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Women need to die.
Hi. So, me and my husband have been married for six years, two years after dating. I made a mistake last Friday, and I need some help,
"Greg" is a good guy. But, he can be a little frustrating, and that morning, he was complaining that he had work all day and that he wouldn't be able to unwind at home. I told him it's going to be fine, but he didn't reply. Maybe he didn't hear me, but he didn't even ask what I was saying. He kept going on, and then started complaining about our bank account.
Last Friday me and some friends went out for a drink, since one of them is getting married and we wanted to give her a night to remember. My husband was okay with me having some time for myself. After a couple of drinks a group of guys get close and begins to talk to us. One, let’s call him “James” sits next to me and he begins talking about his job, he’s the director Of a small company, and he talks with such ambition that it makes me more interested in what he's saying. The night goes on and I've been drinking quite a bit. I can't really remember much, but I remember hooking up with “James”.
The next morning my phone is ringing like crazy, I go check it and I have a couple loss calls from my husband. When I pick it up I just tell him I stay at my friends place and that my phone had run out of battery. He seems to understand, and asks me if I’m going home anytime soon, I say yes. Then “James” wakes up, and when I ask him about last night, he just said I insisted in not using protection... I rush back to my place, trying to leave this one night stand behind me, but I can't forget this guy.
Maybe I felt in love with him, the way he talks, and he being a young man that as control over his life. I remember feeling the same way about my husband before we married but now he has mostly giving up in life, constantly working and with no ambition. His dreams seems to have faded away, and now he spends most of the time working instead. When he arrives home he ignores me most of the time, and just spends his free time watching sports or playing video games like a child, with eating habits to match.
Also his sexual appetite seems to been though the floor, I tell him it’s okay if he can’t perform and that I don’t blame him, and I really don’t. I try to be supportive the most I can, but... sometimes that, gets to me.
Is there any way i can save my marriage?
TL;DR
Me and my husband have been married for 6 years but lately we have been having issues, cheated on him friday night while drunk and now I'm afraid i felt in love with my one night stand.
Original post.
Hi. So, me and my husband have been married for six years, two years after dating. I made a mistake last Friday, and I need some help,
"Greg" is a good guy. But, he can be a little frustrating, and that morning, he was complaining that he had work all day and that he wouldn't be able to unwind at home. I told him it's going to be fine, but he didn't reply. Maybe he didn't hear me, but he didn't even ask what I was saying. He kept going on, and then started complaining about our bank account.
Last Friday me and some friends went out for a drink, since one of them is getting married and we wanted to give her a night to remember. My husband was okay with me having some time for myself. After a couple of drinks a group of guys get close and begins to talk to us. One, let’s call him “James” sits next to me and he begins talking about his job, he’s the director Of a small company, and he talks with such ambition that it makes me more interested in what he's saying. The night goes on and I've been drinking quite a bit. I can't really remember much, but I remember hooking up with “James”.
The next morning my phone is ringing like crazy, I go check it and I have a couple loss calls from my husband. When I pick it up I just tell him I stay at my friends place and that my phone had run out of battery. He seems to understand, and asks me if I’m going home anytime soon, I say yes. Then “James” wakes up, and when I ask him about last night, he just said I insisted in not using protection... I rush back to my place, trying to leave this one night stand behind me, but I can't forget this guy.
Maybe I felt in love with him, the way he talks, and he being a young man that as control over his life. I remember feeling the same way about my husband before we married but now he has mostly giving up in life, constantly working and with no ambition. His dreams seems to have faded away, and now he spends most of the time working instead. When he arrives home he ignores me most of the time, and just spends his free time watching sports or playing video games like a child, with eating habits to match.
Also his sexual appetite seems to been though the floor, I tell him it’s okay if he can’t perform and that I don’t blame him, and I really don’t. I try to be supportive the most I can, but... sometimes that, gets to me.
Is there any way i can save my marriage?
TL;DR
Me and my husband have been married for 6 years but lately we have been having issues, cheated on him friday night while drunk and now I'm afraid i felt in love with my one night stand.
Original post.
