Always setting myself up for failure

[xyukeeee]

Every time a girl approaches me or wants something from me I usually reject them as I think "There are so much better guys she could get or pick". It's not that I think that I'm better than them or even attractive it's just simply that. Before I finished school a actually good looking girl asked me if I wanted to go to prom with her but I refused because I thought "There are so much better guys she could go with" and then I ended up not even going there. Do you guys have any tips how I could deal with this?

 

[Deleted member 65576]

There is no looksmaxing for being a stupid gay faggot

 

[xyukeeee]

There is no looksmaxing for being a stupid gay faggot

I know it's not looksmaxing related that's why I posted this on offtopic

 

[AlexBrown84]

don’t let that broke bih in cuz she too messy

who tf them broke boys wit get out my section

just pulled a muscle too much flexin

 

[sickdawgie]

Why would you say no. Opportunities don't usually fall in your lap like that

 

[Deleted member 72551]

This is fantastic news!

 

[xyukeeee]

Why would you say no. Opportunities don't usually fall in your lap like that

Because one day if she'll get tired of me or even meet a guy that's better looking than me she'll leave.

 

[Dendoni]

Sounds like impostor symdrome or something like that with a bit of difference, you do not think you are worthy of love, low self esteem, etc

I would advise exposure - to go out, or therapy

 

[Deleted member 72072]

Try a psychadelic or some other drug that could chnage ur way of thinking/lower ur inhib