InnerVoid
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in HS it was impossible to socialize after the first year. People's opinions and perception of others and yourself were already determined by that point and they would never fucking change ever.
there was nothing that can be done at that point. you can try different things all ypu want people will always hate you. to this day, i have done lots of stuff, these people in HS still see me the same way they did when we were 12. It never changes ever. I have gottne more repsect from strangers unironically.
If you dont have friends and social network by 12-13 then its over. You gonna be stuck with shitty people for 6 years till school ends, you miss out on everything and life is basically set after 17-18. in college, people already expect you to have friends since HS and it gets worse as you get older.
Copers gonna say my defeatism muh mindset, but thats just how things work here in my country. this game is fucking rigged.
there was nothing that can be done at that point. you can try different things all ypu want people will always hate you. to this day, i have done lots of stuff, these people in HS still see me the same way they did when we were 12. It never changes ever. I have gottne more repsect from strangers unironically.
If you dont have friends and social network by 12-13 then its over. You gonna be stuck with shitty people for 6 years till school ends, you miss out on everything and life is basically set after 17-18. in college, people already expect you to have friends since HS and it gets worse as you get older.
Copers gonna say my defeatism muh mindset, but thats just how things work here in my country. this game is fucking rigged.