All the marriages I see around me are horrible

[AlexAP]

My parents are in an obviously loveless, soulless and purely bureaucratic marriage.

My brother married a woman after he impregnated her three months after meeting her, now they're fighting all the time and he told my mother that he thinks they could divorce (he probably only stays with her because they have a daughter).

My cousins who are married often tell they're unhappy, I know because my mother tells everyone everything she hears from her sisters, and her sisters hear the stories from their kids (fights, cheating, money problems, etc.). Btw, my mother has three sisters, all are divorced.

Among the few friends I have, the unmarried seem to be happier than the married ones. In fact, it's not close, the unmarried still travel the world (before Corona), go to partys etc., meanwhile the best thing I hear from married couples is "Marriage is hard work."

It's always the same. I've yet to see a happily married couple. It doesn't matter what age they are, they all seem to be unhappy.

 

[Deleted member 13318]

My parents are in an obviously loveless, soulless and purely bureaucratic marriage.

My brother married a woman after he impregnated her three months after meeting her, now they're fighting all the time and he told my mother that he thinks they could divorce (he probably only stays with her because they have a daughter).

My cousins who are married often tell they're unhappy, I know because my mother tells eveyrone everything she hears from her sisters, and her sisters hear the stories from their kids (fights, cheating, money problems, etc.). Btw, my mother has three sisters, all are divorced.

Among the few friends I have, the unmarried seem to be happier than the married ones. In fact, it's not close, the unmarried still travel the world (before Corona), go to partys etc., meanwhile the best thing I hear from married couples is "Marriage is hard work."

It's always the same. I've yet to see a happily married couple. It doesn't matter what age they are, they all seem to be unhappy.

marriage is brutal in the west

 

[Basedprincess]

My parents are in an obviously loveless, soulless and purely bureaucratic marriage.

My brother married a woman after he impregnated her three months after meeting her, now they're fighting all the time and he told my mother that he thinks they could divorce (he probably only stays with her because they have a daughter).

My cousins who are married often tell they're unhappy, I know because my mother tells eveyrone everything she hears from her sisters, and her sisters hear the stories from their kids (fights, cheating, money problems, etc.). Btw, my mother has three sisters, all are divorced.

Unhappy mariage genes circulates in your family. You're next

 

[Enfant terrible]

Same

 

[Deleted member 4106]

Same, and there are still people on this forum who believe in marriage

 

[AlexAP]

Unhappy mariage genes circulates in your family. You're next

I think it has more to do with our generation.

And I don't know if I want to get married, maybe this institution is dying in the West.

 

[Adriana Lima]

That's all normal for germans tho

 

[Beetlejuice]

 

[john2]

There is literally not one good reason left to marry someone anymore.
Maybe if you move away from society, then things can probably go well, but that is also very questionable in this day and age.

 

[TUSSELEIF]

Jfl @ getting married in 2021

 

[Gengar]

i guess thats western society for you. i only know islamic families in the west and the vast majority are happily married. yes there are issues that can arise but it doesnt result in unhappiness. the only ones that are unhappy are their kids who want to live a western lifestyle but dont realize the damage it does to the family fabric.

 

[AlexAP]

That's all normal for germans tho

Cope. Our family is only half-German, and my brother married a Peruvian and is still unhappy. One of my cousins married a Turkish girl, another someone from Poland. It's still the same.

 

[BrendioEEE]

This is what happens when people don't get married when they're young virgins to other young virgins.

 

[Adriana Lima]

Cope. Our family is only half-German, and my brother married a Peruvian and is still unhappy. One of my cousins married a Turkish girl, another someone from Poland. It's still the same.

oh dam Im sorry to hear that

 

[AlexAP]

This is what happens when people don't get married when they're young virgins to other young virgins.

Well my mother married her first boyfriend (my father had girls before though), it's still the same after decades of marriage. The spark is gone, I guess it happens in most marriages nowadays.

 

[infidel hunter]

My parents are in an obviously loveless, soulless and purely bureaucratic marriage.

My brother married a woman after he impregnated her three months after meeting her, now they're fighting all the time and he told my mother that he thinks they could divorce (he probably only stays with her because they have a daughter).

My cousins who are married often tell they're unhappy, I know because my mother tells everyone everything she hears from her sisters, and her sisters hear the stories from their kids (fights, cheating, money problems, etc.). Btw, my mother has three sisters, all are divorced.

Among the few friends I have, the unmarried seem to be happier than the married ones. In fact, it's not close, the unmarried still travel the world (before Corona), go to partys etc., meanwhile the best thing I hear from married couples is "Marriage is hard work."

It's always the same. I've yet to see a happily married couple. It doesn't matter what age they are, they all seem to be unhappy.

Western marriages are horrible

 

[CFW432]

JFL you idiots are still getting married post 2020?

 

[BrendioEEE]

Well my mother married her first boyfriend (my father had girls before though), it's still the same after decades of marriage. The spark is gone, I guess it happens in most marriages nowadays.

What is the age gap?

 

[AlexAP]

What is the age gap?

Six years, my mother was 19 when they married and had their first kid.

 

[BrendioEEE]

Six years, my mother was 19 when they married and had their first kid.

Honestly bro, it sounds like this might be a problem on your fathers side. Many such cases aswell sadly. Men get broken by non virgin women, and they lose the ability to pairbond themselves, not to the same degree as women do, but they at least stick around a lot longer than women thankfully, typically for the kids, but it's a lot harder for them to love. If your mother was a virgin, then at least she'll stick around aswell.

 

[AlexAP]

Honestly bro, it sounds like this might be a problem on your fathers side. Many such cases aswell sadly. Men get broken by non virgin women, and they lose the ability to pairbond themselves, not to the same degree as women do, but they at least stick around a lot longer than women thankfully, typically for the kids, but it's a lot harder for them to love. If your mother was a virgin, then at least she'll stick around aswell.

My father not only had women before my mother, he cheated several times on her. My mother was only with my father her whole life, she didn't leave him, and she knew my father was cheating. Also, he was never financially successful and he was a bad father (cold, emotionless, I never had a close relationship to him).

I asked myself why my mother stayed with him, and I think the cynical answer is that it was not Just Be First, it was that my father is 25 cm (10 inches) taller than her. Tall men get away with a lot. My father got away with everything and now they just stay together because they're old and won't find anyone better.

 

[studiocel]

Humans just aint built for marriage.

 

[court monarch777]

marriage>2 people (fight chance)
single (just you) no fights( unless you have mental problems jfl

being single you are happier because there are no conflicts, it's basic math

 

[BrendioEEE]

My father not only had women before my mother, he cheated several times on her. My mother was only with my father her whole life, she didn't leave him, and she knew my father was cheating. Also, he was never financially successful and he was a bad father (cold, emotionless, I never had a close relationship to him).

I asked myself why my mother stayed with him, and I think the cynical answer is that it was not Just Be First, it was that my father is 25 cm (10 inches) taller than her. Tall men get away with a lot. My father got away with everything and now they just stay together because they're old and won't find anyone better.

Yeah, funnily enough, it does seem that way doesn't it, your mother seems to have been an innocent virgin girl, and innocent virgin women typically never leave their first love, no matter what. A lot of bad people take advantage of that, and break a lot of women, I mean it would have been worse for her, if she left him, so I mean I suppose you can kind of look at that, and say that's the bright side of the situation.

 

[Reckless Turtle]

I think it has more to do with our generation.

And I don't know if I want to get married, maybe this institution is dying in the West.

Marriage has always been shit, it's just that in the past women had to be young virgins conditioned for marriage from birth and marriage was necessary for a comfortable life. Plus, men were allowed to forcefuck when wifey inevitably stopped putting out. And last but not least, divorce (and divorce rape) didn't exist/weren't viable. All of those factors together meant that women might be slightly better behaved within the marriage.

 

[Reckless Turtle]

My father not only had women before my mother, he cheated several times on her. My mother was only with my father her whole life, she didn't leave him, and she knew my father was cheating. Also, he was never financially successful and he was a bad father (cold, emotionless, I never had a close relationship to him).

I asked myself why my mother stayed with him, and I think the cynical answer is that it was not Just Be First, it was that my father is 25 cm (10 inches) taller than her. Tall men get away with a lot. My father got away with everything and now they just stay together because they're old and won't find anyone better.

Once you are ed (heightpill in this case), you can start to solve the puzzle. How tall is dad?

 

[AlexAP]

Once you are ed (heightpill in this case), you can start to solve the puzzle. How tall is dad?

My father is 187 cm (6'2), my mother is 162 cm (5'4).

 

[Deleted member 4430]

My parents are in an obviously loveless, soulless and purely bureaucratic marriage.

My brother married a woman after he impregnated her three months after meeting her, now they're fighting all the time and he told my mother that he thinks they could divorce (he probably only stays with her because they have a daughter).

My cousins who are married often tell they're unhappy, I know because my mother tells everyone everything she hears from her sisters, and her sisters hear the stories from their kids (fights, cheating, money problems, etc.). Btw, my mother has three sisters, all are divorced.

Among the few friends I have, the unmarried seem to be happier than the married ones. In fact, it's not close, the unmarried still travel the world (before Corona), go to partys etc., meanwhile the best thing I hear from married couples is "Marriage is hard work."

It's always the same. I've yet to see a happily married couple. It doesn't matter what age they are, they all seem to be unhappy.

dont be 2-5 PSL theory

 

[Reckless Turtle]

My father is 187 cm (6'2), my mother is 162 cm (5'4).

It sucks knowing that I find women in the 5'8-5'10 range most attractive, but at 6'1 I'm too short for the statistically optimal height distance.

 

[Reckless Turtle]

I think that childless LTRs with a virgin woman without a marriage contract (but with a will) can work well, especially if the man is older (a decade+, honestly), physically attractive, and financially stable.

I'm in my mid-20s now, so maybe this is cringe cope, but I think that "daddy-daughter" relationships can work fine if the woman can look forward to a fat will once the dude starts getting really old. The main issue would be the woman cheating, but that risk is mitigated by not choosing a slut.

 

[thickdickdaddy27]

very rarely can u live happily ever after with a women as an unattractive man and vice versa

 

[pizza]

The jews did this. Trad relationships are the healthiest until shitty modern life living conditions.

marry with my cock

 

[TsarTsar444]

The biggest reason is that its not natural for males to be all the time with their partners at home, males would be out hunting and doing stuff for days before coming home. Its not natural to be with someone looked in your room for ever, thats not how humans are. Im always more stable with my gf when we meet only sometimes not all the time, that ruins the fun

 

[Deleted member 15441]

My parents are in an obviously loveless, soulless and purely bureaucratic marriage.

My brother married a woman after he impregnated her three months after meeting her, now they're fighting all the time and he told my mother that he thinks they could divorce (he probably only stays with her because they have a daughter).

My cousins who are married often tell they're unhappy, I know because my mother tells everyone everything she hears from her sisters, and her sisters hear the stories from their kids (fights, cheating, money problems, etc.). Btw, my mother has three sisters, all are divorced.

Among the few friends I have, the unmarried seem to be happier than the married ones. In fact, it's not close, the unmarried still travel the world (before Corona), go to partys etc., meanwhile the best thing I hear from married couples is "Marriage is hard work."

It's always the same. I've yet to see a happily married couple. It doesn't matter what age they are, they all seem to be unhappy.

Marriage and Breeding is not even a cruel joke, it's evil. You have to be a legit fool to marry/have kids in 2021.

Only exception being 1-3% of females with low body counts and have (doc/attorney) careers/family money and looking to breed/traditional marriage lifestyle. So pretty much only elites/rich can happly breed/cortisol free. Good luck with that.

Women are like a good videogame. You play it for a few months and then find a new one. The ONLY guys marrying today are very blue pilled guys, they quickly find out they were wrong.

Sexual liberation has left Women unable to find a guy to settle down with them that they like/attracted too. They literally chase chad/looksmatchs from 18-28 and then have to choose between single wine drinking wageslave lifestyle or marry and divorce a turbo cuck/simp( 60% divorce rate). Women usually go through half a dozen boyfriends and hold out until late 20s early 30s and cope hard. The top 5% of males that make it to late 20s with hair/careers want nothing to do with 28yo roasties. They want 23 fresh out of uni.