Am I being extremely disrespectful to my mom?

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-For context, I'm 16.5 in hs currently do keep my room messy, even tho its caused by my breother and I get bad(but passing) grades and dont rlly do my homework, I don't have strong career goals and focus on the gymcelling rn idk, and not really have a social life, and she knows what the incel culture is and gymcel culture and she seen me watch it and makes comment,

i got a 1200 on the sat which is highly above average aswell and did well on major exams

But I do cook, clean, shop for myself and serve my brother whos 16, and I have a job to pay for my own phone and own gym membership

What she does:

She always be complaining about school, career goals, and the mess, and saying "we need to talk" and its always a complaint about school and career goals and shit like this. TBH she did see my messages about roids and bad stuff but she always says "oh stop focusing on looksmaxxing" and somehow blames all the faults on the internet and it. Shell like curse at me for taking her box for the charger shit when its not a big deal and I can give it back nicely.

Basically critique me and critique me and tell me how I'm not gonna amount to anything I have no direction, and she compares me with other kids her age and say look how much better they are and saying i'm gonna need government assistance or be a "bum" at community college and how she cant pay for college and all this yapping shit or just complaining complaining complaining.

What I do

At this point, I switch rooms everytime she enters the same room as me automatically to avoid the annoyance these are 90% of the times she rants(I would say she rants everyday with 2 major rants and a few tiny comments or minor sayings), and I say "oh" and sometimes if I'm mad I say "you said it 10 times already like pls" and ngl I only did this like 5-10% of the times do critque her back and say "oh look at you your (insert life/bad habit/circumstance like a common one is you don't even cook for me or like shit like this)" and it gets really annoying I really just switch rooms and yeah or like alot of times ill act extremely mad.

This has been going on for around a year maybe late 2024 since November of 2024 last year, however, it only got really bad since the beginning of the year January 2026, this is where all of the encounters have occurred.

I find it extremely low IQ to suppress my emotions and basic logic and feelings because of "meh your related" we are in 2026 and we have higher consciousness then pure biology, respect is earend

also
, I feel like a lot of it is hormonal since, when I'm like really doing bad like I'm super late for school, SHE will not get mad if shes feeling happy, when she should be crashing out. I feel like a lot of it is energy and mood spikes rather than genuine hate
 
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-For context, I'm 16.5 in hs currently do keep my room messy, even tho its caused by my breother and I get bad(but passing) grades and dont rlly do my homework, I don't have strong career goals and focus on the gymcelling rn idk, and not really have a social life, and she knows what the incel culture is and gymcel culture and she seen me watch it and makes comment

But I do cook, clean, shop for myself and serve my brother whos 16, and I have a job to pay for my own phone and own gym membership

What she does:

She always be complaining about school, career goals, and the mess, and saying "we need to talk" and its always a complaint about school and career goals and shit like this. TBH she did see my messages about roids and bad stuff but she always says "oh stop focusing on looksmaxxing" and somehow blames all the faults on the internet and it. Shell like curse at me for taking her box for the charger shit when its not a big deal and I can give it back nicely.

Basically critique me and critique me and tell me how I'm not gonna amount to anything I have no direction, and she compares me with other kids her age and say look how much better they are and saying i'm gonna need government assistance or be a "bum" at community college and how she cant pay for college and all this yapping shit or just complaining complaining complaining.

What I do

At this point, I switch rooms everytime she enters the same room as me automatically to avoid the annoyance, and I say "oh" and sometimes if I'm mad I say "you said it 10 times already like pls" and ngl I only did this like 5-7 times do critque her back and say "oh look at you your (insert life/bad habit/circumstance)" and it gets really annoying I really just switch rooms and yeah or like alot of times if I'm extremely mad(this only happened two times) I'll just outright tell her to shut up and I do get like a slap with something else but its really soft.

This has been going on for around a year maybe late 2024 since November of 2024 last year, however, it only got really bad since the beginning of the year January 2026, this is where all of the encounters have occurred.
Dnr but yea lock in in school
 
-For context, I'm 16.5 in hs currently do keep my room messy, even tho its caused by my breother and I get bad(but passing) grades and dont rlly do my homework, I don't have strong career goals and focus on the gymcelling rn idk, and not really have a social life, and she knows what the incel culture is and gymcel culture and she seen me watch it and makes comment,

i got a 1200 on the sat which is highly above average aswell and did well on major exams

But I do cook, clean, shop for myself and serve my brother whos 16, and I have a job to pay for my own phone and own gym membership

What she does:

She always be complaining about school, career goals, and the mess, and saying "we need to talk" and its always a complaint about school and career goals and shit like this. TBH she did see my messages about roids and bad stuff but she always says "oh stop focusing on looksmaxxing" and somehow blames all the faults on the internet and it. Shell like curse at me for taking her box for the charger shit when its not a big deal and I can give it back nicely.

Basically critique me and critique me and tell me how I'm not gonna amount to anything I have no direction, and she compares me with other kids her age and say look how much better they are and saying i'm gonna need government assistance or be a "bum" at community college and how she cant pay for college and all this yapping shit or just complaining complaining complaining.

What I do

At this point, I switch rooms everytime she enters the same room as me automatically to avoid the annoyance these are 90% of the times she rants(I would say she rants everyday with 2 major rants and a few tiny comments or minor sayings), and I say "oh" and sometimes if I'm mad I say "you said it 10 times already like pls" and ngl I only did this like 5-10% of the times do critque her back and say "oh look at you your (insert life/bad habit/circumstance like a common one is you don't even cook for me or like shit like this)" and it gets really annoying I really just switch rooms and yeah or like alot of times ill act extremely mad.

This has been going on for around a year maybe late 2024 since November of 2024 last year, however, it only got really bad since the beginning of the year January 2026, this is where all of the encounters have occurred.

also, I feel like a lot of it is hormonal since, when I'm like really doing bad like I'm super late for school, SHE will not get mad if shes feeling happy, when she should be crashing out. I feel like a lot of it is energy and mood spikes rather than genuine hate
is this normal I feel like most parents don't do this
 
if ur mom wants to hwlp you you should sit down and talk with her about and you also need to sit down and talk with her about how what shes doing is annoying, stressing and pissing you off because just avoiding ur mom is not gonna do anything and might just cause more issues between you and her
 
if ur mom wants to hwlp you you should sit down and talk with her about and you also need to sit down and talk with her about how what shes doing is annoying, stressing and pissing you off because just avoiding ur mom is not gonna do anything and might just cause more issues between you and her
nah cus its deadass annoying like I'm not allowed to have a phone I gotta hide it like ik u didn't say this but I find it extremely low IQ to suppress my emotions and basic logic and feelings because of "meh your related" we are in 2026 and we have higher consciousness then pure biology, respect is earend
 
nah cus its deadass annoying like I'm not allowed to have a phone I gotta hide it like ik u didn't say this but I find it extremely low IQ to suppress my emotions and basic logic and feelings because of "meh your related" we are in 2026 and we have higher consciousness then pure biology, respect is earend
Ik its annoying bro but deadass jst talk to ur mom abt it and that u want her to stop like sit her down and talk abt it with her and then maybe she will stop if she has some respect
 
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dnr some of it just move out once ur old enough
 
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