am I ND

[benchmaxxer]

i cant tell if im ND or NT i have very ND habits like fucking fidgeting around for no reason and im pretty sure its stimming, can socialmaxx decently but I've noticed that i copy other peoples phrases to talk to people, and when i played poker with a group of friends i was shit at the start but developed a hyperfixation on how to play better so i could win and not be a fucking retard at the table. any thoughts i dont want to be one of those retarded people who claim to be ND but in reality just are stupid

 

[benchmaxxer]

bump

 

[emomaxx]

kys

 

[benchmaxxer]

kys

 

[crazyguy]

i cant tell if im ND or NT i have very ND habits like fucking fidgeting around for no reason and im pretty sure its stimming, can socialmaxx decently but I've noticed that i copy other peoples phrases to talk to people, and when i played poker with a group of friends i was shit at the start but developed a hyperfixation on how to play better so i could win and not be a fucking retard at the table. any thoughts i dont want to be one of those retarded people who claim to be ND but in reality just are stupid

youre completely nt

 

[benchmaxxer]

youre completely nt

good to know what makes you say that though

 

[gasstationcart]

If ur on here ur ND and that’s not something u should be proud of

 

[benchmaxxer]

If ur on here ur ND and that’s not something u should be proud of

yeah its fucking over JFL

 

[barambo]

phenibut NOW

 

[gasstationcart]

yeah its fucking over JFL

I mean like only if u spend a lot of time on here, otherwise id say just stop going on here so much and you’ll be more normal

 

[crazyguy]

good to know what makes you say that tho

youre doing normal shit
copying other people's phrases is normal
trying your best to learn a skill to not look like a retard infront of others is normal
youre also able to socialmaxx

 

[silently_said]

social anxiety != ND

 

[Slayfer]

i cant tell if im ND or NT i have very ND habits like fucking fidgeting around for no reason and im pretty sure its stimming, can socialmaxx decently but I've noticed that i copy other peoples phrases to talk to people, and when i played poker with a group of friends i was shit at the start but developed a hyperfixation on how to play better so i could win and not be a fucking retard at the table. any thoughts i dont want to be one of those retarded people who claim to be ND but in reality just are stupid

"I've noticed that i copy other peoples phrases to talk to people" "like fucking fidgeting around for no reason" "i was shit at the start but developed a hyperfixation on how to play better so i could win and not be a fucking retard at the table"

Wow, if you do any of these things your automatically an autist, learning from others and fidgeting

 

[benchmaxxer]

youre doing normal shit
copying other people's phrases is normal
trying your best to learn a skill to not look like a retard infront of others is normal
youre also able to socialmaxx

i dont socialmaxx often though, i gymmaxx the majority of the time and when asked about something i know a lot about i spew out a bunch of information about it disrequarding and im not sure if i can tell if they want to hear it or not

 

[benchmaxxer]

"I've noticed that i copy other peoples phrases to talk to people" "like fucking fidgeting around for no reason" "i was shit at the start but developed a hyperfixation on how to play better so i could win and not be a fucking retard at the table"

Wow, if you do any of these things your automatically an autist, learning from others and fidgeting

just looking for input from the community

 

[crazyguy]

i dont socialmaxx often though, i gymmaxx the majority of the time and when asked about something i know a lot about i spew out a bunch of information about it disrequarding and im not sure if i can tell if they want to hear it or not

being socially awkward doesnt mean youre nd, tons of people talk too much without knowing if the people around them care

 

[benchmaxxer]

I mean like only if u spend a lot of time on here, otherwise id say just stop going on here so much and you’ll be more normal

i like to glance at it from time to time, i read most of BOTB

 

[benchmaxxer]

being socially awkward doesnt mean youre nd, tons of people talk too much without knowing if the people around them care

yeah im pretty sure im just socially awkward, but when i was young i had people come over and do social drills on me because i was lacking in that department when i was like 3, those people worked with ND kids as well

 

[crazyguy]

yeah im pretty sure im just socially awkward, but when i was young i had people come over and do social drills on me because i was lacking in that department when i was like 3, those people worked with ND kids as well

that happened to me too months ago, just because i didnt talk in class unless someone walked up to me, and im perfectly nt

 

[benchmaxxer]

that happened to me too months ago, just because i didnt talk in class unless someone walked up to me, and im perfectly nt

yeah earlier in life i was trash at socailmaxxing, had to develop it in high school so i might have been just shy