Am I the only one who can’t see himself having sex and doing other similar things?

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germanlooks

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It’s probably because I just don’t feel comfortable in my body and with my looks.
So the thought that a hot girl would let me fuck or even kiss her seems weird and unnatural to me.
Am I the only one who feels like this?
Kissless Virgin btw
 
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Blackpill cucked u then
 
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You need to hit the gympa
 
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Yes. I don't see myself enlisting in the IDF, having sex, even talking to a girl.
I think I self pity too much and my mentality is 13 year old tier
 
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do u not get any validation whatsoever irl? that could be ur problem to jump start ur self-esteem or ur just too autistic is all
 
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do u not get any validation whatsoever irl? that could be ur problem to jump start ur self-esteem or ur just too autistic is all
Incels live their life off of pure willpower
 
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do u not get any validation whatsoever irl? that could be ur problem to jump start ur self-esteem or ur just too autistic is all
The only validation I get from girls is when a girl who works at the gym reception tells me to have fun before my workout:lul:
I am definitely not autistic. I can talk normal to other persons etc but yea I lack definitely validation. Especially from girls.
 
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same i always imagine someone else doing it
it's weird
 
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The only validation I get from girls is when a girl who works at the gym reception tells me to have fun before my workout:lul:
I am definitely not autistic. I can talk normal to other persons etc but yea I lack definitely validation. Especially from girls.
u need to looksmax more and rot less. the younger u start taking care of ur diet/sleep the higher chance u can better ur looks
 
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It’s probably because I just don’t feel comfortable in my body and with my looks.
So the thought that a hot girl would let me fuck or even kiss her seems weird and unnatural to me.
Am I the only one who feels like this?
Kissless Virgin btw
Go to a party and realize how normie girls suck normie guys in the toilett
 
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I want you, sexy Baby, I said bravo, fire baby
 
 
same i always imagine someone else doing it
it's weird
That sounds cucked.
When I daydream and imagine having sex with a girl it’s in first person view.
But besides those imagination moments I just can’t see how a girl would choose me over another option.
 
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That sounds cucked.
When I daydream and imagine having sex with a girl it’s in first person view.
But besides those imagination moments I just can’t see how a girl would choose me over another option.
i mean i imagine first person and a shadow with aesthetic features
im not good at imagining faces in the first place so it's whatever
 
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Yeah I am the same. I'm also now very put off by porn also because I can't put myself in the shoes of the guy banging the girl. It's just too foreign to me and I feel ashamed afterwards.
 
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You are stuck in your head. Just live in the moment. Ironically, just be confident bro.
 
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i mean i imagine first person and a shadow with aesthetic features
im not good at imagining faces in the first place so it's whatever
Yea I also often imagine me as a better looking version etc still in first person tho
 
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It’s probably because I just don’t feel comfortable in my body and with my looks.
So the thought that a hot girl would let me fuck or even kiss her seems weird and unnatural to me.
Am I the only one who feels like this?
Kissless Virgin btw
I m kinda disgusted by most biological things. I need coke to get horny.
 
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just be confident bro
Ok thanks Bro!
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I don’t think you are that ugly, nor are most looksmax members
True.
Being confident could probably be enough for me but it’s easier said than done when no girl ever asked you out etc.
Where is the confidence supposed to come from then?
And yes I am not ugly because otherwise I would receive repulsive looks by girls but just around average I guess
 
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True.
Being confident could probably be enough for me but it’s easier said than done when no girl ever asked you out etc.
Where is the confidence supposed to come from then?
And yes I am not ugly because otherwise I would receive repulsive looks by girls but just around average I guess
It doesn’t need to come from women, it can come from your own inner strengths.

fighting and being able to hold your own in a fight is a huge confidence booster.
(A study showed that men that can fight are more attractive)
 
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It’s probably because I just don’t feel comfortable in my body and with my looks.
So the thought that a hot girl would let me fuck or even kiss her seems weird and unnatural to me.
Am I the only one who feels like this?
Kissless Virgin btw
Most men only get a few chances in life with women. It is very rare that men go around having one night stands every week. Guys who do that are rich billionaire chads with everything maxed - looks, money, personality, and anything you can possibly imagine. If there's something to self improve on, they've done it. Theres literally probably only 5 men on planet earth right now that do that. One of them is probably Jeremy Meeks. But if you are a guy who's young, who may even be good looking, chances are you are going to have to wait till your older. This is not out of the ordinary. This is normal.
 
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But if you are a guy who's young, who may even be good looking, chances are you are going to have to wait till your older. This is not out of the ordinary. This is normal.
Sounds like red pill cope.
:soy:Men age like fine wine. Men’s prime starts at 40y jfl:soy:
 
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Sounds like red pill cope.
:soy:Men age like fine wine. Men’s prime starts at 40y jfl:soy:
When I said older I meant 20's. I thought you were like 18.
 
i can legit see myself in the future refusing sex because i feel i don't deserve it.
 
Metooo bro i can't imagine having sex with any women
 
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Also 6'3 manlet WTF
 
i relate heavily , yes same
 
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Just start by getting more comfortable in your body:
- spend more time naked, walk around the house nude and do all sorts of stuff without clothes on.
- admire yourself in the mirror naked, tell yourself how great you look.
- after some time start to pleasure yourself in front of the mirror and get comfortable with that image, film yourself doing that stuff and watch the clips.
- buy a sex doll, have sex with it, watch yourself in the mirror, film that shit and watch it repeatedly.
- hire an escort but don't have sex with her directly, just get naked, tell her to undress too, spend some time together doing some other things: watching movies, playing video games, etc.
- after some time tell her to touch you, massage you, etc. until you get comfortable.
- then ask for handjobs, blowjobs, etc.
- then you can finally do the full deed.
 
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I got most likely to have sex on tv when we played most likely too.
 
Just start by getting more comfortable in your body:
- spend more time naked, walk around the house nude and do all sorts of stuff without clothes on.
- admire yourself in the mirror naked, tell yourself how great you look.
- after some time start to pleasure yourself in front of the mirror and get comfortable with that image, film yourself doing that stuff and watch the clips.
- buy a sex doll, have sex with it, watch yourself in the mirror, film that shit and watch it repeatedly.
- hire an escort but don't have sex with her directly, just get naked, tell her to undress too, spend some time together doing some other things: watching movies, playing video games, etc.
- after some time tell her to touch you, massage you, etc. until you get comfortable.
- then ask for handjobs, blowjobs, etc.
- then you can finally do the full deed.
Can’t tell if this is serious advice or not.
Something tells me this would work but still kind of weird to do all of this. I won’t go to an escort
 
Same tbh. I had the occasion to have sex like 3 times in my life (all different women) and I just couldn't make a move because I was thinking how could she be possibly attracted to me and I didn't want her to see my face from a close distance and all of that aspie shit- the blackpill messes with your mind
 
Can’t tell if this is serious advice or not.
Something tells me this would work but still kind of weird to do all of this. I won’t go to an escort
Escort, civilian, they're all the same, trust me!
 
Can relate, I’m too autistic and weird for any girl to like me, and I feel subhuman in my looks. I can imagine myself having sex with average but more below average girls (and only from dating apps cuz that’s the only place I can meet them), but for sure not hot girls
 
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Legit! Sex seems very surreal to me, I am surprised it exists in peoples lives.
 
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same bruh i'm gl but tf i'm gonna do with a 5.5 inch dick
 
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yes bro cant even imagine talking with a girl Alone 1 on 1. let alone hug one etc. KHHV at 35yo:pepefrown:
 
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yes bro cant even imagine talking with a girl Alone 1 on 1. let alone hug one etc. KHHV at 35yo:pepefrown:
Ne jetzt mal im Ernst falls du checkst was ich meine und auch dieses Gefühl hattest, hat sich das geändert nachdem du endlich ein Mädchen geküsst, sex etc hattest?
 
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Ne jetzt mal im Ernst falls du checkst was ich meine und auch dieses Gefühl hattest, hat sich das geändert nachdem du endlich ein Mädchen geküsst, sex etc hattest?
ja bro war für mich alles surreal. schwer zu erklären. aber ja man muss Danach erstmal klarkommen und sich daran gewöhnen. und wenn du lange nichts mehr hast kommt das Gefühl zurück.
 
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ja bro war für mich alles surreal. schwer zu erklären. aber ja man muss Danach erstmal klarkommen und sich daran gewöhnen. und wenn du lange nichts mehr hast kommt das Gefühl zurück.
Alleine die Vorstellung mit nem Mädchen rumzumachen ist so krass surreal für mich. Mit Sex brauch ich gar nicht erst anfangen, dass fühlt sich noch viel surrealer an.
Hoffe das legt sich wenn es endlich mal soweit ist.
Kp und der Gedanke vor nem Mädchen nackt zu sein fühlt sich auch schon irgendwie weird an
 
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Alleine die Vorstellung mit nem Mädchen rumzumachen ist so krass surreal für mich. Mit Sex brauch ich gar nicht erst anfangen, dass fühlt sich noch viel surrealer an.
Hoffe das legt sich wenn es endlich mal soweit ist.
Kp und der Gedanke vor nem Mädchen nackt zu sein fühlt sich auch schon irgendwie weird an
normal. war mega schwer am Anfang weil die von dir alles erwarten ich hab glaub 6 dates gebraucht zum Vögeln. sie war oft nackt vor mir oder hat meinen schwanz angefasst aber es lief nichts🤣 hab mich nicht getraut einfach und irgendwann hat sie alles übernommen aber danach wada auch vorbei, passiv sein ist over
 
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It’s probably because I just don’t feel comfortable in my body and with my looks.
So the thought that a hot girl would let me fuck or even kiss her seems weird and unnatural to me.
Am I the only one who feels like this?
Kissless Virgin btw
I am a khhv so I feel the same way but not about being unomfortable in my skin.
 
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normal. war mega schwer am Anfang weil die von dir alles erwarten ich hab glaub 6 dates gebraucht zum Vögeln. sie war oft nackt vor mir oder hat meinen schwanz angefasst aber es lief nichts🤣 hab mich nicht getraut einfach und irgendwann hat sie alles übernommen aber danach wada auch vorbei, passiv sein ist over
Brutal.
Hoffe einfach das wenn ein Mädchen mir das Gefühl gibt das sie mich wirklich mag, ich es schaffe das zu glauben und dann mich auch traue nen move zu machen.
Wie läuft es bei dir seit dem eigentlich, hast du noch ne neue Freundin oder single im Moment?
 
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On the rare occasion a girl will give me ioi or attention whether real or fake. I always feel undeserving and uncomfortable. Or that they are mocking me
 
The only validation I get from girls is when a girl who works at the gym reception tells me to have fun before my workout:lul:
I am definitely not autistic. I can talk normal to other persons etc but yea I lack definitely validation. Especially from girls.
get tinder for validation
 

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