smile without breaking.
If she reciprocates, GOD TIER IOI you can easily approach and close. You have like a .01% chance of fail if you do that prior to approach.
DO NOT approach from immediately behind a 110lb JB whos 5'4 and tap her shoulder like:
NO SQUINTMAXED PSL AUTIST FACES, relax your orbicularis please! no one cares if your .1 PSL higher if you look fucking autistic!
You should approach a girl from within her peripheral vision
If her first reaction is getting startled it failos the approach hard.
I like to make approaches seem as unplanned as possible, dont be walking around like an autist by yourself going up to every girl. Instead be with a friend having a good convo displaying good vibes and then make it seem like approaching a girl wasnt your intent but you just had to.
I like to take 50 pregab + 20 bac before approaching, ideally 10mg memantine ontop but I dont have at the moment.
3. Step by step example + tips.
Lets pretend you spot a 7/10 stacy you want to approach and your following my principles on location... how the fuck do I do it? well here
Firstly, I will walk over smiling and say "hey I just wanted to let you know you looked really cute today"
SMILE THE ENTIRE TIME AND LET OUT A CHUCKLE BETWEEN THE SENTENCE.
She will respond with "thanks", then a random question if shes even 5% intrested in you, example - "thanks, whats your name"
you respond to her jester and then justify your existence in that location like "im clav, I was just doing (insert larp) and I saw you so I figured id come say high.
The convo can take any number of turns at this point so experience + NT will help you here but converse, and when it starts getting awkward, secure a number and leave. Dont try to close during the day, the most ive done is walk with them a while if we were going the same direction.
You shouldnt approach a large group of people, whether girls/boys or just girls. Ideally you approach 1-3 women. Its a bit different when you are approaching a girl near her friend, as you must get her approval to jester to the bitch you want. Ill typically ask something like "I hope you wouldnt mind if I borrowed your friend a minute"
If the friend says no just leave without a word, the girl will now hate her friend trust me. Most of the time the friend wont care as you secured her blessing, LDAR her now and pretend she isnt there, dont loop her into the convo. She will walk away out of feeling awkward and your odds go up. The same principle applies to a bigger group, if your high inhib tho you wont be able to go up to 8 girls solo.
Things that helped me is coloring, I find it best to approach in light blue or pink (personal anecdote idk). Peacockmaxing maybe or it could just be higher trust. Either way, it works for me. I also like to approach in my nicer clothing on campus.
(took this at home not in uni)
Ive only done this a few times, but sometimes if its cooler ill wear nice clothes like this since it looks higher class and mogs people wearin' gold chainz n shyte. Its also a good halo + opportunity to LARP.
ive done approaches in this and since it stands out so much girls will always comment on it which is convofuel, ive larped tons of shit like having an office job after class, meeting, ANYTHING for convo.
Cagefuel below,
Ive heard another PSLer intentionally stutters during approaches to seem nerdy to HQNP girls which i fucking CAGED at endlessly. the cunt says "uhh umm I thought Uh you were like very pretty"
. Being to experienced could be a failo seemingly
having good breath is also crucial, but obvious.
4. How to determine HQNP
HQNP is mostly cope because of the sexual revolution eviscerating any shred of morality, at younger ages it isnt hard to find virgins. You can tell by things like clothing covering all cleavage. Exposed deltoids, collar bones, abdomen, glutes/hamstrings are signs of promiscuity so just don't bother. Approach if you want to sexmax but not if you want a wife.
Other primitive indicators include
-peircings
-tattoos
-talking loudly/blatant disregard of her volume
-if she walks like she is some "boss bitch" and makes faces, etc
girls are meant to be shy and generally scared to cause a scene, if a girl is having loud convos airing out her buisness its a bad sign.
HQNPmaxxing Guide: Chad Addiction & How To Scout for HQNP Women.
HQNPmaxxing Guide: Chad Addiction & How To Scout for HQNP Women. by @enchanted_elixir What is the attractiveness-primitiveness chart? This is basically a chart that puts women in four quadrants, and two spectrums, attractiveness, and primitiveness (promiscuity). According to...
looksmax.org
more on HQNP by @enchanted_elixir , more comprehensive I only gave the basics.
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