Am I the bad person for this?

[manhattanbound]

I do know that there is a whole reddit community based off these questions but Am I the bad person for not talking to my dad, not even interacting with him when he yelled at my a trillion times. Basically call me a dork but I didnt know how to tie my shoes until I was really old, im 15 now I learned how to tie them a few years ago at 13, He yelled at my so much, called me hateful words, yet he didnt even teach me. I had to learn how to tie my shoes from a youtube tutorial just practing so he wouldnt beat me

 

[manhattanbound]

keep in mind he just thought id magically know how to tie my shoes.

 

[mcmentalonthemic]

yeah you're evil

 

[wii]

why didn’t he teach u and why didn’t u watch a video

 

[manhattanbound]

Idk tho ever since then, even if he tries to do something nice I just ignore him, because I know deep down he thinks im a ND retard

 

[manhattanbound]

why didn’t he teach u and why didn’t u watch a video

If you actually read the thread, I had to watch a yt video just to learn, I am honestly kind of slow not in the way that you are thinking but I lack motor skills. So that combined with him not teaching me kind of made it hard. As for why he never taught me, IDK

 

[manhattanbound]

yeah you're evil

I think that sometimes, because he does try to do nice things, but I just cant shake off the fact that he called me a retard when I thought he actually cared about me

 

[manhattanbound]

I think that sometimes, because he does try to do nice things, but I just cant shake off the fact that he called me a retard when I thought he actually cared about me

keep in mind that he didnt just call me a retard

 

[commander.is.ur.co]

I do know that there is a whole reddit community based off these questions but Am I the bad person for not talking to my dad, not even interacting with him when he yelled at my a trillion times. Basically call me a dork but I didnt know how to tie my shoes until I was really old, im 15 now I learned how to tie them a few years ago at 13, He yelled at my so much, called me hateful words, yet he didnt even teach me. I had to learn how to tie my shoes from a youtube tutorial just practing so he wouldnt beat me

is this like engagement bait or you just a fag?

 

[manhattanbound]

is this like engagement bait or you just a fag?

How am I a fag

 

[Alexg_lover]

You don’t have to stay in contact with your parents at all, not if you don’t feel like it. You don’t really owe them annything, if they have made you reach a point where that is not something you desire, its clearly their own fault. Maybe I misunderstood the thread since the other responses are vastly diffrent from mine

 

[commander.is.ur.co]

How am I a fag

whining like a lil bitch cause of nothing, my dad used to beat the shit out of me almost daily and i love him very much and talk to him all the time

 

[manhattanbound]

whining like a lil bitch cause of nothing, my dad used to beat the shit out of me almost daily and i love him very much and talk to him all the time

Its just the fact that he acts like this never happened, I was just an ordinary kid and I thought he thought I was smart or whatever, well he didnt. The fact that he just hid that from me and acting like he didnt think I was an idiot just pisses me off. idk how to explain it I suck at talking

 

[commander.is.ur.co]

Its just the fact that he acts like this never happened, I was just an ordinary kid and I thought he thought I was smart or whatever, well he didnt. The fact that he just hid that from me and acting like he didnt think I was an idiot just pisses me off. idk how to explain it I suck at talking

i feel you tho, like some people would never forgive him. he also tries to play it off as if it never happened even tho it prolly brutally affected my development. still grateful for example that i am not from some paki family were i would get raped by my own family members

 

[Alexg_lover]

whining like a lil bitch cause of nothing, my dad used to beat the shit out of me almost daily and i love him very much and talk to him all the time

I mean thats likely just an anacdote to show neglect. Also, even if your dad beat you, he more than likely also displayed affection given your overall perception of him. It may sound worse on the surface, but you at least get mixed feelings about him while OP has no real reason to enjoy his company

@Jenson idk I have never interacted with you, but you claim to be empathymaxxed. Thoughts?

 

[Matrix88]

I understand you, but you should give him another chance. He probably never understood that he's wrong for yelling at you, since his dad probably did the same to him

Life's too short to have bad relationships with people who love you

 

[commander.is.ur.co]

I mean thats likely just an anacdote to show neglect. Also, even if your dad beat you, he more than likely also displayed affection given your overall perception of him. It may sound worse on the surface, but you at least get mixed feelings about him while OP has no real reason to enjoy his company

@Jenson idk I have never interacted with you, but you claim to be empathymaxxed. Thoughts?

true, like he compensated the shit treatment with good genes and nice gifts

 

[manhattanbound]

true, like he compensated the shit treatment with good genes and nice gifts

Genetics pill? All I get passed down is a house infested with cockroaches, and no maxilla

 

[commander.is.ur.co]

Genetics pill? All I get passed down is a house infested with cockroaches, and no maxilla

damn i am sorry bro, better than nothing tho you feel me

 

[ASTRO_YSD]

I do know that there is a whole reddit community based off these questions but Am I the bad person for not talking to my dad, not even interacting with him when he yelled at my a trillion times. Basically call me a dork but I didnt know how to tie my shoes until I was really old, im 15 now I learned how to tie them a few years ago at 13, He yelled at my so much, called me hateful words, yet he didnt even teach me. I had to learn how to tie my shoes from a youtube tutorial just practing so he wouldnt beat me

M**dr yo dad