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Theres a massive correlation between a woman being selective in dating, and having good personality traits. Self respect, confidence, no need for male validation etc. shes less likely to cheat on you. You want a confident woman.
It makes it even more brutal for 80% of dudes. Because it means that all the good women who are actually selective are Chad only.
I think its another reason why men want virgin women. Because they are more selective. If you are picked by a virgin woman, it increases your status.
Ive also had dating experience with a girl who had standards, and a girl who was a virgin and selective(my current gf) , and the difference is night and day in how they act. My ex, the one with no standards, i could never keep her satisfied. She simply needed to know every man wanted her, and she was great for a few months, but these type of girls never last. She basically micro cheated on me in that relationship.
Meanwhile, my current selective gf, she is insanely loyal. She doesnt disobey direct orders. I feel no uncertainty about how she feels. No games etc. The difference between them was simply confidence. My ex needed male validation to feel confident, my current gf is internally confident.
It makes it even more brutal for 80% of dudes. Because it means that all the good women who are actually selective are Chad only.
I think its another reason why men want virgin women. Because they are more selective. If you are picked by a virgin woman, it increases your status.
Ive also had dating experience with a girl who had standards, and a girl who was a virgin and selective(my current gf) , and the difference is night and day in how they act. My ex, the one with no standards, i could never keep her satisfied. She simply needed to know every man wanted her, and she was great for a few months, but these type of girls never last. She basically micro cheated on me in that relationship.
Meanwhile, my current selective gf, she is insanely loyal. She doesnt disobey direct orders. I feel no uncertainty about how she feels. No games etc. The difference between them was simply confidence. My ex needed male validation to feel confident, my current gf is internally confident.
