Am i the only one who cant fit in despite by trying?

[xXXxZeusxXXx]

I feel like i can talk to anybody, but no one wants me lmao, short responses, i know a person for a week and then after that i know the convo is dry as fuck.
Despite trying,joking(which i am bad at) i'm too serious or serious enough, if i am confident try to get info from person, then bam im a kgb agent lmao.
Anything I do, from the good(they know) i still end up left alone, unless i brute force social flow and find some what similar person, but it just sucks man.

People really glow in the group talks but i suck at them, i like 1 on 1.

Sucks that even if i were chad i would still be an incel, dont get me started on foids, what foid would want a guy who is boring/lame, after a week she will say you are too boring and bam, doesn't matter what i do, heck i could spend money on people, get surgery,anything it takes and still be left out, if only i was born/became more charismatic, i have charisma but even then the convo dies, fml its brutal its brutal.

And foids dont want "nd" guys, even if he is cl, i dont want to say its over but i see low roi, i have to put like roughly 60 percent of effort to get the 20-40 you get it?
its shit roi and its given to me by busting my ass just to get social approval(used to)

now its better but still, the amount of effort it takes to get scraps is astonishing.

So the if you didnt dnr the point im tryna make is how do I escape this shit.

 

[xXXxZeusxXXx]

I exaggerated it too much but the convo isnt as smooth thats what i was tryna say

 

[clavicular2.0]

I feel like i can talk to anybody, but no one wants me lmao, short responses, i know a person for a week and then after that i know the convo is dry as fuck.
Despite trying,joking(which i am bad at) i'm too serious or serious enough, if i am confident try to get info from person, then bam im a kgb agent lmao.
Anything I do, from the good(they know) i still end up left alone, unless i brute force social flow and find some what similar person, but it just sucks man.

People really glow in the group talks but i suck at them, i like 1 on 1.

Sucks that even if i were chad i would still be an incel, dont get me started on foids, what foid would want a guy who is boring/lame, after a week she will say you are too boring and bam, doesn't matter what i do, heck i could spend money on people, get surgery,anything it takes and still be left out, if only i was born/became more charismatic, i have charisma but even then the convo dies, fml its brutal its brutal.

And foids dont want "nd" guys, even if he is cl, i dont want to say its over but i see low roi, i have to put like roughly 60 percent of effort to get the 20-40 you get it?
its shit roi and its given to me by busting my ass just to get social approval(used to)

now its better but still, the amount of effort it takes to get scraps is astonishing.

So the if you didnt dnr the point im tryna make is how do I escape this shit.

don't overthink it fr. the more you 'brute force' a conversation, the more it kills the natural vibe. just focus on your own growth and projects first. once you actually stop caring about the outcome of a convo, the charisma comes naturally and people will want to stick around

 

[clavicular2.0]

I exaggerated it too much but the convo isnt as smooth thats what i was tryna say

fair smoothness just comes from not forcing the talk and being okay with silence. if the convo dies just let it happen and go do your own thing. being less available makes you look higher value anyway

 

[zakachiti]

if i were chad i would still be an incel

Arrono how you even typed that tbh, foids DON'T car about anything else if you are a chad, + you prob don't suck that much, just the ppl around you suck

 

[htbslayeer]

Relatable as hell, it was I period of my life I tried it hard and felt forced as shit making me look more of an autist than I actually am

 

[Foreverbrad]

Move to a different country so you can blame language barrier instead of social retardation. Only works if CL+

 

[soulless_npc]

Yeah girls don't like ND guys, unless she's also ND I guess. Those have been the only types of girls who ever showed me any attention and they had shit like bipolar, major depression and schizo.

 

[xXXxZeusxXXx]

Arrono how you even typed that tbh, foids DON'T car about anything else if you are a chad, + you prob don't suck that much, just the ppl around you suck

Very true they barely even talk, usually some group gossip and dissing, nothing serious no depth like at all