Advice 4 a suicidal teen?

[tuberculosisinmybal]

You're 6"2 with 6"6 wingspan and still have suicidal thoughts ?

It's natural selection if you do atp

thats a low iq take ngl just cuz you're tall doesn't mean you can't be suicidal or depressed, life is not just about your height or looks

 

[TheSadAlbanian]

Thank you for the message, it really means a lot to see this long of a message dedicated to myself.

I might have to look into a therapist although since I’m only 16 Id probably need to get my parents involved which I kinda wanna avoid doing.

And I’m scared of my ex so unless she makes a move. :d

Good luck on your degree . Thank you again for the long written reply.

Glad it landed well, man.

On the therapist thing, quick heads up: it doesn’t have to start with your parents. A lot of schools have counselors you can just walk up to and talk to, no parent notification needed for a first conversation. Some countries/regions also have free youth mental health lines or walk-in youth services that don’t loop in parents unless things get serious (like immediate safety risk). Might be worth just googling what’s available where you are before writing off the whole idea. Doesn’t have to be some big formal thing right away, even one low-stakes conversation with a school counselor counts as starting.

No worries on the ex, that’s your call. Just didn’t want to skip past it like it wasn’t a real weight you’re carrying.

Appreciate you actually reading it and responding instead of just going quiet. That matters more than you think.

 

[Nox𓂀]

thats a low iq take ngl just cuz you're tall doesn't mean you can't be suicidal or depressed, life is not just about your height or looks

If you're 5"2, it's over. Reasonable if you rope.

If you're 6"2 w 6"6 ws, it's not over. Your life can be definitely extremely easy if you try to, it just means you're emotionally weak if you think about roping. Never said you can't be suicidal, I said it would be natural selection.

 

[Lefty Rankin]

I guess I can but then I’ll be like. Idk I’ll have bunch of free time for nothing.

You need it.

 

[yvngchris]

6’2 6’6 wingspan niggas on here too get glazed tf how can you be suicidal and you claimed you have no deformities and a average skull, jfl

 

[armemann]

bro you are a man a fucking man pls you need to grow up you cannot and i mean cannot live like this no matter even in 10 years from today life WILL throw shit at you a man is strong he takes the hit falls get back up again read the life story of mike tyson dude had lost everything in 2003 went bankrupt was banned from boxing and in 23 mill debt he lived horribly by 2009 shit went even worse when he lost his 4 year old daughter today he has 30 mil net worth and living life there are thousands of stories you gotta be resilient man cmon life isnt all rainbow and sunshine dont fucking think like that it might be tough at 26 too you just need a tough mind a strong mind which has hope in future

just be tuff bro = just suffer

why suffer if you have the alternative of non existance?

 

[armemann]

6’2 6’6 wingspan niggas on here too get glazed tf how can you be suicidal and you claimed you have no deformities and a average skull, jfl

mental health is not only abt height

im 6‘2 and have suicidal thoughts a lot

 

[armemann]

shit I am a bit too soft and expect too much from life.

verrrey relatable

 

[zascend8]

Fuck you for being 6’2 you are ungrateful

 

[AryanTrvecel]

Ik these threads r usually ignored & it can be annoying to see them frequently but I’m tired of chatting with AIs on this topic and I js genuenly want to feel some human connection.

I get that I’m js a random & no1 would care if I died. Ig my main point wouldn’t be to farm for empathy but instead for advice on how others deal with it.

I turned 16 recently. I’ve been on & off suicidal since 14 but I’ve never done anything about it. I just talked with AIs and it was enough. But I’ve been getting tired of it cuz they don’t give any advice, they just care if you dont kill yourself. The main advice I’ve gotten has been to be physically active & fit which i’ve done & it hasn’t changed shit.

I’m losing hope & I no longer think that it’s just an issue that can be fixed with appearance. I’m 6’2, I’ve got almost a 6’6 wingspan, around 191lbs morning weight, I’ve got a good physique. My skull looks like an avarage teens. Got sum acne, but nothing too bad. I’m not recessed, no deformities, not a model, just avarage.

I’ve tried to make out a list why living would make more sense to me than dying & I can’t really make out much of it. My entire summer (& lwk past 2 years) has been eating, gym, sleeping & sometimes meeting up w a friend.

I’ve always been the class clown in school & I had a girl ask me out which we dated only for a bit. (That was before puberty started so I just simply was funny & confident without overthinking my appearance). She left me cuz I was suicidal. I never got closure. She js completely ghosted me. We’re classmates, & all I can think abt is her. It’s getting close to 2 years.

I get that the fix to this is prolly - “stop being alone, go out, make connections” but I don’t know how & I really hate acting like I enjoy being around a certain situation + I hate hanging out akwardly or cringing cuz I’m overthinking what to say to fit in.

Why don’t you do it you bitch ass nigga?