Advice for guys 17-19

[assuming..]

Just date the hottest girl you can find. Even if you have to ask 1000 girls.

Hopefully you live in a big enough city where there's enough girls to go thru. But even if you generally have like a 90%+ rejection rate, someone very attractive out there should want you/accept you. Make her your gf. Now 2 things happen:

A) You have a baseline foundation from which you will not/can not compromise below. You can never beg for attention, intimacy, or love from a girl who looks worse than that ever again. Or let some mid lead you on and indefinitely drag things out

B) Other girls will be impressed by what you were able to lock down and now want to take you from her. You now have pretty girls you can do your wilder fantasy shit with, instead of trying to pull those edgier desires out of your main gf. If your main leaves you over this, so what. You're 19, you just go get another one.

If you're still cheating at 26/27 however and a beautiful girl dumps you over it, I dunno that I can guarantee you'll get another on her par, and you might have to settle with a lesser one for reproduction. Just something to be aware of

 

[greylurker]

Just date the hottest girl you can find. Even if you have to go thru and ask 1000 girls.

Hopefully you live in a big enough city where there's enough girls to go through. But even if you have very bad results, someone very attractive out there should want you/accept you. Make her your gf. Now 2 things happen:

A) You have a baseline foundation from which you will not/can not compromise below. You can never beg for attention, intimacy, or love from a girl who looks worse than that ever again. Or let her lead you on and indefinitely drag things out

B) Other girls will see what you were able to get and now want to take you from her. You know have pretty girls you can do your wilder fantasy shit with, instead of trying to pull that out of your main gf

if you cold approach 100 girls, is it realistic to get a girlfirend from that?

 

[Nyrо]

if you cold approach 100 girls, is it realistic to get a girlfirend from that?

Yes but really loyal one

 

[greylurker]

Yes but really loyal one

i will cold approach girls when i go back to univesity. if i shoot my shot at least 100 times theres no chance i dont go on at least 1 date, so i might as well try

 

[Nyrо]

i will cold approach girls when i go back to univesity. if i shoot my shot at least 100 times theres no chance i dont go on at least 1 date, so i might as well try

But after the 20th you will be a walking laugh figure