After looksmaxxing, rejection / ghosting can feel even more unbearable and disheartening

[Beau_Gosse]

Because you’ve actually made efforts and spent money. The worse thing happens when you care too much. It’s just like you don’t give a fuck about scores when taking an online course for free, but once you’ve paid for a course and studied hard, bad scores will disappoint you a lot.

I definitely get attention and action from more and better looking girls than in my pre looksmaxxing days. But ironically but confidence has not really improved, if it has not worsened JFL. All because now being blackpilled I’m fully aware. If a girl rejected me before I just laugh it off and forget about it the second day. Now even if some chick is replying slower I’d wonder if I don’t look my best today or she’s seen me from some bad angles or met a better looking guy LMAO.

Unfortunately it’s unlikely for you to get so much validation for an immediate and permanent confidence boost, unless you’re some famous statusmaxxed chad or you geomaxx. All you can do is remain stoic and not care too much, focusing on your long term progress. That’s just what males are supposed to do.

 

[Foreverbrad]

Interesting timing for this thread. Really ties in with what I'm saying here:

Temporary disfigurement as a motivational aid?

I am wasting hundreds of hours chasing after girls on tinder that I used to be able to get but are now impossible. I need to devote every waking minute of my life to looksmaxing (or money-for-surgery-maxing) but it's getting derailed because I can't let go of the fact that I used not to be...

looksmax.org

I'm certainly finding it hard to keep going while seeing negative improvement on my treatment by foids.

 

[NumbThePain]

Agree, sometimes I think in the passed when I got ewwed at in public it made sense, I was a bluepilled ugly bloated subhuman that didnt care about my looks, body and clothes yet.

But now I still get ewwed at or bullied in public when fully leanmaxxed, hairmaxxed and with fashionable clothes. Soul crushing. Thats when u know ur face is just that hideous.

See how things go, after hardmaxxed like surgery.

 

[stressftw]

Because you’ve actually made efforts and spent money. The worse thing happens when you care too much. It’s just like you don’t give a fuck about scores when taking an online course for free, but once you’ve paid for a course and studied hard, bad scores will disappoint you a lot.

I definitely get attention and action from more and better looking girls than in my pre looksmaxxing days. But ironically but confidence has not really improved, if it has not worsened JFL. All because now being blackpilled I’m fully aware. If a girl rejected me before I just laugh it off and forget about it the second day. Now even if some chick is replying slower I’d wonder if I don’t look my best today or she’s seen me from some bad angles or met a better looking guy LMAO.

Unfortunately it’s unlikely for you to get so much validation for an immediate and permanent confidence boost, unless you’re some famous statusmaxxed chad or you geomaxx. All you can do is remain stoic and not care too much, focusing on your long term progress. That’s just what males are supposed to do.

Only with the wrong mentality and if you let your ego uleashed

Looksmax should be about feeling good with yourself and to objectively increase the opportunities that good looks can yield you (with women, socially and professionally). Still, life is about more "no' than "yes" and you will deal with rejection and frustration in every field of your life regardless.

If your predisposition to frustration increases accordingly to your improvement, you are seeing the world with the wrong lenses and things will end up bad for your mental health.

 

[its_over_for_me_?]

looksmax is life

 

[mvp2v1]

One day looksmaxers will be looked back upon as way ahead of their time.

 

[Deleted member 19944]

Because you’ve actually made efforts and spent money. The worse thing happens when you care too much. It’s just like you don’t give a fuck about scores when taking an online course for free, but once you’ve paid for a course and studied hard, bad scores will disappoint you a lot.

I definitely get attention and action from more and better looking girls than in my pre looksmaxxing days. But ironically but confidence has not really improved, if it has not worsened JFL. All because now being blackpilled I’m fully aware. If a girl rejected me before I just laugh it off and forget about it the second day. Now even if some chick is replying slower I’d wonder if I don’t look my best today or she’s seen me from some bad angles or met a better looking guy LMAO.

Unfortunately it’s unlikely for you to get so much validation for an immediate and permanent confidence boost, unless you’re some famous statusmaxxed chad or you geomaxx. All you can do is remain stoic and not care too much, focusing on your long term progress. That’s just what males are supposed to do.

What would you do if some hick was trying to say you were an idiot etc for caring about anything but personal manliness lol

 

[Deleted member 3828]

looksmax is life

@thecel doing amazing work

 

[lepo2317]

Agree, sometimes I think in the passed when I got ewwed at in public it made sense, I was a bluepilled ugly bloated subhuman that didnt care about my looks, body and clothes yet.

But now I still get ewwed at or bullied in public when fully leanmaxxed, hairmaxxed and with fashionable clothes. Soul crushing. Thats when u know ur face is just that hideous.

See how things go, after hardmaxxed like surgery.

It must be really weird feeling when you are ugly, you get your jaw fixed and sudenly bitches start smiling at you/approaching you. That's crazy. There are jawsurgery forums and people say that other people treat them better after surgery. Even bluepilled normies see difference.

 

[thereallegend]

bro stop

have you seen a fat girl girl's tinder before?

that should eliminate your oneitis