Vantablack
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Long Term Relationships are not as attractive anymore as they used to be for some obvious and not so obvious reasons, especially for attractive men with options.
1. Hypergamy
As covered in my previous post, entering an LTR is simply reaching the base of the hypergamous mountain.
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Even otherwise bluepilled attractive men understand the concept of the mog; nobody wants to get left for a better man.
2. Divorce Rape
More focused on marriage than LTRs, but related. Water tbh, JFL at getting married in 2025.
3. Decline in female quality
Obviously, the fantasy of finding a beautiful virgin is long gone. Most women have a mutiple digit bodycount by the time they are of legal age. Attractive men, like all men, want to invest in a pure virgin and not sloppy seconds. Contrary to popular belief, chads generally have very high standards for women they are willing to make their girlfriend, simply because they have the option to do so. Most moden women fail to meet these criteria, and thus are relegated to either 1) Casual sex/ONS or 2) Situationships.
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Long Term Relationships comprise of obvious two aspects that differentiate them from regular friendships - sexual intimacy (water) and emotional intimacy. On the maslow hierarchy, both are pretty low on the scale and therefore necessary for a fulfilling life. Attractive men, still being men obviously require both.
The traditional direction for slayers is a phase in their life of casual sex and hedonism, and then settling down with the "right woman" after that period. This also plays into the female fantasy of "taming" a bad boy. However, as discussed before, the "right woman" is becoming increasingly impossible to find, and thus IMO a new type of relationship is emerging for chads, an emotionally intense yet sexually casual relationship.
This type of relationship is where the boundaries are not clearly defined, yet generally follow whatever a normal LTR would be. Basically an LTR without the relationship tag. This also generally includes sexual exclusivity, but is usually only followed by the woman. Thus, both the criteria for sexual and emotional intimacy are fulfilled while options are kept open.
The prevalence of these types of relationships explains a few things: first, how all women above a certain age seem to be in relationships, whereas many men are single. Basically, these women are in "exclusive" situationships with the same few chads, hoping that one day the relationship will advance to an LTR (it likely won't).
Next, it also explains why so many women have stories of being cheated on. These types of situationships usually end when the women find out about the other women in the chad roster. They also tend to last about 3-4 months, though I have seen them be upto 2 years (jfl). Thus, it also explains how despite bodycounts reaching new highs for both men and women, the number of "serious" relationships hovers around 3-4.
It also explains why the few men that are in LTRs, are usually normie men. Once the chad-widowed women realise that they're never converting their favourite chad, they date down to a normie man (many times its a looksmatch, but sometimes attractive women genuinely do date down). This guy of course gets treated like shit and never experiences the love she had for chad.
Finally, it also explains the normalization of "hooking up" or returning to exes.
Its why females always have an "ex" that they are to; these aren't real, serious exes, rather on-and-off situationships that function more like on-demand booty calls with previous emotional intensity.
Of course, there are exceptions to this. The first is obviously when a chad ends up with a girl that actually meets his standards and they end up together. This is why we sometimes see attractive men date below their looksmatch, since despite what feminists and blackpillers will have you believe, men actually value qualities beyond looks in women (virginity, submissiveness etc.)
I didn't look at the sexual market in this post ofc, since its pretty water.
1. Hypergamy
As covered in my previous post, entering an LTR is simply reaching the base of the hypergamous mountain.
"Ascending" will not save you; Life is constant competition. The mog never stops.
The things i am saying here may be water to some, but it is always good to have a reminder There are many people on this forum and in general who believe in the concept of "ascension". It is viewed as a moment or event wherein a person is finally "above" his previous life, in a positive manner...
looksmax.org
Even otherwise bluepilled attractive men understand the concept of the mog; nobody wants to get left for a better man.
2. Divorce Rape
More focused on marriage than LTRs, but related. Water tbh, JFL at getting married in 2025.
3. Decline in female quality
Obviously, the fantasy of finding a beautiful virgin is long gone. Most women have a mutiple digit bodycount by the time they are of legal age. Attractive men, like all men, want to invest in a pure virgin and not sloppy seconds. Contrary to popular belief, chads generally have very high standards for women they are willing to make their girlfriend, simply because they have the option to do so. Most moden women fail to meet these criteria, and thus are relegated to either 1) Casual sex/ONS or 2) Situationships.
--
Long Term Relationships comprise of obvious two aspects that differentiate them from regular friendships - sexual intimacy (water) and emotional intimacy. On the maslow hierarchy, both are pretty low on the scale and therefore necessary for a fulfilling life. Attractive men, still being men obviously require both.
The traditional direction for slayers is a phase in their life of casual sex and hedonism, and then settling down with the "right woman" after that period. This also plays into the female fantasy of "taming" a bad boy. However, as discussed before, the "right woman" is becoming increasingly impossible to find, and thus IMO a new type of relationship is emerging for chads, an emotionally intense yet sexually casual relationship.
This type of relationship is where the boundaries are not clearly defined, yet generally follow whatever a normal LTR would be. Basically an LTR without the relationship tag. This also generally includes sexual exclusivity, but is usually only followed by the woman. Thus, both the criteria for sexual and emotional intimacy are fulfilled while options are kept open.
The prevalence of these types of relationships explains a few things: first, how all women above a certain age seem to be in relationships, whereas many men are single. Basically, these women are in "exclusive" situationships with the same few chads, hoping that one day the relationship will advance to an LTR (it likely won't).
Next, it also explains why so many women have stories of being cheated on. These types of situationships usually end when the women find out about the other women in the chad roster. They also tend to last about 3-4 months, though I have seen them be upto 2 years (jfl). Thus, it also explains how despite bodycounts reaching new highs for both men and women, the number of "serious" relationships hovers around 3-4.
It also explains why the few men that are in LTRs, are usually normie men. Once the chad-widowed women realise that they're never converting their favourite chad, they date down to a normie man (many times its a looksmatch, but sometimes attractive women genuinely do date down). This guy of course gets treated like shit and never experiences the love she had for chad.
Finally, it also explains the normalization of "hooking up" or returning to exes.
Its why females always have an "ex" that they are to; these aren't real, serious exes, rather on-and-off situationships that function more like on-demand booty calls with previous emotional intensity.
Of course, there are exceptions to this. The first is obviously when a chad ends up with a girl that actually meets his standards and they end up together. This is why we sometimes see attractive men date below their looksmatch, since despite what feminists and blackpillers will have you believe, men actually value qualities beyond looks in women (virginity, submissiveness etc.)
I didn't look at the sexual market in this post ofc, since its pretty water.
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). This is why arranged marriages and other forced match strats like subsidised gf's may always be cope
