
john2
Unpleasant Blackpiller
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First of all, always date within your own league. This should be a rule that you must live by.
Always think a ridiculous number times (50-100 times, even more if needed to) before you ask out a woman who you will be seeing in front of your eyes in your daily life again.
If you're going to cold approach a foid who you think is fine in a random city that you're just travelling in, then go for it, if she rejects you, then deal with it and move on, because you'll most likely never see her again (and neither will the people in your social circle). However, be mindful, this is the blackpill - she will tell her friends that she rejected 'a random weirdo' (aka you) to boost her own ego (women LOVE spreading rejections stories in which they reject guys).
In the case of approaching a woman who is part of your social circle, or a woman you will be seeing regularly in your life for a good amount of time... never ever ask her out unless you're fully sure that she won't reject you... this means that you must have experienced multiple true IOIs from her and you must be at least slightly better looking than her. So if your target is a becky from your social circle, you need to be a HTN at least. Because if she rejects you... it's not going to be like 'oh she just said no, oh well, not much has been lost, time to find the next fish in the sea, end of the story'... the consequences of being rejected by a foid who you is part of your social circle or you see regularly are devastating. The news of her rejecting you will spread in the aftermath, women are extremely tempted to spreading tales of how they rejected a guy just as how much a heroin addict is tempted to take his next needle of heroin. 99% of the time, the news of you being rejected by her will spread like wildfire in your social circle and wherever you go to (school, work, college) if she is a woman from your workplace or educational institution.
The entire game of dating is centred around POWER. Women experience a massive boost in their egos and it feeds them validation when they reject a man. When you reject a woman, you have the upper hand and this is how the world will see it, including her, who you just rejected. When you reject a woman, not only will she go crazy, but other women are likely to flock to you. This increases your reputation and social status, you being known for rejecting a woman shows that you are not desperate for female validation in any form... meaning that you already get plenty of it, which makes males and women respect you... and women will want you more.
A similar thing occurs in the case of women rejecting you, if you get rejected by a woman, especially a woman who is within your own league... then your reputation will go downhill, normies will make fun of you for not being able to score a woman within your own league. So don't ever make the mistake of asking out a woman unless you're extremely confident and sure that there is no chance she would reject you. I have experienced a woman brag about her rejection tale irl to me and it boosted her ego, she was visibly happy talking about how she rejected a coworker, she isn't even above average btw. When she was reciting her story to me and another guy, the other guy was also demeaning the guy who approached her (because they guy who approached her was a short truecel). It's about power at the end, never be happy with being powerless to a woman.
Always think a ridiculous number times (50-100 times, even more if needed to) before you ask out a woman who you will be seeing in front of your eyes in your daily life again.
If you're going to cold approach a foid who you think is fine in a random city that you're just travelling in, then go for it, if she rejects you, then deal with it and move on, because you'll most likely never see her again (and neither will the people in your social circle). However, be mindful, this is the blackpill - she will tell her friends that she rejected 'a random weirdo' (aka you) to boost her own ego (women LOVE spreading rejections stories in which they reject guys).
In the case of approaching a woman who is part of your social circle, or a woman you will be seeing regularly in your life for a good amount of time... never ever ask her out unless you're fully sure that she won't reject you... this means that you must have experienced multiple true IOIs from her and you must be at least slightly better looking than her. So if your target is a becky from your social circle, you need to be a HTN at least. Because if she rejects you... it's not going to be like 'oh she just said no, oh well, not much has been lost, time to find the next fish in the sea, end of the story'... the consequences of being rejected by a foid who you is part of your social circle or you see regularly are devastating. The news of her rejecting you will spread in the aftermath, women are extremely tempted to spreading tales of how they rejected a guy just as how much a heroin addict is tempted to take his next needle of heroin. 99% of the time, the news of you being rejected by her will spread like wildfire in your social circle and wherever you go to (school, work, college) if she is a woman from your workplace or educational institution.
The entire game of dating is centred around POWER. Women experience a massive boost in their egos and it feeds them validation when they reject a man. When you reject a woman, you have the upper hand and this is how the world will see it, including her, who you just rejected. When you reject a woman, not only will she go crazy, but other women are likely to flock to you. This increases your reputation and social status, you being known for rejecting a woman shows that you are not desperate for female validation in any form... meaning that you already get plenty of it, which makes males and women respect you... and women will want you more.
A similar thing occurs in the case of women rejecting you, if you get rejected by a woman, especially a woman who is within your own league... then your reputation will go downhill, normies will make fun of you for not being able to score a woman within your own league. So don't ever make the mistake of asking out a woman unless you're extremely confident and sure that there is no chance she would reject you. I have experienced a woman brag about her rejection tale irl to me and it boosted her ego, she was visibly happy talking about how she rejected a coworker, she isn't even above average btw. When she was reciting her story to me and another guy, the other guy was also demeaning the guy who approached her (because they guy who approached her was a short truecel). It's about power at the end, never be happy with being powerless to a woman.
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