ADHD and Anxiety = Can’t fuck on the first day

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Long story short. was with a girl tn, she’s easily mtb. Kinda mogs me but she’s a slut so. Anyways I genuinely would’ve wanted to fuck but when she got touchy and shit with me it j made me uncomfortable and turned off. Every time i’m with a girl that’s fw me I get super anxious and usually uncomfortable. It’s frustrating cuz I don’t want a girlfriend I just want a girl to fuck but when it comes down to it i’m genuinely a pussy. I got a 7 incher aswell it’s not like i’m insecure I just get trapped in my nerves. All jokes aside it’s anxiety and I don’t know how to cope with it, unless I get super fucked up. Anyone can relate? I bet not hahahahaha
 
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Nigga regardless of like how I know some of this is bs

I personally had this problem with like my 2nd ever girl I slayed so I literally just smoked weed and it went perfectly

Unironically just drink or smoke
 
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Nigga regardless of like how I know some of this is bs

I personally had this problem with like my 2nd ever girl I slayed and literally just smoked weed and it went perfectly

Unironically just drink or smoke
Ya it’s more so because I haven’t had more than one slay. Brutal pill to swallow but I just gotta drink and smoke that’s what substances are for u right.
 
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Ya it’s more so because I haven’t had more than one slay. Brutal pill to swallow but I just gotta drink and smoke that’s what substances are for u right.
Yeah exactly

You won’t be thinking as mic if ur high n shi
 
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Yeah exactly

You won’t be thinking as mic if ur high n shi
fax and look what I’m smoking on, straight gas u can’t find anywhere, unless u paying $60 an 8
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holy shit what is that setup dawg, how tf u have allat in ur room
wish i could send a video all my pieces are greek, but got my med ID and my parents are rich and could give less of a fuck about me so they j let me do my thing yk
 
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Long story short. was with a girl tn, she’s easily mtb. Kinda mogs me but she’s a slut so. Anyways I genuinely would’ve wanted to fuck but when she got touchy and shit with me it j made me uncomfortable and turned off. Every time i’m with a girl that’s fw me I get super anxious and usually uncomfortable. It’s frustrating cuz I don’t want a girlfriend I just want a girl to fuck but when it comes down to it i’m genuinely a pussy. I got a 7 incher aswell it’s not like i’m insecure I just get trapped in my nerves. All jokes aside it’s anxiety and I don’t know how to cope with it, unless I get super fucked up. Anyone can relate? I bet not hahahahaha
Couldn't relate more. I also have a 7 incher but still need to get with foids that I mog while being intoxicated so I feel less nervous. I need an LTR where I can learn to fuck but that's too much to ask nowadays because she would need to fog hard enough for me to hard launch her. Sex pill is brutal.
 
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Couldn't relate more. I also have a 7 incher but still need to get with foids that I mog while being intoxicated so I feel less nervous. I need an LTR where I can learn to fuck but that's too much to ask nowadays because she would need to fog hard enough for me to hard launch her.
Ya im thinking about just getting a benzo script and popping xannies before i go out. Scientifically would remove my anxiety so that would be sick. I mean idk what else im supposed to do when my hands and lips and face start twitching and shaking from uncontrollable nerves. My lip will literally quiver it makes me feel disgusting when at my best im at least hltn.
 
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Ya im thinking about just getting a benzo script and popping xannies before i go out. Scientifically would remove my anxiety so that would be sick. I mean idk what else im supposed to do when my hands and lips and face start twitching and shaking from uncontrollable nerves. My lip will literally quiver it makes me feel disgusting when at my best im at least hltn.
I feel like utilizing drugs will only delay the solution of exposure therapy with an LTR. My last situationship I had was with this chick where the first time I went back to her dorm she offered to smd and I busted off a handy before she even put it in her mouth, then next time we were boutta fuck and I busted in my underwear while she was dry humping me. I ghosted her after even tho she was still interested. So brutal ngl, I regret ghosting her and I need another girl I can just use to finally have sex with for more than 5 minutes while fully sober.
 
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I feel like utilizing drugs will only delay the solution of exposure therapy with an LTR. My last situationship I had was with this chick where the first time I went back to her dorm she offered to smd and I busted off a handy before she even put it in her mouth, then next time we were boutta fuck and I busted in my underwear while she was dry humping me. I ghosted her after even tho she was still interested. So brutal ngl, I regret ghosting her and I need another girl I can just use to finally have sex with for more than 5 minutes while fully sober.
dam i honestly would’ve probably done the same thing bro if i felt embarrassed. Try jerking ur shit before u hangout next time. But ya idk I j want smth to chill with man idec about exposure therapy once I have a girlfriend im twice as motivated and active that’s all I need tbh, then I’ll start doing all that shit
 
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dam i honestly would’ve probably done the same thing bro if i felt embarrassed. Try jerking ur shit before u hangout next time. But ya idk I j want smth to chill with man idec about exposure therapy once I have a girlfriend im twice as motivated and active that’s all I need tbh, then I’ll start doing all that shit
I thought about doing that but I didn't wanna risk not being able to get fully bricked. I don't really want a girl either but like there's not much difference between that and someone to chill with. Best method would probably be pregab + tadalafil if it gives you ed.
 
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I thought about doing that but I didn't wanna risk not being able to get fully bricked. I don't really want a girl either but like there's not much difference between that and someone to chill with. Best method would probably be pregab + tadalafil if it gives you ed.
hard to come by without a script, I get scared to asked my doctor for pregab and i’d have to research tadafil. I usually just smoke hella weed.
 
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hard to come by without a script, I get scared to asked my doctor for pregab and i’d have to research tadafil. I usually just smoke hella weed.
you could get both from indiamart, tadalfil is just cialis, or viagra
 
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you could get both from indiamart, tadalfil is just cialis, or viagra
should i buy some lab drug test kits to be safe? India mart is just sketch to me bro idk
 
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should i buy some lab drug test kits to be safe? India mart is just sketch to me bro idk
Bro its indian pharmacys not the cartel, just don't buy roids off of it. Most pills are fine.
 
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Long story short. was with a girl tn, she’s easily mtb. Kinda mogs me but she’s a slut so. Anyways I genuinely would’ve wanted to fuck but when she got touchy and shit with me it j made me uncomfortable and turned off. Every time i’m with a girl that’s fw me I get super anxious and usually uncomfortable. It’s frustrating cuz I don’t want a girlfriend I just want a girl to fuck but when it comes down to it i’m genuinely a pussy. I got a 7 incher aswell it’s not like i’m insecure I just get trapped in my nerves. All jokes aside it’s anxiety and I don’t know how to cope with it, unless I get super fucked up. Anyone can relate? I bet not hahahahaha
ultimately not only is love over lust but it seems like you need to try to get a girl, your obviously going to be more comfortable with someone you feel safer with
 
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wish i could send a video all my pieces are greek, but got my med ID and my parents are rich and could give less of a fuck about me so they j let me do my thing yk
YOUR SO LUCKY. i wish my parents didnt give a fuck abt me. always ruining my high, making it so complicated to get high.

btw how do u pass school and smoke a lot which i assume u do when u got a setup liek that
 
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YOUR SO LUCKY. i wish my parents didnt give a fuck abt me. always ruining my high, making it so complicated to get high.

btw how do u pass school and smoke a lot which i assume u do when u got a setup liek that
Just graduated high school I’m 19, but started smoking at 15. I went to a college prep school and I honestly just did the bare minimum. I turned my work in as late as i could get away with and just keep my grades above 80%. I used to have all As in all honors but I don’t take Adderall anymore so school for me is just however motivated I am. My issue with school was I’m good at doing schoolwork, IN SCHOOL. The second i get home I’m a completely different person who could give less of a fuck about missing school work. I would get high asf and just not do my school. I wanted to be the guy that gets locked in from weed so bad but just isn’t me. Either way, as long as i wasn’t high in school, I would be able to get the majority of my work done. If you look at my old posts on this forum I was struggling and almost wanted to dropout senior year, just because I had 0 motivation, long story. Decided to stick it through and man I’m glad hahaha. I’ve had straight As my whole life and all you gotta realize is you get what you put into school. Just do the bare minimum at least, pass.
 
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ultimately not only is love over lust but it seems like you need to try to get a girl, your obviously going to be more comfortable with someone you feel safer with
yes 100%, I’m just pretty insecure in relationships and they inevitably end with me sad for a month straight.
 
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Just graduated high school I’m 19, but started smoking at 15. I went to a college prep school and I honestly just did the bare minimum. I turned my work in as late as i could get away with and just keep my grades above 80%. I used to have all As in all honors but I don’t take Adderall anymore so school for me is just however motivated I am. My issue with school was I’m good at doing schoolwork, IN SCHOOL. The second i get home I’m a completely different person who could give less of a fuck about missing school work. I would get high asf and just not do my school. I wanted to be the guy that gets locked in from weed so bad but just isn’t me. Either way, as long as i wasn’t high in school, I would be able to get the majority of my work done. If you look at my old posts on this forum I was struggling and almost wanted to dropout senior year, just because I had 0 motivation, long story. Decided to stick it through and man I’m glad hahaha. I’ve had straight As my whole life and all you gotta realize is you get what you put into school. Just do the bare minimum at least, pass.
when i smoke consecutively i just start not giving a fuck anymore 😢haha i also want to be that guy who gets locked in from weed

do u get withdrawals?

any tips for getting higher, my tip: ever since i smoked on lsd, my highs got like upgraded to be more psychedelic
 
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walahi im jealous af bc im out of weed bruh and my olny plug is in uni so no gas for me:feelswhy::feelswhy::feelswhy:
LOCK IN DUDE, if thgats the only reason u dont have weed, then LOCK IN

not an excuse, only moneyis kinda a excuse but i always somehow find a way to score :lul:

man i should never try actual hard stuff
 
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LOCK IN DUDE, if thgats the only reason u dont have weed, then LOCK IN

not an excuse, only moneyis kinda a excuse but i always somehow find a way to score :lul:

man i should never try actual hard stuff
heroin it is then:lul:
 
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when i smoke consecutively i just start not giving a fuck anymore 😢haha i also want to be that guy who gets locked in from weed

do u get withdrawals?

any tips for getting higher, my tip: ever since i smoked on lsd, my highs got like upgraded to be more psychedelic
If I run out of weed I have a really shitty day. Idk if I consider it withdrawals but I definitely need it for mental regulation. I’ve done like 3.5gs of shrooms b4 and for a month or 2 after, when ever i smoked I started tripping a little bit. My tip for getting higher is to smoke out of glass, like a bong or something. It’s not about how much weed you smoked, it’s more about how much you smoked in one hit. If you take one giant rip that u don’t normally do, all that thc hits your brain at once, which effectively beats the high tolerance issue. Other than that take dabs, get some concentrate and dab while ur smoking. I have a puffco peak pro, I always find e rigs to be so convenient.
 
walahi im jealous af bc im out of weed bruh and my olny plug is in uni so no gas for me:feelswhy::feelswhy::feelswhy:
gotta start a stash bro, I always have at least an ounce or 2 before I buy more weed
 
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