Anger is a punishment we give to ourselves due to some other person’s mistake

[Bojack]

What do you incels think of this axiom?

 

[reborn]

What do you incels think of this axiom?

An interesting idea but most of the time I feel like I am really angry at myself when I am angry. Angry about having made the mistake of believing in somebody or something more than I should have.

What's funny, however, is that once you get to a point where you expect nothing from others they will get pissed at you and you can not even have relationships anymore.

For example a girl may disappoint me. I am angry at myself for trusting in her or having hope in regards to her. So next time I meet a girl I become cold. I do not expect anything good from her. And then she is angry at me for not returning her feelings.

Like the few times women were interested in me in my life I had already been too fucked up to trust anybody so I was just cold to them and they got angry and pissed at me. They expect you to take risk and trust in them. But I am at a point where I won't trust anybody anymore. I will die this way. I am too broken at this point.

 

[Bojack]

An interesting idea but most of the time I feel like I am really angry at myself when I am angry. Angry about having made the mistake of believing in somebody or something more than I should have.

What's funny, however, is that once you get to a point where you expect nothing from others they will get pissed at you and you can not even have relationships anymore.

For example a girl may disappoint me. I am angry at myself for trusting in her or having hope in regards to her. So next time I meet a girl I become cold. I do not expect anything good from her. And then she is angry at me for not returning her feelings.

Like the few times women were interested in me in my life I had already been too fucked up to trust anybody so I was just cold to them and they got angry and pissed at me. They expect you to take risk and trust in them. But I am at a point where I won't trust anybody anymore. I will die this way. I am too broken at this point.

Very good points you made, but I can see the glaring flaws that perhaps you did not notice. The flaw is your emotional reaction, and not the anger itself. Anger is a human construct that some incel catalogued, your reaction, however, is purely beyond words. Allow me to explain myself to avoid confusion. Can you really, across the board say anger is real. You may feel it like a coursing rage in your veins, but in the end it really is just a sensation you feel and not something you can really catalogue or express, it is a purely subjective feeling.

The point is can someone really make you feel anything like anger? Are they really in control of your emotions or are you simply reacting because you were conditioned to do so as a child? A truly awakened being reacts to nothing and no one because nothing truly exists unless you can physically touch it and feel it. You can say that’s bluepill conjecture, but think about it can you really touch your anger like you would a wooden stove? You can touch a hot stove and see the visceral burns on your hand but your emotional pains and anger are invisible out of touch.

Going further what if you feel what you consider to be anger is, instead something different like regret. You don’t even know what or where these feelings/emotions come from unless someone really codifies it. Before we had language, who knows what people in the past really felt with what we today describe as anger. Language is simply a tool to express yourself, but it really is a crutch at the end of the day. Of course, you can say I am contradicting myself, but think about it, you feel what they tell you is anger, then you codify it in your mind due to the programming, then finally you either internalize the feeling, heal it through drugs or some energy healing, or third (this is the worse thing you can do) externalize it onto the other person/object. The third option could be considered the right option by psl’ers here.

Anyway, this is getting too long, and none of this matters really because we all know chad is out slaying biches n chit. The point is don’t let your “anger” control when some incel is the one truly at fault.

 

[reborn]

Very good points you made, but I can see the glaring flaws that perhaps you did not notice. The flaw is your emotional reaction, and not the anger itself. Anger is a human construct that some incel catalogued, your reaction, however, is purely beyond words. Allow me to explain myself to avoid confusion. Can you really, across the board say anger is real. You may feel it like a coursing rage in your veins, but in the end it really is just a sensation you feel and not something you can really catalogue or express, it is a purely subjective feeling.

The point is can someone really make you feel anything like anger? Are they really in control of your emotions or are you simply reacting because you were conditioned to do so as a child? A truly awakened being reacts to nothing and no one because nothing truly exists unless you can physically touch it and feel it. You can say that’s bluepill conjecture, but think about it can you really touch your anger like you would a wooden stove? You can touch a hot stove and see the visceral burns on your hand but your emotional pains and anger are invisible out of touch.

Going further what if you feel what you consider to be anger is, instead something different like regret. You don’t even know what or where these feelings/emotions come from unless someone really codifies it. Before we had language, who knows what people in the past really felt with what we today describe as anger. Language is simply a tool to express yourself, but it really is a crutch at the end of the day. Of course, you can say I am contradicting myself, but think about it, you feel what they tell you is anger, then you codify it in your mind due to the programming, then finally you either internalize the feeling, heal it through drugs or some energy healing, or third (this is the worse thing you can do) externalize it onto the other person/object. The third option could be considered the right option by psl’ers here.

Anyway, this is getting too long, and none of this matters really because we all know chad is out slaying biches n chit. The point is don’t let your “anger” control when some incel is the one truly at fault.

Anger is as real as the pain you feel when I kick you in the nuts. It is very real. The reason it is real is because the brain is real. The brain exists.

The brain is made so that we have desires. This is necessary to motivate us. So as soon as you reach a state of indepence from your subjective experience you could prove that you have achieved this state by lying down and dying. It should not affect you at all once you have reached independence from your subjective experience.

So anybody who is alive and doesn't want to be kicked in the nuts by me can not be taken seriously if telling me that subjective experiences are not real when we have an objectively and physically existing brain forcing us to have those experiences.

If you invite me to kick you in the balls because you have recognized that pain is not real and I kick you in the balls and you do not move a muscle in your face we can talk about anger being not real. Until then I will say that anger is very real.

 

[Bojack]

Anger is as real as the pain you feel when I kick you in the nuts. It is very real. The reason it is real is because the brain is real. The brain exists.

The brain is made so that we have desires. This is necessary to motivate us. So as soon as you reach a state of indepence from your subjective experience you could prove that you have achieved this state by lying down and dying. It should not affect you at all once you have reached independence from your subjective experience.

So anybody who is alive and doesn't want to be kicked in the nuts by me can not be taken seriously if telling me that subjective experiences are not real when we have an objectively and physically existing brain forcing us to have those experiences.

If you invite me to kick you in the balls because you have recognized that pain is not real and I kick you in the balls and you do not move a muscle in your face we can talk about anger being not real. Until then I will say that anger is very real.

You say it is real, but all you have done is write about your subjective feelings. Kicking someone in the nuts is a physical action that has discernible results. What you really are experiencing is clinical insanity. Check with your local doctor; he can prescribe you with something to make your “anger” fade away. Btw, you just made an error with your discernible actions. You made a threat against me and in the court of law you can be visited by the fbi. I hope your “anger” helps you then, maybe a trip to jail can help lessen your “anger”