Am I wrong here?

[BoredPrince]

My whole life I went with mindset that if a girl rejects me just once, I leave her alone

That doesn't need to be outright rejection, even if I notice she isn't interested, I leave her alone and move on

Now the other day I was thinking, is this really the right way?


I mean we are constantly told, that men should pursue women, and here we are not doing that

Do you think if we actually pursued women, as in chasing them, we would have more success long term even if we are not attractive?

 

[BoredPrince]

0

 

[BoredPrince]

Bump

 

[BoredPrince]

This place is so dead lately

 

[RAITEIII]

It depends.

 

[BoredPrince]

It depends.

Maybe this whole "chase women" mindset worked well before tinder and social media

But now, seeing how many guys are single, I don't think that's the case anymore

Perhaps only if you have a social circle, but not outside it

 

[bloomercel]

Maybe in the past when women were not allowed to interact with non relative men. Today the same girl will have a +20 bodycount and know exactly what she wants. If she doesn't like you, you just didn't make the cut.