Advice on shy girls????

[Absurdist]

Well ive got a new girl on my radar. We sat next to eachother at some assembly or whatever. And i never noticed her but she kinda looks like zendaya. I dunno shes kinda cute.

She seemed shy so I held off on talking and just did non-verbal cues. So I start playing eyetag with her, so its just like a back and forth for like half an hour. I also got closer to test the water, and she didn't move away (thankfully). She even moved closer too. And by the end of it we made a longer eye contact and she gave me a flustered smile. So I think its going pretty good.

The issue is. I don't take any classes with her and shes also extremely shy. I asked some dude about her and he said hes talked to her but shes introverted asf.

So how tf am i supposed to talk to her? I don't want to scare her away or inmediately seem like im tryna hit on her.

 

[CheezyPoof]

Idk but girls like that usually are into music and stuff maybe you can ask about that

 

[Absurdist]

Idk but girls like that usually are into music and stuff maybe you can ask about that

True im big into music. I can talk with girls normally, but shes just real shy so I don't know how to approach.

She also has a twin sister in the same class. Her sister is the opposite.

 

[CheezyPoof]

True im big into music. I can talk with girls normally, but shes just real shy so I don't know how to approach.

She also has a twin sister in the same class. Her sister is the opposite.

Ok so now you already have two subjects , you can say hey you’re twins right what’s that like? And you can say they seem different like she’s more quiet (but not in a bad way of course). Then you say I’m also a bit more like that (if you are) then you can ask if she also likes music (probably she does), then you just go from there. Idk I don’t have the best social skills myself but maybe that’s a start. If she’s not repulsed by you she’ll probably talk

 

[Absurdist]

Ok so now you already have two subjects , you can say hey you’re twins right what’s that like? And you can say they seem different like she’s more quiet (but not in a bad way of course). Then you say I’m also a bit more like that (if you are) then you can ask if she also likes music (probably she does), then you just go from there. Idk I don’t have the best social skills myself but maybe that’s a start. If she’s not repulsed by you she’ll probably talk

Thats good.

Now i need to find a decent way to approach.

Its honestly the hardest part.

Holding a convo ain't that hard for me. Its just starting it.

 

[Absurdist]

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[DrRodger]

Drop it

 

[Absurdist]

Drop it

drop what?

 

[DrRodger]

drop what?

Just don't talk to her

 

[Absurdist]

Just don't talk to her

Why would i not talk to her?

 

[CheezyPoof]

No bro talk to her and post updates I hope it will go well for you

 

[Absurdist]

No bro talk to her and post updates I hope it will go well for you

Thanks man

I will. Trust me.

 

[muhammad18347]

Well ive got a new girl on my radar. We sat next to eachother at some assembly or whatever. And i never noticed her but she kinda looks like zendaya. I dunno shes kinda cute.

She seemed shy so I held off on talking and just did non-verbal cues. So I start playing eyetag with her, so its just like a back and forth for like half an hour. I also got closer to test the water, and she didn't move away (thankfully). She even moved closer too. And by the end of it we made a longer eye contact and she gave me a flustered smile. So I think its going pretty good.

The issue is. I don't take any classes with her and shes also extremely shy. I asked some dude about her and he said hes talked to her but shes introverted asf.

So how tf am i supposed to talk to her? I don't want to scare her away or inmediately seem like im tryna hit on her.

Ur overthinking it

U ain't gonna scare her away or anything just talk to her or ask her what classes shes taking

 

[Latinolooksmaxxer]

Ur overthinking it

U ain't gonna scare her away or anything just talk to her or ask her what classes shes taking

yeah 'scaring the hoes' is mtn cope

if a foid is attracted you can say almost any shit you want unless its turbo unhinged. just small talk wont scare any foid away
if they flake over minor bs its bc they werent attracted that much in the first place and were going to monkeybranch the second a more interesting dude shows up (and the latter is probably the true reason why they flaked, they just larp that its something you said/did to save face and not be seen as a monkeybranchy hoe)

 

[muhammad18347]

yeah 'scaring the hoes' is mtn cope

if a foid is attracted you can say almost any shit you want unless its turbo unhinged. just small talk wont scare any foid away
if they flake over minor bs its bc they werent attracted that much in the first place

True
just dont act like a incel and u will be fine

 

[pexy]

if you don’t share classes

all you can really do is just shoot your shot

it’s hard to be friends with her first

 

[Absurdist]

Ur overthinking it

U ain't gonna scare her away or anything just talk to her or ask her what classes shes taking

True, I am overthinking it.

yeah 'scaring the hoes' is mtn cope

if a foid is attracted you can say almost any shit you want unless its turbo unhinged. just small talk wont scare any foid away
if they flake over minor bs its bc they werent attracted that much in the first place and were going to monkeybranch the second a more interesting dude shows up

Yeah ur prob right mane. I was a total idiot with my ex and she still somehow kept crushing on me.

 

[Absurdist]

just dont act like a incel and u will be fine

its chill cause im pretty NT and not close to incel.

only thing that makes me "different" from the avg normie is being a complete mentalcel.