Am I just insecure/childish or...?

[Lonenely sigma]

Was talking with a way older dude in my uni a few days back, he is 34 and I am 20.


So anyway he was telling me about how basically all girls past the age of like 21 in our uni aren't virgins.


After that talk with him I really lost the desire to ever have a girlfriend. Not because I am some sort of a conservative, I mean I'd slay if I was 10/10 and would be a degenerate, its just that I see no point in coming after someone else.


How can you even pretend there's ANY depth to such a relationship if you will never be her only one?

Is it childish that I see no point in even having sex with a girl if I am not her first one?

 

[mogs me]

Was talking with a way older dude in my uni a few days back, he is 34 and I am 20.


So anyway he was telling me about how basically all girls past the age of like 21 in our uni aren't virgins.


After that talk with him I really lost the desire to ever have a girlfriend. Not because I am some sort of a conservative, I mean I'd slay if I was 10/10 and would be a degenerate, its just that I see no point in coming after someone else.


How can you even pretend there's ANY depth to such a relationship if you will never be her only one?

Is it childish that I see no point in even having sex with a girl if I am not her first one?

You don’t have to get in a relationship with just have sex with them

 

[jeb98]

relationships are about love not sex

 

[archie_tucker]

Was talking with a way older dude in my uni a few days back, he is 34 and I am 20.


So anyway he was telling me about how basically all girls past the age of like 21 in our uni aren't virgins.


After that talk with him I really lost the desire to ever have a girlfriend. Not because I am some sort of a conservative, I mean I'd slay if I was 10/10 and would be a degenerate, its just that I see no point in coming after someone else.


How can you even pretend there's ANY depth to such a relationship if you will never be her only one?

Is it childish that I see no point in even having sex with a girl if I am not her first one?

definitely not childish i agree with this

 

[crazyguy]

Was talking with a way older dude in my uni a few days back, he is 34 and I am 20.


So anyway he was telling me about how basically all girls past the age of like 21 in our uni aren't virgins.


After that talk with him I really lost the desire to ever have a girlfriend. Not because I am some sort of a conservative, I mean I'd slay if I was 10/10 and would be a degenerate, its just that I see no point in coming after someone else.


How can you even pretend there's ANY depth to such a relationship if you will never be her only one?

Is it childish that I see no point in even having sex with a girl if I am not her first one?

look for the 1% of girls that are still virgins

 

[Eltrē]

Aren't you rather twinkish?
Just go for younger virgin women and agefraud.

 

[Lonenely sigma]

look for the 1% of girls that are still virgins

They wouldn't go for me tho lol, gotta be realistic

relationships are about love not sex

I agree but don't you think its pathetic to "love" a girl in a "LTR" with her after she got fucked hard by another dude?

Aren't you rather twinkish?

I am lol. 2 days ago a girl told me I deadass look 15. Truth be told she's 26 so maybe she's coping but you get the point

 

[Eltrē]

They wouldn't go for me tho lol, gotta be realistic

I agree but don't you think its pathetic to "love" a girl in a "LTR" with her after she got fucked hard by another dude?

I am lol. 2 days ago a girl told me I deadass look 15. Truth be told she's 26 so maybe she's coping but you get the point

What's the problem then?
No one's forcing you to go for hags.

 

[crazyguy]

They wouldn't go for me tho lol, gotta be realistic

are you a ltn?

 

[jeb98]

I agree but don't you think its pathetic to "love" a girl in a "LTR" with her after she got fucked hard by another dude?

Not at all, think about all the people in loving relationships after remarriage. my parents met in their 30's and my dad had at least 20 bodies but they still love each other

 

[Lonenely sigma]

What's the problem then?
No one's forcing you to go for hags.

Well the problem for me in particular is that my muh oneitis (an ACAB girl btw) got fucked hard by a cop of all people, broke my heart when I learned tbf

are you a ltn?

I am quite twinkish as @Eltrē said, I have a high trust face with big blues but yeah, 0 dimorphism pretty much. Not a fuckboy, certainly not in the ogre lands of eastern europe

 

[crazyguy]

I am quite twinkish as @Eltrē said, I have a high trust face with big blues but yeah, 0 dimorphism pretty much. Not a fuckboy, certainly not in the ogre lands of eastern europe

there are quite a lot of girls who like twinks tho, you could use that to your advantage

 

[Lonenely sigma]

Not at all, think about all the people in loving relationships after remarriage. my parents met in their 30's and my dad had at least 20 bodies but they still love each other

My parents met in their 20s but even then they weren't each others firsts lol, my father was like 23 when he met my mom and my mom was 27.


Idk... truth be told, I don't hold myself to the same standard. I can say I truly like the current girl I am talking to but even still, she's like... 8th one by now?


When I am on the other side of that situation it makes me depressed but its fine when I do it.

 

[jeb98]

My parents met in their 20s but even then they weren't each others firsts lol, my father was like 23 when he met my mom and my mom was 27.


Idk... truth be told, I don't hold myself to the same standard. I can say I truly like the current girl I am talking to but even still, she's like... 8th one by now?


When I am on the other side of that situation it makes me depressed but its fine when I do it.

my advice would be to not focus on sex at all. try to only think about your feelings towards one another

 

[Almost Chadlite]

more like 14-15 at best (rather ugly foids at that)

 

[Almost Chadlite]

I feel exactly the same btw

I can never register +0 bodycels as human even if u put gun to the head

 

[Lonenely sigma]

I feel exactly the same btw

I can never register +0 bodycels as human even if u put gun to the head

Sometimes its so difficult to predict as well.


That entire "introverted ones get fucked the most" thing isn't a meme, its so weird to greet a quiet polite sweet girl in a uni library then learn she gets fucked by her ex who she's "friends with benefits", brutal stuff