After ascending i can't fall in love

[Thomassub5]

I've ascended a tad bit in the last couple of months by doing basic softmaxxes and it's shown to work due to me getting asked for my snap at school and hearing that some girls in other classes think i'm hot, and i don't struggle talking to girls either. But no matter how hard i try to be interested in a girl whether it's someone who slid into my dms or someone i talk to a lot at school, i just can't seem to interested in them whatsoever no matter how hard i want to. Is it just me who struggles with this?

Heres what i look like now and the last pic to the far right is from summer

 

[sladeorg]

asexual or gay
you pick

 

[Thomassub5]

asexual or gay
you pick

Defo not gay so asexual maybe, but i can still get my wood up when having sex so i don't even know

 

[AliSlayss]

I've ascended a tad bit in the last couple of months by doing basic softmaxxes and it's shown to work due to me getting asked for my snap at school and hearing that some girls in other classes think i'm hot, and i don't struggle talking to girls either. But no matter how hard i try to be interested in a girl whether it's someone who slid into my dms or someone i talk to a lot at school, i just can't seem to interested in them whatsoever no matter how hard i want to. Is it just me who struggles with this?

Heres what i look like now and the last pic to the far right is from summerView attachment 4349598View attachment 4349587View attachment 4349584View attachment 4349578View attachment 4349576View attachment 4349571

You just haven’t adjusted yet to new perception people have of you yet… you have pretty decent appeal now with haircut + dressing sense.. you are viewing life through the lens of these people only like me because “i look better now”… “love isn’t real”… “this is fake”.. just shift your perspective to yes that is all true but that doesn’t mean i’m not going to enjoy life. Upkeep your look, understand reality, now move on to maxxing other areas of life, and living too hard in reality 24/7. Allow yourself to let go of mentalities to enjoy moments for a while

 

[cctslbz]

How do you even fix this cause I think this is a subject that’s not talked about much cause people who experience this can’t be gay but maybe asexual idk